This is a question for my fellow virgins, be it incels or voluntarily

>>36904070
>This is a question for my fellow virgins, be it incels or voluntarily virgin dudes and dudettes.
>Why?
>dudettes
fuck off don't enable them

>>36904070
Voluntarily. I'm not a fan of having sex without knowing the person actually loves me.

>>36904081
If a woman can make it to 25+ as a virgin, that's some <10% right there no?

>>36904070
I really want it to be special with a girl who I love and is also a virgin. I'm not really willing to compromise.

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>>36904070
When I started actually caring and "playing the game" it was too late and I was too inexperienced.
Idk how to dig myself out now.

I also think I'm not the only one on here with this situation.

>>36904070
>Why?
I don't know how to approach women like that or physically do anything related to that. Like, I don't physically know how to kiss someone and just the thought of trying and fucking it up gives me anxiety.

Plus, even if I could get it, I'm not really turned on unless I have a personal connection with someone. And maybe I'm a little conservative but I don't think you should enter a sexual relationship until you're already emotionally committed to the other person.

But again I don't know how to get a gf anyway so it doesn't matter.

I'm 27 and single with 2 dogs so that's my way to have some measure of companionship I guess. I'm at a point where I'd need to go out of my way just to interact with women to begin with but I never acquired dating skills while I was young and I just don't see it happening organically.

>>36904070
I am terrified of approaching/speaking to women. I've tried multiple times, in my teen years and in college. I gave up a couple years ago after asking out well over 100+ women and getting rejected by every single one. I have an unattractive face and body type, and anytime I've tried to fake confidence when walking up to a woman I've liked, my anxiety starts acting up and my heart starts pounding out of my chest. This results in me sweating, having stiff and awkward body posture, and slurring my words/my voice shaking to uncontrollable measures to the point where they couldn't even understand half of what I was saying. (Thank god bc it'd be more than likely some autistic shit anyways). I literally have no idea what to say or how to make them like me. I tried asking out a variety of different women from different races, heights, looks i.e. 2/10 - 9/10. None were interested. I just sort of gave up and still haven't lost my virginity.

>>36904070
save yourself for love/marriage

I can't achieve the prerequisites of getting a job and a car.

>>36904070
>Why?
Because i wanted (and still want) to give all of my first times to a woman that i truly love from the bottom of my heart.
I've had opportunities to lose my v-card, but the mere idea of doing something with a woman that i don't love is enough to make me want to kill myself, so i already accepted that i will die being a KV.

>>36904340

Same here man except I'm 26. I work now, zero contact with women, zero social skills, zero friends. God help us.

I was denied for 5 years during a relationship being told I wasn't good enough for it.

I hate my life, not even because I'm a 24 year old virgin, it's because I still love them after all the awful things and no matter what happens, after a few months if we got pissed at eachother I think nothing but good things about them.

A-Anyone want a broken as fuck boyfriend who they want to help fix? I really need someone.

>>36904070
1. I want an honest relationship with someone I care about.
2. My reclusive tendencies keep me from meeting people.
3. I've been burned a lot by women and reactively back away from relationships because of the bad experiences I've had.

I am scared to have sex, i've always been paranoid about what if i get a woman pregnant. I'd probably kill her.

>>36904646
Get a dog or a cat from a shelter. You'll save his or her life so they don't put it down and you'll keep busy with it. Pets make for good companions and the while it's an extra responsibility, it's probably the closest people like you or I would get to raising a kid.

>>36904673
>I was denied for 5 years during a relationship being told I wasn't good enough for it.
Anon what the fuck?

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Sex is for degenerates

Procreation with someone I love I could do but otherwise nah

why?

i dont know, im incel. my mother never loved me or spoke to me. literally just ignored me my whole life growing up, i never spoke to a female and im uggo

god has turned his back on me

>>36904673
>iktf to some extent

5 years is heavy

>>36904673
>I was denied for 5 years

hey im a 26 kv neet but atleast im not a faggot like that LOL. after 3 months max if she doesnt want to put out its fine, you just leave. relationships do not exist without some form of penetration

>>36904745
I love her and figured she would come around eventually. I was wrong, I was trying to be patient and wait until she was ready, apparently I'm just a total piece of shit who isn't worth anything.
But here we are now, this is my life. I don't even want to lose my virginity anymore, it means nothing to me. It's just a small portion of the gaping void that fills my being that I wish could be filled with material possessions.

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>>36904070
I wouldn't call myself a voluntary virgin but i've never actively tried losing it.
>why?
I can't really say i care about sex all that much. Not that it isn't important in a relationship or that i don't want to have it but something like casual sex has never interested me.

>>36904864
Don't be rude dude

We're all having to deal with it.

>>36904893
Was she like super catholic? Can you elaborate on why she thought you weren't good enough? It's just so weird since people fuck like being days or a week into a relationship nowadays and it's not that rare(though also not the standard from what I gather).

I feel bad for you anon. But at the same time, I think the problem was her and not you granted I don't have the full picture.

>>36904864
>relationships do not exist without some form of penetration
He was getting metaphorically fucked though.

