[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

21+ virgins thread >how do you think you got here? >any

This is a red board which means that it's strictly for adults (Not Safe For Work content only). If you see any illegal content, please report it.

Thread replies: 136
Thread images: 33

File: 1491578055544.png (198KB, 861x910px) Image search: [Google]
1491578055544.png
198KB, 861x910px
21+ virgins thread

>how do you think you got here?
>any hope?
>how do you cope?
>>
>>36859385
42 year old virgin. There's no hope for me is there? Don't even have kids.
>>
>>36859538
How have you not committed suicide yet?
>>
>>36859538
>42 year old virgin. There's no hope for me is there? Don't even have kids.
>virgin; dont even have kids
yes thats implied you fucking moron
>>
>>36859385
I was a virgin until almost 24. I pretended to be a normie and lowered my standards and just fucked a girl.
>>
>>36859743
Lowering standards at this point seems impossible
>>
File: 1492353773426.jpg (110KB, 640x640px) Image search: [Google]
1492353773426.jpg
110KB, 640x640px
>>36859743
how did you do it. I want to lose my virgnity this year.
>>
File: 02.jpg (512KB, 1280x1834px) Image search: [Google]
02.jpg
512KB, 1280x1834px
>being an unattractive shutin
>no, too autistic to even get a hooker
>anime tiddie
>>
>>36859797
Why?
>>36859798
Whisper. Talked to some girl that seemed lonely and insecure. It was luck in a way.
But honestly I'm not ugly so this might not work for everyone.
>>
>>36859841
>Whisper.
is this an app or something?
>>
I'm a pro-life anti-natalist, so since I never want to have kids, I should stay a virgin for life. Unless I fuck your barren mom
>>
>>36859850
Yeah.
But just try tinder. And pretend to be a normie.
>>
>>36859385
>>how do you think you got here?
Never put in the effort really.
>>any hope?
No.
>>how do you cope?
I'm just waiting to die.
>>
>>36859385
not too bad desu, not very worried, i'm pretty much a cyborg, I just haven't been around new people in a while so no opportunities arose recently, but I'm decent looking, have interesting hobbies and girls seem to like me
>>
File: 1470235770903.jpg (219KB, 897x647px) Image search: [Google]
1470235770903.jpg
219KB, 897x647px
>>36859385
I don't really care to be honest. Sure, it'd be nice to lose it with someone I care about but there's no anxiety or sadness to be felt over it.

I find it kind of weird that you guys care SO much about your virginities. It's nothing to be ashamed about.
>>
>>36859385
I'm plenty hopeful about everything except ever having a sexual relationship. Being hopeful about everything else is how i cope with the fact that I have completely given up on fucking anyone.
>>
>>36859873
>pretend to be a normie
If you can pretend to be a normie enough to convince a stranger to fuck you, you were never a robot
>>
>>36859927
>>36859904

i agree desu, there's just much more things to worry about in life for now, if I put forth the effort I could easily lose it
>>
>>36859385
>use tinder for years
>have reset account multiple times so literally have had probably about 1.5k matches
>only 1/3 of the girls respond to my first msg and even then they're mostly 1 word replies
>literally have only have conversations with more than 10 total messages with .5% of my matches
>have only met with 2 matches

>first was chubby blond with pig nose, 3/10 imo but i was desperate
>literally first thing she says is "well are you going to talk to me" when i pick her up (not in a car just for a walk) since I was shy
>we walk around then she just goes back to her dorm, even a 3/10 pig was clearly not interested

>7 months later
>some crazy girl messages me first on tinder
>literally almost never happens, basically autistic so the only girls I can get to meetup are below me in looks since I can't hold a conversation for shit

>she spam texts me and we agree to meetup
>she is chubby but kind of thick, big titties
>take her to a lake, too disgusted to make a move since she's 4/10
>go back to her house, idk why I didn't leave
>she says do you think im ugly, then asks me to kiss
>fuck it.tm
>make out, it was pretty good ngl, literally my first kiss (2nd overall) since 7th grade, she says im going to jill myself after which makes me gag
>realize she's crazy, blowing up my phone etc.
>break things off before i'm in too deep
>she sends me a text saying you got what you want even though she was the one that pressed the issue and that's why you're leaving even though it was because she's crazy af
>barely dodged a bullet
>still a virgin though

>been almost a year since then and have had 100s of matches since and reset my tinder once but still no meetups
>got a legit qtpi to agree to meetup in the future but I was too pussy to followup and she unmatched me
>will remain virgin for a long time now
>btw I'm 19 sorry to hijack thread
>>
Probably my own fault

I'd like to believe I have a chance with someone someday. So I'm gonna continue to live in my daydream for now.

Idk just try not to think about how lonely I am and play games,guitar,work anything really to keep my mind off of how miserable my life is.
>>
>>36859385

>how do you think you got here?
Start out on /b/ around 10 years ago. Moved around since
>any hope?
Nope. I work at a place with 90% females and none of them are remotely interesting. I see myself as a sexless person.
>how do you cope?
Fapping helps.
>>
File: lazy.jpg (81KB, 1024x798px) Image search: [Google]
lazy.jpg
81KB, 1024x798px
>>36859385
I'm a 21 year old virgin. I could lose my virginity easily because I'm actually fairly attractive. A slut on snapchat randomly send me pics of her in her underwear in response to my stories, but I'm pretty sure I'm schizoid, so I don't really feel the desire to go out of my way to get laid. I just don't really give a fuck. I have nothing to cope with. It doesn't bother me lol. I fingered an 8.5/10 once. I'm pretty content with masturbating myself to sleep every night lol
>>
Think of the wizard/ sage/ mountain man archetype, how he is a complete man with no woman, how he knows secrets no sexually active couple can..you are that wizard attaining to greatness, do not lose sight of this anon, do not lose sight of your redemption and enlightenment.
>>
>>36859538
Can't you adopt or something? I've heard single men aren't allowed to adopt kids, but I don't know if that's true or /r9k/ trolling me.
>>
>>36859692
He is obviously trolling with such a post.
>>
>>36859692
>https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/In_vitro_fertilisation

The USSR collapsed, Donald Trump is president, and Hip Hop is now shit.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Didn't care as a teenager, didn't chase tail didn't keep my friends.
>any hope?
little
>how do you cope?
Simply not caring.
If a girl falls into my lap I guess I'll take it.
It's all just peer pressure, trying to live up to societies expectations.
>>
i've had chances to fuck girls and I know I could and I really need to soon.

