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What is stopping you from being happy? Me personally, I'm

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What is stopping you from being happy?

Me personally, I'm 5'4".
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>tfw 5'11" in scandinavia
I'll never get laid
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>>36927572
I can't explain my sadness. It's just kinda...there. And I live with it. Not too hard.
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>>36927572
the only person that has ever understood me and made me happy is dead
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>>36927572
>tfw dictlet
being <4" is hell
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>>36927572
tiny dick
would not be here if not for that
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>>36927572
Become a gay bottom. I'm 5'5 myself
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I don't think there's much that would even make me very happy in the first place. Maybe there's something, but I haven't found it yet. I'm very bored by things.
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>>36927572
My boyfriend is depressed,refuses to get any help and push his comfort zone,it has slowly killed my love for him and motivation to do things/plan for the future but I can't break up and live with the guilt of leaving someone in that state alone.
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>>36927726
This made me sad
Originaeux
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Wage cuck for another 46 years if i dont fucking kms. Really thinjing about going NEET if i can find cheap housing.
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>>36927572
>5'2 meatball manlet

i fell for the overcompensating meme
at least i'm healthy
or at least that's what i tell myself
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>>36928144
Which religion?and why can't you?
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>>36927572

l'm balding.
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my dick size, my undersized dick, my 3 inch punch.

If I had a meaty dick that was proportionate with my size I wouldn't even care about being overweight since it looks semi-decent on me

but I'm the king of dicklets.

Also the whole mental health thing but at this point I've accepted it.
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estrogen in the water ruined my body and now im too self conscious to leave the house
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>>36927572
>have to live within a mile of the nearest person every day

I just want to live in the woods away from everyone
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Chemical imbalance in the brain. More importantly:

>tfw no bf
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>>36927572
26 yo working since i was 15 , studied , was a good person, never got arrested or anything like that and no one will give me a job
its infuriating the shit ive had to go through in interviews and studying all of that for this
i have nothing , barely get called for interviews and if i do i dont get the job even though im qualified for it
im so tired of employers and all this bullshit im convinced that next time im at an interview and one of these faggots says something i dont like im going to snap and beat the living shit out of them
employers are cancer, they all think their shitty little company is the best in the world and only the elite deserves to work there

fuck i was mad just writing this fkn post
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>poor
>brainlet
>boring
>weird face
>lack of experience in anything
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i'm happy because of this original comment i'm posting
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>>36927572
Black but also a nerd.
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i've been so lonely for so long and i want a gf

i can't even go outside without becoming deeply depressed from seeing all the happy people and couples
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>>36927572
Lots of money. That's pretty much it.
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>>36927572
My intelligence and my face
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disgusting acne on my whole body
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>>36927572
5 11"
Big nose brown eyes, look awful.

6" dick, don't really care.

Mostly just my personality, i'm a bastard.
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>>36927673
>Become a gay bottom
this is such stupid advice, you want OP to turn gay just because of his height? fuck off, literal faggot

do you want all Japanese men to be sissy sluts too? Just because they're all small
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I always enjoy the good ol' im 5"4 fuck my life I'm a fucking loser attitude you bring on towards your life keep it up! The real thing keeping you behind is your shit attitude towards insignificant shit about yourself...
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>>36929154
Damn me too...I feel like my face is beyond saving
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>>36929154
>tfw acne is finally clearing up at the age of 20
>have scars
fuck my life
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I have keratosis pilaris on my arms and legs which makes me really insecure about my body, I'm also ugly and think too much about social interactions so I just avoid them and it makes me really awkward when I come across something where I'm forced to socialize.

I've got the usual existential angst too
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I have no personality, no goals, no purpose, no ambition, no interests, no spark.

I am a warm, anxious corpse.
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>>36927572
Severe insomnia, severe depersonalization and bipolar disorder(Soon I will feel so fucking happy though)
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>>36927572
I'm 4'10, dont give up on life just yet
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I packed up and moved half way the country looking for whatever will make me happy. Whats stopping me i guess is myself. My salvation? I guess myself.
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>>36929274
Me too..I have some indented scars..as if having acne wasn't bad enough
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Lack of ability to connect with people whilst still having tons of people wanting to connect with me

