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Please, just tell me there exists ONE girl on here that is okay

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Please, just tell me there exists ONE girl on here that is okay with a guy being shy.

Even if you have to lie to me, please just tell me that it's a neutral/good quality.
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>>37057091
there is
but she either lives 3k miles away in some rural shithole or is already in a happy relationship with a guy she will marry
maybe both
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>>37057091
The problem is that shyness is often mistaken for disinterest at best, and arrogance at worst.
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All women evolved to want Chad. Even those who do have a bit of a thing for shy and timid guys, at the end of the day, would much prefer a domineering and outgoing Chad. Perhaps women would overlook it if you're very good looking, but otherwise, forget it they just don't want you. Give up hope, and you'll probably be a bit happier.
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Being shy is not the reason you can't get girls.
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My gf liked my shyness
It made everything easier, and eventually, after figuring out what a girl "was", I stopped being shy.
We have been together for more than 3 years btw
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Girls like it when a guy is a little shy. A little shy, not scared of people shy
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"Shy" in OP's case means "socially retarded autist".
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I've never met a shy man.
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>>37057400
good advice. my only suggestion would be to purchase a nice long gun and test out a few bullets while the gun is aimed at your face.
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There's probably a few girls who are actively into shy guys, but they've probably been snatched up in high school, divorced, and now take Chad in the ass.
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>>37057434
Ironically the most truthful answer ITT. Girls do not consider shy guys to be men. It sucks but it leaves you with two options: disregard women, or force yourself not to be shy.
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I find shyness very attractive. I shouldn't fetishize mental issues but I even find moderate to severe social anxiety kind of alluring. I also like introverted, quiet spergs (not the loud obnoxious ones).

I think it's animu-related and influenced by the male dandere type: a qt pure boy being socially passive, blushing and maybe stuttering and spilling the spaghetti. I find it endearing and sexually appealing, too.

I'm a sperg myself, socially retarded and too uncomfortable with the idea of real intimacy to make it real, though.
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>>37057508
Keep being edgy, you beta fuck
"Buaaaaah, why don't women like me? "
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>>37057720
But would you be okay with a guy who is actually scared of people? Why? Legit social anxiety is not as cute as you think btw.
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>>37057961
She's (?) probably very young like almost all of the girls browsing /r9k/. They might think shyness is cute when they are in highschool but once a girl experiences closeness with a guy, she can't go back to real shyness. Real shyness in guys is infuriating to girls, when they are interested in them.
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>>37057961
Yes, I would. Him being crippled, suffering full blown panic attacks, psychosis and anxiety-induced vomit and diarrhea are also fine. It'd make me want to hold him, comfort him and do lewd things to his body while he's crying.

I'd find Satou attractive if he wasn't a degenerate. I can relate to him to an extent.

If visceral attraction isn't enough justification for you, there's another reason: I don't understand romance dynamics and gender roles so I'd prefer to be in control of the situation. This is easier with passive, shy males. Being the rock in another person's storm is a good point, too. I was shy myself when I was younger and recently I've been experiencing mild social anxiety, so I can understand and appreciate their vulnerability.

>>37057999
I'm 24 yo and I've approached a guy like this, but I lost him. It was my fault, he was so precious.
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>>37058052
....your a faggot right?
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>>37058165
I'm a woman (female).
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>>37058052
Are you into femdom or something like that? Only then it could make sense.
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>>37058211
Into gfd/rr, ss and snuggly vanilla. I also like the uke guys in yaoi manga.
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>>37058230
Ok. Last question
Are you legit sperg or self diagnosed meme sperg?
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>>37058242
Official diagnosis by an autism specialist 8 years ago
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>>37058230
>gfd/rr, ss and snuggly vanilla.
>knowing what any off this means
>calling satou degenerate
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>>37058230
>gfd/rr
What is this exactly? And
>ss
Are you attracted to guys younger than you? Hypothetically, just curious, as most girls would never consider a guy younger than themself, and I am wondering if that holds true for you.
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>>37057091
I really want to cuddle a cute boy. /shy/girl here.
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>>37058277
You're right, I was aware of this: I don't deserve a pure guy, but I'd take care of him if I ever get to acquire such a bf. My preferences are not too degenerate, though, except for ss which is sinful, indeed.

