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>20y/o neet >social anxiety >depression >only joy

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>20y/o neet
>social anxiety
>depression
>only joy in life used to be vidya
>dont even like vidya anymore cuz they're all shit
>bored every day but don't want to apply to a school or get a job because of social anxiety
>ugly and fat

does it get any better or should i just kill myself? i'm living with my mom, she doesn't really approve of my neetlife either.
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>>36963877
>does it get any better

Only if you bust your ass to make it better.

Take a several month long break from the vidya. It'll be more fun when you come back to it.
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>>36963904
>Take a several month long break from the vidya.
and do what instead
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>>36963877
just grow a pair and go to school. honestly if the other option is killing urself then u have nothing to lose. for all you know maybe it ends up going alright and ur life will start getting better n shit
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>>36963877
Do some drugs to chance your perspective. I recommend mushrooms
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>>36963915
When I got bored of video games I learned how to program and play guitar.
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>>36963915

I play guitar, which helps. For you, just try to find a productive hobby with the spare time.
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>>36963904
>Take a several month long break from the vidya.

i haven't played any vidya in like 6 months except wow casually

>just grow a pair and go to school.

cba socializing with normies desu, and absolutely nothing interests me except programming (which i can learn by myself)

>Do some drugs to chance your perspective.

i already smoke weed on a daily basis, might try some lsd if i can get my hands on some

>When I got bored of video games I learned how to program and play guitar.

i've been learning programming for a few months, i just lack motivation to do anything, i don't have any interesting projects to work on.
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Stop watching porn and jerking off, it makes everything else boring in comparison.
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>>36964114
i jack off maybe once a week
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>>36964043
>>36963969
if you're capable of doing something like playing guitar you are not depressed
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>>36964060
>i just lack motivation to do anything
So do I. I do nothing until I'm motivated enough to do something or something grabs my interest.
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>>36964148

Yes, you get help from people more like what you want to become, and not from people stuck in the same shitty pits of life that you are. Doesn't make the advice of your betters any less valid if they're not wallowing down in the mud the same as you are.
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>>36964352
my own friends didn't have the patience to help me learn to play guitar when i asked them
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>>36964412

That's because you need to spend money to hire a professional teacher. You'll make much more progress than learning from random friends who may not be that good at guitar, and who certainly sucks at teaching.
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>>36964154
i haven't had motivation to do anything for months. i just wake up and browse the internet and wait until i can go to sleep again
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>>36964460
>>36964154

Stop masturbating for a few weeks.
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>>36964703
i masturbate maybe once a week out of boredom, but sure i'll give it a try.
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>>36963877
Nice dubs anyway . vidya is poison for the mind
you are in a withdrawal im vidya sober for 2 months the first month was a bitch tho
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>>36963877
go to school or get a job

I spent a lot of time just as you described and it's just a bottomless pit of feeling more and more depressed and overall fucked up

you might feel like going back among people will be even worse since you're already so depressed even sitting at home in your comfort zone, but it really helps a ton
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>>36964819
i don't really play any videogames, just wow casually sometimes, i mostly just browse 4chan/leddit and do fuck all till i go to sleep.

>>36965018
i honestly can't imagine going to school or getting a job would help, if anything it would just make me more depressed. i've always had social anxiety, i've already graduated from some shit school and it was hell due to being forced to socialize with people. im just bored all day, i don't have motivation to do anything, if i did i doubt i would be depressed desu.

all the games i used to play have turned into shit over the years, and there aren't any new games i enjoy playing either so ye
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>>36965107
I know exactly how you feel, and it really does help no matter how terrifying the thought of it seems at the moment.

I'm a socially anxious fuck myself and having any larger amounts of free time I know I'll fall into the same cycle. Sitting behind a computer screen all day, bored with nothing to do, fucked up sleep schedule, more depressed day by day.

I actually have 4 months of free time ahead of me and I'm fucking terrified already, because I know exactly that will happen.
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>>36965018

Who is this and is the anime worth watching
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>>36965107
do you play on the EU or US?
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>>36965435
EU

//original
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>>36965390
honestly I have no idea, I just saved it because it was really cute

his name is Felix
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>>36965390
its re:zero, also are you baiting cause everybody knows this anime unless u been living under a rock.
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>>36963877
Just start doing sport and start crossdressing
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>>36965475
we sound like we're kind of in the same situation, i feel like playing games with somebody else is more entertaining than being on your own
i play EU as well, if you have kik you can add me and we can play (undeadmeow)
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>>36965505
im 194cm tall and weigh 130kg, probably not the best trap material

>>36965515
i play very rarely, i dont even have gametime right now
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>>36965649
maybe having someone who wants to play with you will make you want to resub, offers there if you want it.
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>>36963877
> bored every day but don't want to apply to a school or get a job because of social anxiety

Just do it you lazy fuck !
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>>36966465
fuck off normie

//le original comment
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>>36966496
No i do understand that you have mental disorder and stuff but ffs it you are bored every day and still don t make anything to change yourself, it s not because of "social anxiety", and even if you """can t""" apply for a job remember that there is plenty of people with social anxiety that still apply for jobs because they want to change themselves. If you really want to change you ll have to deal with your mental disorders, and be like everyone else. You are just lazy

t. i m NEET because i m lazy and i assume it, and i dont wanna change

Stop fooling yourself by saying that you can t do apply for a job, if you put enough effort into it you can.
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>>36966605
i don't want to get a job in the first place, slaving away for money i don't even need is not tempting to me. i live off neetbucks just fine. i could apply to schools, but there is nothing that interests me and im demotivated instantly when i think about being forced to socialize with other people.
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>>36967430
Well that s not called social anxiety (well at least i don t call it like that). To me it s just lazyness, and it s just fine, you are practicaly the same as me. Just know that if you want to do something, you can do it, but if you don t want then you won t do it.
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>>36967430
Is shitposting on 4chan, playing vidya and jerking off, all alone in your room really all you want from your life, anon?
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>>36967477
what? i know im lazy as fuck but i do have severe social anxiety as well.

>>36967791
i don't know any better, and i'm not motivated enough to do anything else so i guess so
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I'm actually completely fine with being a poor lazy friendless neet.

All I really want in life is a fine chubby ass in bed next to me.
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The longer you wait, the worse it will be. Social anxiety can be overcome.
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>>36967918
you asked in the OP if it gets better, isn't it getting better enough of a motivation?

is there nothing in the world that interests you? nothing at all? nothing you would want to do?

your life won't change by itself, you have to make the change desu
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