AYYYYYY

>>36904070
I'm Catholic, I'm not having sex until I'm married

>inb4 THEY ALL CHEAT MARRIAGE IS A LIE REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Okay

>>36904957
>super catholic

Or just, you know, Catholic. I'm fairly certain you're not supposed to fuck before marriage if you're Catholic.

>>36904949
i mean i dont even think im being rude here, i suffered more than this person, i a 26 kv neet. ive never experience intimacy in my life nor had a relaxed conversation with a female. that is honestly soul cripplingly painful

still, even im not that big of a spineless faggot, lol. honestly

>>36904070
Fear. Not just social anxiety but intense, omnipresent fear. Something normies will never comprehend and only pretend to understand. Also bad acne.

>>36904957
For a while she was morbidly afraid of getting pregnant, on the top of the list of greatest fears it was being pregnant. So she wanted to abstain from any of that shit so there wasn't any risk of it at all.

I mean I got that, and respected it. But the problem was, she also put a fuck load of pressure on herself for no literal reason about being 16-17 and not having sex already and still being a virgin. It got so bad she would randomly start saying shit in our conversations of "You know, it's totally okay to be virgins at this age. I know someone whose in a relationship and they are 20 and still a virgin" and all I told her was "I really don't care K, I don't. I'll wait until you are ready it's fine." But she kept putting pressure on herself and then somehow it turned into blame on me for "pressuring" her when I didn't do shit outside of maybe once a year, if that, if she was ready during a heated moment.

Later on she just kinda said that I wasn't good enough for her virginity, and yeah. I don't know if she said that to hurt me or if she meant it, but seeing the results and how she fucked some dude literally two weeks after breaking up with me. I can see that I wasn't good enough.

>>36904108
they don't exist. All of them lie or voluntarily misinterpret the question to meet the criteria. There is no such thing as female incel, and certainly aren't any women who are "saving themselves for marriage".

>>36904070
got a small dick

>>36905138
Sounds like she had issues anon. I don't if it was paranoia or some kind of trauma but it seems she wasted a lot of your time.

>Later on she just kinda said that I wasn't good enough for her virginity
Yeah definitely some kind of mental bitch.

>but seeing the results and how she fucked some dude literally two weeks after breaking up with me
Jesus christ man. This fucking whore cockblocked you for 5 (FIVE) years with some bullshit excuses but puts out to some random cuck in 2 weeks? What the actual fuck? There's a special torture realm in hell for bitches like this.

At least you're still young and have a way to reach your testosterone prime(around 26-28) so just take the experience and find yourself a better relationship.

I don't know if this is worth much but just the fact that you put up with that shit means you have a lot of patience and I would go so far as to say that whore might have left some psychological scars that you can heal off. Don't believe any of the mental bullshit she spewed, you can recover from this and meanwhile she's just a whore of shaky convictions and poor character. You can get better than that.

>>36905200
>ertainly aren't any women who are "saving themselves for marriage".
Ever met Irish girls? They're like 80% catholic and many of the traditional ones still hold some of the values, granted they're probably not an overwhelming majority or anything.

>>36905241
insecure or have been humiliated

>>36904070
30yo virgin here. I'm involuntarily celibate.

Combo of being reclusive, shy, having no friends, and not being able to do anything beyond small talk with anyone. I'm sure being boring helps (i do nothing beyond listen to music, play video games, and go for walks), same with living at home and being currently unemployed

>>36905331
it's all a front, watch "blacked"

>>36905394
At least you go out for walks man, that's a step above normal NEETs.

>>36905349
Just insecure thankfully.
I diet and stuff because being vaguely attractive is important in life due to the halo effect. So maybe I could be with someone. But then after the sixth month of sex with a small penis I can't see a girl sticking around or not cheating.

>>36905301
The shit gave me a bunch of mental illnesses relating to dating. I have a hard time trusting anyone, and I can't stand being ignored. One of her usual methods to fuck with me was ignoring me even in person. It's really hard to date anymore, like the damage is there, I've tried getting over it, but it just doesn't work. There are just too many problems for most people to look over.

There is just so much damage everywhere it just can't be fixed by myself and I've accepted that at this point. That's the shitty part, I gotta find someone whose willing to take the time and patience to interact with me and help me heal so I can be myself again. Like the 5 years cucked thing isn't even the thing that ruined me, it just ruined my desire to be intimate with people. It sucks but thank you for your kind words. I hope it gets better and I meet the one girl whose kind and willing to help me.

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>>36905406
>watch softcore (?) porn to find out the truth of life

Not him but come on man.
If there are people who like rubbing balloons on themselves and inflated furries I'm sure some girls want to be the virgin princess.

I've never cared about real sex even though I have a sex drive. The notion of engaging in sexual activity seems too strange and surreal.

The idea of intimate human contact makes me uncomfortable enough to avoid relationships and social situations in which any opportunities of interpersonal sexual behaviour could arise.

>>36904070
I don't even know how to hold a conversation even with my family, let alone with the unknown. Having very little or no pleasure at all when talking to people seems to be the reason, but my mind always gets clouded whenever I try to find the real cause.