>>37058281

>gfd/rr
Gentle femdom/role reversal. It's the woman pursuing the man and being the romantic and sexual initiator, basically.

>Are you attracted to guys younger than you?
Yes, but not exclusively nor mostly. I like youthful pretty faces, which are obviously more common in younger guys (legal teenagers). Never shota, though.
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>>37058256
Autistic female's brains are more masculine than stacy's NT brain so I guess you exist. I hope you get to meet a shy socially anxious bf.

You're an outlier though, most women don't like us ;_;
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>>37058347
P-post location p-please.
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>>37057091
I'm very VERY shy and I have a gf for 2 years so yeah
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>>37058409
I like your stuttering.

Spain
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>>37058471
Damn, maybe another anon will be luckier, but I'm on the other side of the ocean.
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>>37058471
A fembot in Europe? Really? I must be dreaming. How big are your boobs?
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It worked for me once, she made all the moves for me, it was a dream come true, but she had a bf and was 5/10 at best.
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I know an effeminate race mixed younger fag with a stupid look on his face all the time, yet everyone respects him automatically and he has a 10/10 smoking hot white gf. He is more beta than me and I've seen him in action interacting with people, and everyone likes him and just gives him a break. I don't understand it at all. Especially since 4chan likes to combine the "just be yourself" with "don't be beta", yet in this case he is being himself and a total beta.
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>>37058471
Uhm

Where city are you in spain?
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>>37057091
I actually have a fetish for that. Like shyness completely triggers arousal for me. As long as I'm also getting the indicators that he's enjoying it.

Like I made a bulletin point list of what I'm into being shy is at the top as my main sexual interest.

And there you have it. It all leads into very gentle switchy femdom. The right kind of shy is so rare in a guy though.
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>>37058643
BCN

This is orijinaru contento.
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>>37058670
Would you move to Madrid for me?
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>>37058667
Is that a girl you were talking to or just some user from discord you thought was female?
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>>37058667
>very gentle switchy femdom.
This has to be bait, but if it's not you have to be my gf starting right now.
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>>37058471
Can you be my gfd gf please? Would do anything for that desu.
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>>37058702
I'm the girl, idiot. I don't like the guy who was talking to me cos he's not shy enough. Obviously. Even though he said he was a virgin.
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>>37058667
What's "the right kind of shy"?
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>>37058471
Stuttering is the best.
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>>37058731
Oh, that's degenerate!
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>>37058690
I won't be able to move to another city in the next 2-3 years, even if I really wanted to.

>>37058726
Post exact location.
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>>37058767
>Post exact location.
Amsterdam but don't mind moving around
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>>37058737
I like it when I have to make all the moves, like a guy whos too terrified and inexperienced to do anything unless explicitly told so and even then he'd be extremely nervous.

There's plenty of 'ticks' that I love. Like stuttering, shivering, blushing, stammering, looking away, not able to make or maintain eye contact. I like when I can feel like the predator and he's my prey. I don't like a hardcore sub or anything though. It's best when he's so virginal and sensitive I can have him wrapped around my finger just by being sickeningly sweet. I don't want to have to be mean, that's annoying. I like when he's groveling at me. I can sooth his nerves by being sweet and it creates the perfect feedback loop of him getting even more nervous. I love getting him to the state of being a shivering pile of whimpering nerves then I can just experiment and tease and toy with him as much as I like. I love virginity taking too, it's cute.
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>>37058767
What if I move? Ave is really fast :^)

What's your height? How would you rate yourself(1-10)?
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>>37058767
Do you only want shy virgins? Don't you want to just once try being dominated by a Chad?
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>>37058797
Btw I'm almost 30 and lost my virginity when I was around 16 so I've been having sex for 14 years or so and def know what I like. And yes I have taken guys virginity before of course. Been with a few girls too but I like the girls to be more aggressive like me so we can go on the hunt for pure boys together, it's more fun like that. I also really love succubus play where I steal mana.
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>>37058813
I'm not the person you are asking but let me redirect you to this:
>>37058824
>having sex for 14 years
I'm pretty sure at this point I know my type.