Gets painful after a while
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>>36927572
I'm fucking skinny anon
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i'm just ugly. i'm 6'2 but it doesn't matter when you're ugly.
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>>36927572
Honestly I'm a bit miffed that I am not God.
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I spend forty or more hours a week at a job I find unsatisfying and pointless.
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>>36927585
>tfw 5'10 in Scandinavia.
Nigga, I would be average/tall everywhere else
why did I have to be born on this shitty muslim infested continent.
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Because I am also 5"4'
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I'm 5'4 but my girlfriend is 5'9 so I don't feel bad for myself
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My brain. I have autism.
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>>36927572
My ugliness and my lack of achievements in life, generally.
24. No job, no prospects, living with mom, done nothing in life so far, it's just as though I've completed 16 last week.
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My brother spergs out and I have to clean up after him otherwise mold will grow in cups and milk will spoil
He punched my $250 tv that I got for Christmas and wasn't punished at all since his birthday was the next day
He constantly insults me for no reason and if I insult him back he gets violent
I want to beat his face in so badly but he's a minor
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Borderline and bipolar
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>>36927572

>I'm 5"4

Just fuck elementary school kids.
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>>36927572
Im the exact same height OP
Iktf
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>>36927572

5'3'' fag here. I would kill a man to be you. I have a friend who is my height, or maybe even yours, and gets laid on the regular.

No offense, but if your height is what's keeping you from being happy, unless you actually have dwarfism, you are normie attention-whoring scum.
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God I wish I knew. Eating lunch at work, getting an apartment here this coming Monday... Why can't I feel happy?
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>>36929274
i have the same problem, shit sucks. terrible acne in my teens... then i started clean shaving my beard and my skin is a lot smoother after a couple years of doing that. its not perfect but the scars on my face are a lot less noticeable now
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>>36929759
IKTF bro
seriousl thinking about selling all my shit and just moving to a south east asian country
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>>36927572
The illuminati
original mozzarella
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Born black, 5'8, only 7' dick so can't compensate for anything else.

Also suck at ball. I can run incredibly fast, but the downside is that I have shit stamina and can only run for 3 minutes tops. At least I have an I.Q 120+ to make up for it I guess. could have been worse. Maybe I can meme myself into becoming a black Hitler
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>>36930734
having your shit together =/= being happy, unfortunately
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debt
lack of money in general
unable to get/keep motivation
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>>36927632
sorry anon I'm sure you've heard this before try and remember the good times you shared
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>>36927585
>5"5
>18
>already laid
>have hot gf who was a virgin before i met her
>lifeisgoodforamanletlikeme.jpg
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>>36927572
>What is stopping you from being happy?

Myself, I can't just be content, I always need some bullshit obstacles in order to make my life shitty and give me something to struggle against, this gives me something to strive towards. I create all kinds of problems for myself.
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>>36927572

I wish I knew anon. I really just want to be loved and accepted but fail every time
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I have absolutely no personality whatsoever. + socially autistic.
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I don't have a steady income and i don't have any dreams or ambitions. I also don't find joy in most things.
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currently not working and trying to get on bux. the not knowing whats gonna happen has made me temporarily severely depressed. i cant go back to working so if i dont get on bux i will unironically become literally homeless within a couple of months. i cant imagine what sitting on the pavement 16 hours a day with no distractions will do to my mind
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>>36927572
My inability to love myself. For the more necessary stuff at the current moment though;

>1.
A lack of confidence in my own self pursuits/ interest, mixed with over analyzing and overthinking things so I can't really teach myself anything or finish projects I start.
>2.
Cerebral palsy has "blessed" me with fairly weak hand/arm strength and thus gets in the way of me trying lose weight and get fit. I feel embarrassed and ashamed having to display my strength.
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>>36927572
>>36927585
i'm 195 fuck that i want to be smol
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>>36927643
wew learn some tongue tricks m8
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>>36927572
I'm too lazy, pessimistic, egoistic and ungrateful. I'm afraid of commitment and taking risks. I never learned how to love myself or others.
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>5'9"
>340lbs
>23 yr old virgin
I've wanted to lose weight for years but I lack the will to do so because I've convinced myself becoming a wizard isn't so bad.
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>>36929215
I do because theyre cute and I wanna ram them and shove their head down in a pillow as they moan my name
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being an emotionally abusive fuckup with schizophrenia
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>disabled
>acne

I just want a girlfriend and to get married
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>>36930790
Similar to me, only that im half white and 6 feet
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>>36927572

idk man, havent left house in 3 days.

