I want to get married, have children, and live in a single income

did you write this before or after a sad fap?

>>37004638
I wrote it after spending time with some friends, and I feel so empty inside. There's a girl who I've put on a pedestal in the past, but I now realize she isn't perfect. I shouldn't expect her to be, but it still makes me a little bit sad. I still care for her very much though. I used to masturbate a lot, but I'm trying to quit. I want to be the kind of person a girl would want to be with, and nobody should have to deal with being married to a porn junkie.

wasn't ready for this feels trip. good on ya for trying to get it together mate. all the best to you.

I want the same thing, except I want my wife to work while I take care of the kids. I wish I could have been a woman.

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>>37004718
> I want to be the kind of person a girl would want to be with
That's a good start Anon, realizing that you have a problem and that you want to deal with it. Honestly the best way to get to know a girl (or anyone really) is a sense of humor and, common interests/hobbies.

>>37004573
I know that feeling.

Jews are at fault for this.

>>37004927
Yeah, I figure as long as I'm waiting to find the right girl, I should make myself a better man. It's slow going, but I feel like I'm getting there.

>>37004573
if you honestly believe there aren't women like this that aren't also obese/ugly/retarded then good fuckin luck kiddo lmao

What percentage of robots came from hardcore Christian families? I get the feeling it's quite high

i thought about something such as this but remembered i was a shitskin and that i should kill myself

>>37005021
On the contrary. I wish more minorities had nice families.

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>>37005021
god speed anon, follow your dreams

>>37005044
i was going to stay inside my own race but most black women are shit

>>37005014
Are you under the impression that the only reason a person would desire a stable marriage instead of spending their youth on Mr Goldberg's Wild Ride is because they are a hardcore Christian?

>>37004573
as i'm getting older, I find myself wanting the same thing. just a simple life, no drama. live it out quietly.

the generation may have changed, this idea might be a relic of the times. i'm sure there are few, but you gotta go to the small towns, etc

>>37005065
You could break the stereotype. Be a good black father, like Terry Crews.

>>37004573
I drank his milkshake

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>>37004969
I agree that you should try to improve yourself but don't expect your perfect homestead gf to just appear, you'll have to take the initiative. Best of Luck to ya!

>>37005081
I'll try, thanks anon


originailo

>>37005098
You're right. I think the thing to keep in mind is that nobody's perfect, absolutely nobody. I need to find a girl who is working on her own flaws, and wants to become a better woman. Then we can help each other.

>>37004573
>homeschooling kids
>homeschooling kids with a woman

Probably for the best, they'd probably grow up dumb with zero social skills.

>>37004927
self improvement unless you're legitimately amoral is a meme. do not change yourself because normans say being with girls automatically puts you above others. be yourself. if there's a girl she'll come.

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>>37005138
this, we're just fated to be alone


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>>37005180
>self improvement unless you're legitimately amoral is a meme
Morals don't have to be directly tied to self-improvement. Ex: Fitness has nothing to do with morals, it's a health and attractiveness thing.
>do not change yourself because normans say being with girls automatically puts you above others. be yourself
It's not because others say so, it's because OP wants to change by his own free will.
>if there's a girl she'll come
If you don't put yourself out there she'll never know (you) exist

>>37005136
To add to this, I think you should question how fair some of your demands are. I'm not suggesting that you need to become a cuck, far from it. But if you want to work hard to provide for your family, why shouldn't your wife be allowed to feel accomplishment and satisfaction in the same way? You have to recognize that the other half in a relationship is a person to with hopes and fears and flaws and weaknesses.

It's all very easy in your mind where everyone else exists only for you.

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>>37004573
God these feels. All I want is to have a nice family and to live in a small farm community where everyone knows each other. I feel that sort of thing hardly exists anymore. We live in a society where the big media corporations realized that they could profit off of people's natural desires and now all they do is exploit them. It's nothing but hedonism and no one has tact anymore. "Just do what feels good! It doesn't matter if it destroys your body (alcohol and shitty food) or disrupts the natural order of things (the decay of the nuclear family through a number of different movements)! As long as you think you're happy in the moment and we're making bank, it's all good!"

Sorry to make it political but to me it's blatantly obvious that this is what's making happy, functional family units less and less common. I feel humanity has completely lost touch with what was important to it in the past, so much so that I don't think we could ever go back, and it pains me as I realize this more each day

I hate to tell you this anon but the few who actually realize this are doomed to be alone. Your average person is so indoctrinated at this point that it's hard to make them even listen, never mind convince them how they're being fucked over every day. The only way you or I could really ever achieve our dreams is if we found a girl who was skeptical enough to convince her. But that's so rare it's not even worth working toward.

The road ahead is rough and lonely, anon. I only hope that we can steer ourselves in another direction.

>>37005014
Last living hardline catholic represent

>>37006014
How did everything go so wrong?

>>37007028
It started with industrialization really. The moment people stopped being self-sufficient and starting depending almost entirely on corporations for sustenance was the moment when it all began to collapse