I've also had sex with experienced guys too, and trust me I know my fetishes and virginity is the hottest other than the shyness aspect.
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>>37058824
Man, I regret not having lost my virginity to a virgin-hunting succubus.
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>>37058345
I-I'd let you cuddle me
But you probably aren't anywhere nearby.
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>>37057214
>I've never talked to any women and get all my world knowledge from shut-ins on /r9k/ but trust me I'm an expert on what women want
Non-Chad here, been in a happy relationship for five years, have non-Chad friends who have been in relationships for longer. Stop making up lies.
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I like it when you go to cuddle on a shy boy cos your lonely and immediately before touching you but just by seeing you on his bed he gets hard and by the time he's close enough for you to notice you can already feel that damp stain from the precum leeking out. And the poor little thing is on the verge of tears because he's so embarrassed of his natural bodily response... ;-;
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>>37057574
>if I put 'probably' before a bunch of complete nonsense, it has to be true
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>>37058797
Oh, that sounds a lot like me
Sure would be nice not to have to repress those aspects of me
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>>37057662
Sorry, this is incorrect and reveals your ignorance of women.
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>>37058824
How many guys have you fucked? I love sluts like you.
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>>37058849
I've taken a LOT. I'm almost in retirement really at this point. When I was younger I was a huge whore for virgins. It's harder to find them at the same age I am now. Even now most I catch are younger. Not that I mind since even when I was a teen I wanted to be a cougar.
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>>37057783
Is the guy you're quoting Hank Hill?
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>>37057115
This. Everyone thinks I hate them, but I only hate most of them.
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>>37058891
Yes I've had that response before. I aim so that the person can feel comfortable being nervous. In that way embrace their real nature. That's how it can be soothing and therapeutic at the same time that it's terrifying and scary.
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>>37058780
I have to talk to you. seredan#9613

>>37058808
Puedes agregarme en discord si te apetece, pero no pareces precisamente timido. Mido 160 cm y no tengo referencia para darme un puntaje.

>>37058813
Only shy virgins, yes. Chad is not my type.
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>>37058895
30 virgins
5 male non virgins
5 females.
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I wish girls were into shy guys.
Ill just be afraid to talk to them forever
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>>37058919
Agregada estas

>smol
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>>37058893

Its generally true though, girls respond more to guys taking the lead, but sometimes woman have a more masculine temperament and will be attracted to easy shy guys.
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>>37058933
And I've done pegging. Not very much though. I love fingering a guys ass if he's into it. I love my ass being fingered too or fucked. It feels great, it takes a while to get used to though. I dated a transgender m2f that's when I did most of the pegging.
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I sometimes daydream about targeting a shy guy somewhere irl and seeing how fast I can convince him to finger bang me till I squirt.
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>>37059012
I-I don't know.. Is t-t-that such a good idea?
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>>37058977
I like fingering my ass and his at the same time that way we are feeling the same thing it's more romantic... ahahaha.
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>>37059012
It really sucks that the majority of girls who like shy guys only like them in the hopes of corrupting them. Frankly fucking a slutty girl doesn't sound remotely appealing to me.
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>>37058955
THIS is true. The original thing you posted is BS.
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>>37058914
Where in the world are you? Or at least where do I find people like this
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>>37058471
>>37058670
>Spain
>BCN
LMAO a fembot in europe in the same fucking city where I am? No way kek
How old are you?
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>>37058977
I've never even tried any ass-play..
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>>37059055
She said she's 29, try reading the thread dogg
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>>37059050
Idk I talk to a lot of demented twisted nyphomanical women who consider themselves 'artists'. Look for the dyed hair. Aposematism.
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>>37059072
I am sneaking at my college lecture and reading multiple things, obviously I will miss stuff from the thread, nigger. Anyways tnx for saying it
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>tfw no Italian gf who's more socially awkward than me.
Why was I born in such a normie place? Nobody here seems to want to deal with shy guys.
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I dream of being sweetly dominated by a woman in a relationship
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>>37059085
>>37059085
Also I want to add that when you look for someone like this you should let your flaws shine cos she needs the ability to feel like she can help you (nursing) while also not being as insecure about her self perceived flaws.
>>37059106
>I am sneaking at my college lecture and reading multiple things
Normie leave.
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>>37059108
Why do you post whiny BS like this instead of actually trying to meet women? You're not going to know unless you try. Put away the crying wojak memes and get a GF.
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>>37058797
well that was pretty fucking depressing to read
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Bots, please don't listen to anything this woman >>37059124 says. She is part of an extreme minority and 99.999% of women will be repulsed by the advice she is giving to you, she is only setting you up for failure with false hopes. You will never run into a woman like her and betting on it is an enormous mistake
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>>37059149
He might be right don't listen to me I've only met a few other women like me. Into the same things.
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>>37059161
But I still do think that there are certain personality aspects that people are taught to repress, especially in regards to gender like people saying as a man you shouldn't be weak in any way show emotions or be vulnerable etc, just one example. These types of things are at the center of a sort of role reversal dynamic though.
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>>37059161
> a few
Well , you just proved >>37059149 his point
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>>37059149