>>36905535
non sequitur. one involves sexual gratification and the other involves playing pretend so daddy doesn't hate you

>>36904070
Severe social anxiety causes me to spill my spaghetti when someone talks to me to the point that I developed selective mutism (can't talk to people unless I know them well).

The good news is that my brother has agreed to take my V-card recently.

>>36904070
I actually want to abstain until I'm married.

I turned it down once in HS and I'm not sure whether or not I regret it.

31

Never tried

Don't even know how desu

I just don't know any single girls to be honest. On a personality level, I'm extremely introverted but still pretty normal as far as robots go. Pretty sure if I were to be introduced to someone I could work something out but there's no way I find a girl on my own haha. It just isn't the way that I operate in the world.

>>36904070
I thought it would happen "in due time", that I'd find someone sometime.
It just didn't happen. I can tell other people connect easily so apparently I just didn't learn to do this and don't really feel the need.
Now I just really want to fuck but I don't want to "people".

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>>36905790
>>36905790
>>36905790
>>36905790
>my brother
wait fucking what?

>>36905790
>The good news is that my brother has agreed to take my V-card recently.
What the fuck?

>>36905523
You can work through it, anon. It's hard and the mental blocks are shit but you can work towards your rehabilitation even though the whole ordeal seems massively overwhelming now. Just take it as baby steps and challenge your faulty cognitions to realize it's not as bad as you think it is.

>>36905946
Welcome, my new friend.

>>36904070
I'm 25 and dead inside.
I feel like I'm to old, inexperienced and jaded to love or hold anyones affection.

I don't feel anything and yet all I want to do everyday is cry. But at the same time it just mechanical, I do t really feel the sadness.

I keep bringing myself down everyday and reached the point where the only Wayne can find salvation is through death.

Even if I did find someone to love me unconditionally, I don't think I could ever let myself accept there admiration. I truly, 100 percent, feel as if I'm broken.

Now I feel like crying again...

>>36904070
It just never happened, didnt decline anything, never took initiative either
It didnt bother me until I realised I was 20 and it was getting weird, and scared to do it with the wrong person
waiting until marriage sounds the safest but at the same time im not religious at all, so maybe until I move in together with a guy I have a stable ltr with and there is a concensus we are in it for marriage

>>36904070
My gf is laying asleep next to me right now. Earlier she mounted me and moaned as I kissed her neck and ran her wet pussy up and down my hard cock, then she slipped it in and bounced her ass until I flipped her over and made her cum until she couldn't form a coherent sentence. Then I got on my back and she put put my balls then cock in her mouth before swallowing all of my cum. I put on an anime we were watching after she went to the bathroom but then she started kissing me again, I turned over so I was on top of her and she started rubbing her pussy up against my leg so I pulled my underwear down and her shorts and just started thrusting again inside her. She made me lunch for tomorrow since I have a few classes in a row without any long break, she's a nice girl.

>>36905946
>>36905997
Hey don't judge. There's nothing wrong with wincest.

>>36906276
Yes it's wrong. You should be having sex with sex deprived anons, not your Chad brother.

>>36906293
Anon it's my only chance I have to fuck a chad. Plus he's suave as fuck too. He was really off put at first but he came around. You should accept wincest it like he did.

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Because I'm a hideously ugly Asian 5'8 manlet and I have no hope even for just friends at this point. Good thing those jap friend sims exist; I don't know how'd I'd make the wait until I off myself bearable at least.

>>36905420
True. I'd feel weird if I don't go for a walk. Mixof needing exercise and going stir crazy if I'm inside all day.

Guess it's reassuring I'm not a turbo neet

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>>36906223
I'm glad you found happiness anon.

>>36905200
I exist actually, turned 25 last month
If anyone wonders how - ugly face and awkward, no guy ever approached me, I even get rejected the times when I was trying to make friends (used to try to broaden my social circle) - to even add one on fb or when I was catching up with a guy I knew in elementary school.
Overall if men notice me it's usually to make funny quips to impress girls/ their friends, thankfully now they mostly leave me alone
Never had orbiters etc.

>>36904070
I'm not sure exactly, it's probably a factor of multiple things.

I have no interest in obtaining a partner, sure sex would be great and if the situation arose where I really liked a girl and she liked me back and I knew it I'm sure I'd go for it. But right now it's just as simple as I'm not playing the game.

I don't have any interest in talking to women. Most women in today's society I find vapid and mindless creatures. No girl I've ever met has ever shared anything close to a similar interest and they aren't particularly fun to talk to otherwise.

And if it wasn't just those to things its that I almost actively avoid talking to women. Not that I'm in many situations to do that, being out of uni now I pretty much wake up, go to work, come home and just relax. I don't go out at all and even if I did it's most likely with my friends and I'd rather just have a good time with them then deal with trying to pick up women.

And even if all of that wasn't enough it's that I don't know how to talk to women in a flirty way. I can talk to them fine when it comes to work or just things like that, but flirting is completely lost on me.

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>>36905790
Kissy-chan is that you?

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>>36906980
Holy shit this is so me.

>>36906997
Maybe it was. Maybe it wasn't.

:^)