truck making bad noise,
no job,
no school until sept,
gf broke up w me last week,
cant stop smoking pot.
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i cant stop binge eating every day and im going to spend the rest of my youth as an obese insecure blob if i dont fix it soon but i can't
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>>36927572
the fact that nature selects for survival and not happiness.
even being content is being bored.
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>>36927572
I have no energy or motivation. I want to improve but every single day I wake up and sit on my ass in my room.
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>>36930147
Poison his food. It will teach that little shit. Don't tell him you did it and try not to act suspicious.
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My lower than average penis
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short height, too sensitive about life even after being beat down by it so much somehow, live with parents, unfulfilling job that leaves me drained but know i can't get another (have tried, college graduate but get turned down for even stocking shelves at a grocery store because of my poor social skills plus I just look too weird), big forehead + balding (and even if i wasn't, i have terrible hair anyway), ugly nose. It is to the point where I just want to make like one online friend as I no longer entertain the idea of making real human contact, but only through text because I am awful at speaking. All I do is work and then come home and read or play a game, or browse the internet for a few hours before waking up and doing it all over again.
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My apathy. There are plenty of things that I'm interested in, and would love to do, but I just don't care whether or not I meet my goals. It's unfortunate because I simultaneously have delusions of grandeur and a slight God Complex.

Atleast I'm self aware, I guess.
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It's not the fact you are 5'4" that makes you unhappy. It's the fact that you think badly of it and therefore feel bad.
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>>36936449
lmao at that buzzword

being 5'4 is bad so obviously he would feel bad

> t. 5'5 manlet
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>>36928787
>Chemical imbalance in the brain.
This. sometimes i convince myself that if i had the objectively perfect life i'd still not be happy.

"tfw no gf" is probably just the mind trying to justify the lack of happiness and assigning it to some other factor which isn't the chemical imbalance.
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>>36936498
What buzzword? I'm 5'7" and I don't give a shit. I used to give a shit. The only thing making you feel bad is your own thoughts.
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>>36928279

son of tiamat?
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>>36927572

>5'10
>But born in Balkan shithole where average is ~6'0+
>Both parents mentally ill Savages bound to be cancer of every activity they partake in
>Unironically SonofaCuck
>Half deaf and btfo by ilnesses since 12 years old
>Beta face structure

There's no single reason

My life is a curse, a slow spiral of despair into the void.
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>>36927585
>tfw 6'1" in the Netherlands

I'll never get laid either.
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>only smart when i'm sad
>whenever i'm happy i just act stupid and fall in deep depression
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Life is a scary place and we're heading to our doom, whether its death or old age.
I can't listen to What a Wonderful World without tearing up, I'm just wasting my youth away and anime isn't real.
Should I keep doing drugs? No points in trying anymore, nothing lasts forever and I can forge any memories.
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>>36927572
huh
well for me, it's the McChicken
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>>36927572
the girls I fall in love with never love me back. also I fall in love very quickly.
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>>36937148
Are you a grill?
oregano nigger
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>>36927572
The stress of social activities making it not worth engaging in them
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>>36927572
i want to be with my boyfriend again, i want to not live in this house any more, i want to be a real girl instead of a girl(male)
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>>36927572
Developed depression during early childhood.
Finally got diagnosed at 18.
Couldn't afford therapy or meds.
Now it just keeps getting worse and I've accepted my fate.

Once I started having chronic nightmares, physical ticks, and 3rd failed attempt at suicide, I realized I've reached the point of no return.
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my parents
but that's gonna get fixed soon
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>>36937532
how do you fail a suicide three fucking times, jesus christ
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>>36937560
>Find some ingredient in a drug that causes damage if you OD
>Try it
>End up waking up in my own yellow bile
>Second time
>Find a sensory depressant
>Take a fuckton at once while chugging water
>Try to tether plastic bag around neck with rubber band to cause aphyxiation while unconcious
>Can't do it in time and end up passing out with free access to air
>Wake up in yellow bile
>Third time
>Chug alcohol like a motherfucker
>Take new batch of pills
>Get bag in place finally
>Happy in my last milisecond of life and conciousness
...
>Wake up in yellow bile
>there was a fucking hole in the bag because the bottom wasnt 'sewn' together properly
fuck you chinese factory worker piece of shit
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>>36937560
He's obviously doing it f-
>tumblr filename

She's obviously doing it for attention and doesn't actually want to die.
if she actually wanted too she would have jumped out of a high story building or blow her brains out with a double barrel.
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>>36937824
no guns in europe my friend
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>>36937889
>doesn't know how to make a makeshift shotgun.

this is why Europeans are going extinct.
just google: "Pipe Shotgun"
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>>36927572
>tfw 5'6
>tfw ywn find another small boy to cuddle
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>>36937889
Bullshit, I'm an euro and I've seen guns
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I'm fat and could be pretty if I lost weight
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>>36929740
Eliezer pls go.
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>>36937934
Europe is diverse you retard.
In my country it is strictly prohibted. No way to get a license.
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Gay thoughts.
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>>36933061
Most gooks aren't really attractive enough to become "girls".
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>>36938008
>It's prohibted to get a gun.