And these types are always predatory, they make fuck easy betas, but they won't settle with one.
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>>37057115

Yeah, most women trying to catch my attention just think that I'm nonchalant as fuck and don't give a fuck about them when the truth is that I use it to hide my painfully crippling anxiety. At the very least it makes me look a bit like chad since I repeatedly hear that girls think they're not good enough to get my attention. If only they knew. It's like King in one punch man. Everyone thinks he's a fucking legend while he's just spending every bit of his efforts to hide that he's a bitch.

That being said, shyness is not a negative trait if you work up the guts to at least initiate interest in a girl once in a while. As I said, I'm criplingly shy around women and I'm attractive enough that I get approached regularly and I see way less attractive guys get a lot more results than I do simply because they get over their fear, but once every few solar eclipses I meet a girl I'm comfortable enough to approach and they always see how shy I am, but since I worked up the courage to approach them, the ice is already broken and they don't mind. I've met total bitches who don't tolerate shit, but in general, girls I do approach will not mind and be patient. If you never approach, you'll either just look like a pussy to them or if you're like me and you play nonchalant, they will think you're just cold. Never expect girls to approach you. Most never do and those who do are often man eaters or absolutely desperate sluts with diseases.
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>>37059127
>Why do you post whiny BS like this instead of actually trying to meet women?
>Why are you posting on r9k on first place? Why don't you go outside and just b urself? :^)
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>>37059187
I'm just saying you will be surprised what you can attract if you are completely open. Not a lot of people know what its like to have feelings be a source of their strength and not control them.

One indicator of this is kindness towards others. This is so fucking alpha at its core. So many people do this fakely so as an attractive girl you have to go hardcore undercover to find actual kindness and not just nicetm guys.

But everyone who thinks kind people are trying to gain something are always the ones who have it twisted. So trying to explain why have kindness or seek it in others are so beyond hope.
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>>37059264
>So trying to explain why have kindness or seek it in others are so beyond hope.

Rofl i mean anyone seeking an explanation as to why kindness is the most alpha trait is beyond hope.

But as an attractive girl it's hard to find that because everyone is going to be nice to you for your pussy. Look at how he treats someone he has nothing to gain from.

Also this might seem weird but looking for someone who seems like they've cracked at least once in life under an existential crisis; but it takes a long time to figure this out you have to have several conversations with them. basically my logic is anyone who doesn't have a touch of madness is boring.
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>>37059211
Strawman, try again honey.
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>>37059336
>Strawman, try again honey.
How about you go fuck yourself and get off this board? You sound like such a pretentious faggot normie.
I don't come on this board to get replies like yours, you piece of shit. Your advice was worthless and immediately discarded, I wouldn't be on here if I didn't have mental issues.
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>>37057091
They exist. In high school I attracted some girls because of my aloofness, although for some reason they still expected me to make the first move so nothing came of it.
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>>37057091
>thread progresses decently
>one roastie replies, perhaps earnestly, saying that she likes shy guys for genuine reasons
>immediately attention whoring sluts flood in trying to scoop up betas who hope she'll take their virginities
This is why this board is turning to crap. If you genuinely believe that begging a "femanon" to take your virginity is going to work you ought to go to >>>/soc/, that's where those sluts frequent. It actually might happen there. Here it just derails the thread until a janny decides to prune the thread.
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>>37059467
Mental issues aren't a valid excuse to give up on life, sorry buddy.
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>>37059520
>until a janny decides to prune the thread
I have literally never seen mod action on /r9k/, at least not in the past year or so. Maybe for a thread that's obvious BS from the get-go, but not one like this. And no matter how many posts I report with 'oregano' bullshit at the end of them, I've never seen anyone comment on getting warned, muted, or banned for them
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>>37059622
>Maybe for a thread that's obvious BS from the get-go, but not one like this
Mods dont read threads here. Or on /b/. Mods are like google employee level normies.
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>>37059622
>anyone comment on getting warned, muted, or banned for them
A bot is what does the warnings, mutes, or bans (don't exist anymore I dont think) for that.

You're a fucking newfag lol.
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>>37059622
>reporting people for bloxing their posts
Well it sort of defeats the purpose of the robot but people are always going to get around it, either they change their grammar, misspell a word, or write original below it. I hope you don't genuinely expect people to get banned left and right for it.
Although I actually have gotten a one day ban for putting oregano under a post before, guess the janitor was in a bad mood that day.
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>>37058797
>literally the only women who are interested in shy, loner men are extreme outliers who have fetishes of dominating and submitting their man instead of having a mutual, caring, genuine relationship built on mutual understanding and shared experiences

I would say "2D here I come," but I'm already here.
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Ull meet ur soulmate one day and all ur traits will be complimenting to each other op.......

Maybe ur not shy maybe other people r just too outgoing
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>>37059776
For me it's not only the shy exterior, it's something deeper: I can personally relate to a shy guy and I feel more comfortable and in control (of the relationship, not of him) around him. There's also a certain beauty in his behaviour, which inspires endearment and feelings of protection. I'm only interested in a genuine, caring relationship, which is difficult. Most people move too fast.
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>>37060053
>and in control (of the relationship, not of him) around him.
This.
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Of course. There's a lot of people in this world and not everyone likes the same thing. Truthfully I prefer more open chatty guys as it lessens awkward silence but I doubt most people see shyness as a red flag. My best friends fiancee Is fat and a literal 2/10 and I don't think he's ever spoke a word to me. He seems really awkward. But she loves him enough
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>>37057091
Being shy is a horrible quality in a male. Men are not shy so until you get over your choice to be shy, you are not a man.
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The problem is shy people never find each other because of the fucking shyness. Not because it's particularly unattractive in a partner. We're just invisible to anyone who would be interested
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>>37060125
Shyness in a guy is completely unattractive
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>>37060133
So every shy guy in the world is single. Ok
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>>37060133
Self love is the path. Acceptance of your traits will bring someone to you, it's in that way that you can be strong and vulnerable at the same time. People can be fluid more than one thing at a time and flexible. Just because you are shy doesn't mean you are less in value. That's silly and slightly barbaric way of looking at things(?)
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>>37060133

It really depends. Saying all shy men are unattractive is like saying all woman are feminine. Shyness certainly isn't a masculine trait, but it won't be a problem for girls who are more aggressive.
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>>37059831

I'm going to sound like a dick, but I just wanna say that you are going to be taken more seriously if you stop typing like a 12 years old, because you actually had something pretty profiund to say, but anyone is going to dismiss it because you can't take the additional nanosecond it takes to write you, your and you're proprerly.
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>>37060115

Do you ever stop to read your own posts? It seems ridiculous that you are unable to see how devoid of depth they are.
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>>37060338
>had something pretty profiund to say, but anyone is going to dismiss it because you can't take the additional nanosecond it takes to write you, your and you're proprerly.
>had something pretty profiund to say
>pretty profiund
>profiund

c:

But I actually completely agree. It's the internet you should just take what you can from the thread that's positive. It's all a very limited way of interacting anyway.

I agree with his points though, just keep all your traits, you will find someone complimentary to them eventually. I hate seeing a beautiful person suffocate under the social pressures to be something else.
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>>37060338
I don't know if you're samefagging to build interest in your post, but actually beyond just the form, the content of the post was complete idiocy, too.
>Ull meet ur soulmate one day and all ur traits will be complimenting to each other op.......
>We're all gonna make it, brah! Never mind all those people that don't actually make it because not everyone will get absurdly lucky enough to have things work out in spite of their weakness that makes them for the greater part unwanted by anyone!