black market.
gunsmiths isn't rocket science, a teenager in hick town can build guns with his pals and shoot small animals if he wanted too, and it'll only cost him 10-20$ max.
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>>36928021
Basically this
Nothing to look forward to. I can put in effort and get a better position but it's all the same shit. I just want to neet or die
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>>36937635
just jump off a fucking cliff you failure holy crap
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>shitty hair texture
>terrible skin problems all over my body
>dark circles under my eye (I think itss genetic, so I can't do anything about it)
>big nose
>big lips (not black)
>I'm 25 but I look like I'm 16
>5'7
>skelly fat
>have a 5.6 inch dick
>bad social skills
>college drop out
>working at a low paying job
>little to no friends
>no gf ever
>don't know how to kiss because I never had one
>no idea what to do with my life
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>>36927572
5'5" here
suggestions?
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>>36927585
>buy a tin of shoe polish
>become a shitskin
>find an ethnically pure Aryan woman
>???
>profit
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>I can't be happy because of vain and petty reasons.

Really sad how much the status quo has blinded your being.

Yall niggas need taoism.
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Aight I have a reason. A real good fucking reason.
THIS ATTIC IS TOO DAMN HOT
It's way hotter than any other place in the house, it's a fucking sauna and if I don't get out fast I'm gonna melt ...I'm dripping away send help
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I don't know, I'm just so lonely, people say I look good, so I assume my personality isn't compatible with pretty much most girls.

My personality isn't even bad, just not attractive for whatever reason
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>>36939241

It might be because you are depressed. Being in a negative mood makes anyone way less attractive than they are so if you always carry a chip on your shoulder, most people will be turned off by your attitude.

There is a difference between your attitude and your personality. Personality is subjective. While one girl may be madly in love with you, another will think you are the most boring person on earth. What's important is the attitude, how you carry yourself and the kind of energy you emanate. If you keep a positive outlook even when you are angry or depressed, if you learn to take things with humor and to take them a bit less seriously, you will appear confident even in doubt.

And it's not about faking it either. For instance, I believe that life is about the up and down and that the flawed notion of happiness people pursue is an illusion since it's impossible to have a life where you are always on top. Life is about the tests of life and the challenge. The up and down. I believe that even in down times, it's important to keep the attitude that things will get better because you will work to make them better. Even if you're sad, you allow yourself to be because it's temporary. So even when you're depressed, you have a strong will to keep your shit together and what will emanate from you is a sentiment of inner strenght and confidence.
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HELIOS CURSE YOU YOU BRIGHT ASSHOLE
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Oveprotective single mother and procrastination issues.
I waste time and there's nobody willing to help me but myself.
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>>36939682
Very good advice, I may be depressed, and I suppose there is a part of me that wants to carry on all the time
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>>36936449
It's not the fact that your a quadruple amputee that makes you unhappy. It's the fact that you think badly of it and therefore feel bad.
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>>36940413

>Comparing being amputated to not fitting the imaginary height scale of dumbass normies.

You're like those retards who compare abortion to the holocaust and yes, you either accept your circumstances or you stay miserable by your own doing.

If you don't understand this, then you are lost and cannot be helped.
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>>36938526
Literally me except I have okay skin
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>>36927572

irrational anxiety that seems to stem from low self-esteem, low confidence, quite fearful of how other people think of me rather than just worrying about what I think of myself.

I think everyone is always looking at me, judging me, never feel like I fit in, friends always come and go, i spend a lot of my time isolated out of choice because I really cannot pretend to be interested in people when I'm genuinely not. maybe I am slightly depressed too.
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>>36927572
5'6 Male and I look like puberty hit me and stopped halfway because it pitied me.

But if it wasn't that I'd probably find something else to bitch about
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>6'3
>Socially retarded
>Actually retarded
>Have friends but they're all boring as fuck
>Never had a job
>Never had a Gf
>Extreme Insomnia
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>>36942433
insomnia is fucking hell
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I can't fulfill my desire to become a serial killer because I have too much empathy and lack the cunning and strategic thinking skills to pull it off.
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>>36942612
I can help you. :D
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>>36927572
>short
>Parents come from decent families and houses
>They manage to fuck it up
>me and my siblings are all older and have never owned a home
>most of us are college dropouts or have never went at all
>probably gonna just be a wagie like the rest of my family barely making 35k in a few years
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>>36927585
5'6" in Scandinavia here. I'd do anything to be 5'11"
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>>36930790
What do you feel you need to compensate for? Depending on the woman you're dating, you shouldn't have to compensate.
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