>Maybe ur not shy maybe other people r just too outgoing
>Sure you're the statistical outlier, but the world should revolve around you, and it's everyone else that is wrong!
Obviously I really wish this post was right, but this is wishful thinking and extreme naivety that's equivalent to girls on Tumblr or Facebook or whatever telling each other "You're beautiful and perfect no matter what! Don't let anyone tell you to change for anything!" For one thing it's delusional, and for another thing it's not at all healthy.

>>37060370
He's correct in saying that in the sense that veritably all societies will view a man as lesser for being more shy and passive because, speaking as such a man, shyness is also objectively a weakness. Although theoretically it can lead to another strength, e.g. someone who is too shy to spend much time consorting with people can possibly spend that time to develop skills instead, I would argue that one is actually gimped in most productive pursuits by not having the opportunity to work with other people.
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>>37060370
Being shy means you're not deep at all. It means you're so lazy you can't bother to work on social interaction. Sorry it triggers you so much, but it's true. Shyness is a choice and every male who makes that choice is gross
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>>37060590
If you're too lazy to work on social skills, which is something children master, then you're not spending your alone time doing anything worthwhile
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>>37060590
>shyness is also objectively a weakness.
Dumb af lol.

No, speaking as someone who has had bouts of agoraphobia, shyness, possibly autism even the handicap can be a gateway into learning great skills. My level of constant over stimulation when I'm around people makes me really attentive. Being overly emphatic and non judgmental gives me the ability to sooth people especially the ones who are worse than me because I know I can let go and let them see my ticks too.

>>37060668
>Being shy means you're not deep at all.
Dumb af.

Have you ever heard the saying 'it's better to keep your mouth shut so know one knows your an idiot than open it and remove all doubt?' Kind of the same thing going on here. If you never get to know them you never know and sure some could be complete shallow idiots but I also know for a fact that some shy people can be complex and deep too. The shyness or introverted aspect is not related.
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>>37060765
No shy males are all effeminate betas. There is nothing deep about them
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>>37060668
>It means you're so lazy you can't bother to work on social interaction.

Most of it is boring and pointless anyway.

People think I'm shy but really I just don't see the virtue in spilling your guts to strangers.
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>>37060793
Someone feminine can't be deep? Triggered senpai.
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>>37060828
Nope. Not as a male anyway.
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>>37060668
>>37060716
>>37060793
This is silly, though. You are silly.
I'm willing to believe that the poster is somewhat sincere in what they are talking about based on their own actual beliefs, but is posting in the style that one can safely assume this is someone that is at the same time going for their shitposting/go-into-a-thread-and-call-someone-a-beta-tier devilishposting quota for the day. Please do not respond seriously to this poster, thank you.

>>37060765
I don't think you read literally the very next part of my post where I went on to say that, like many weaknesses, shyness can potentially lead to opportunities to develop in other areas, the emphasis being on "potentially" because, also like most weaknesses, you're not necessarily going to have something sufficiently good come out of it to balance it out.
The central point you made in your post is actually the same one I made, albeit with a stipulation.
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>>37060884
>you're not necessarily going to have something sufficiently good come out of it to balance it out
I know all about this.
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>>37057091
Yea they exist but they are usually old ugly fat women who have no substance to their personalities and have a really used up blown out outtie roastie pussy.
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>>37057091
Are you a hee hoe
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>>37061913
This. Only really desperate whores want betas.
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>>37057091
I like when guys are shy, makes me not feel so awkward because I can be really shy at first too.
Don't worry about it so much
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>>37057091
Yea there are women who think it's a neutral/good quality. And they look just like this. Pic related.
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Do you know how many shy men there are in the world?
Most of them get married in the end.
So it's not as if it's a dead end.
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I found one, but she's also super attracted to my looks (which aren't anything special, if anything a little odd), so that might have something to do with her being okay with my shyness. I met her at 25yo and she's my first girlfriend ever
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>>37060082
Do females prefer it when they start the conversation or the guy to start the conversation?
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>>37058857
Damn. Rare to see someone who doesn't blindly hate on all women for loving Chads exclusively here.
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>>37057091
One time my friend told me a girl I had met at a party thought I was cute because I was shy. We ended up hanging out a little bit but nothing really happened.
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>>37057091
I like shy guys. It's just not easy to meet them. Just like >>37057115 stated.
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