In the past I got anxious about it to the point that I wouldn't even want sex when I had the chance. Just want to be normal so i'm gonna bite the bullet and fuck some tinder hoes.

I almost got a qtgf but didnt fuck her so that fell apart
>>
26 years old

>how do you think you got here?
No desire to try.
>any hope?
Nope
>how do you cope?
Acceptance, time has passed and there's nothing that can be done about it.
>>
File: 1472036452464.png (456KB, 900x900px) Image search: [Google]
1472036452464.png
456KB, 900x900px
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Realized I'm boring and socially inept at the age of 16. Later when I turned 17 I started browsing 4chan, mostly on /v/ and /pol/ but then I found /r9k/ and could relate to almost everything.
>any hope?
Not in this day and age, women are cancer. They always vote left, they are extremely boring and predictable beings (use facebook to boost ego, tinder to use someone as their masturbation tool, watch mainstream media and get brainwashed into voting left/multikulti. I have grown to despise women. If someone where to open their legs for me and let me lose my virginity, sure I'd fuck them but I'll never settle with a modern day woman, they are whores that deserve no respect or loyalty.
>how do you cope?
Masturbation, videogames and a growing a burning hatred towards the world. Mostly women and globalist faglords. I've grown angrier and angrier over the years, nothing ever goes my way and the world frowns upon people like me. I hate this world.
>>
File: 1494083456651.jpg (247KB, 1920x1080px) Image search: [Google]
1494083456651.jpg
247KB, 1920x1080px
I've had girls on the brain a lot lately, sometimes I'll see a really attractive girl and it makes me want one for myself, but I know I'm not good mating material so I don't try. Life isn't so bad though, I'm smiling everyday.
>>
>>36860443
>sometimes I'll see a really attractive girl and it makes me want one for myself, but I know I'm not good mating material so I don't try.
iktf
>>
>>36859841
get cancer and fuck off my board, you useless normie nigger. you dont belong
>>
>>36860206
kys you dont belong here. faggot normie
>>
>>36859385
>>how do you think you got here?
I have never approached women and women have never approached me because I'm ugly and awkward

>>any hope?
No

>>how do you cope?
Being literally autistic helps a lot. I see normal people desperately crave attention and companionship constantly, even introverts. I'm completely fine with being alone 24/7 for life. Solitude and routine is comforting
>>
File: 1493354558653.jpg (87KB, 568x842px) Image search: [Google]
1493354558653.jpg
87KB, 568x842px
24 here

>how do you think you got here?
Cripplingly low self esteem
>any hope?
Yes
>how do you cope?
Fap

My self esteem issues spawn from my parents never ever having anything positive to say, for my whole life they only ever talk about negative things or downplay my accomplishments. When people on the outside compliment me, it's very foreign.

No girl wants to deal with this baggage, and I'd hate to burden someone with my issues, so it's a vicious cycle.
>>
File: 1374082540643.gif (2MB, 201x137px) Image search: [Google]
1374082540643.gif
2MB, 201x137px
>>36859999
>thread about being a virgin
>first line is about Tinder
Even quads won't make me read the rest of that
>>
File: 1492127564151.jpg (264KB, 1024x741px) Image search: [Google]
1492127564151.jpg
264KB, 1024x741px
I had several chances but I was too much of a pussy. I don't know what I was scared of, probably that my life would change too much.
It doesn't really bother me in the slightest. Relationships don't interest me, even sex except once in a blue moon when I wake up extremely horny. I forget I'm a virgin 99% of the time, I just don't think about that stuff.
Plus I got a productive hobby and other non productive distractions so fuck it
>>
>>36861056
there's nothing wrong with trying to get laid if you are a virgin, in fact if you aren't content with being a virgin just accepting it is much worse
>>
File: 2017-03-17 09.00.40.jpg (699KB, 1149x1148px) Image search: [Google]
2017-03-17 09.00.40.jpg
699KB, 1149x1148px
I'm just pissed at how competitive the market for attaining a girl has become. It's not even worth it anymore

My life is a huge contrast to my Stacey sister who's socialising a lot and switch bofriends seamingly every month.

It's honestly not worth it for the amount of self improvement you have to go trough for a man.
I have a job, a car, a few friends and somewhat fit, but that's not enough.

Even if you get a gf it won't be long before she breaks up with you anyway for shallow reasons.
>>
>>36859385
>How do you think you got here?
by never trying. Never even tried flirting with a girl. I wasn't really ever interested in anyone also i found a lot of girls attractive sure but that's it. I never took any time to get to know any of them.

>any hope?
none

>how do you cope?
i don't
>>
Was a virgin until 3 days ago. 26 years old. Met a girl at a friend's (one of my two friends) birthday party and finally decided to nut up and ask her out.
The sex was pretty shitty. Had to constantly try to keep it up. Might need to NoFap for a while to get used to the softer, slower feeling, but at least I got to try some stuff I've always wanted to do, like teasing her erogenous zones while she's desperately trying to play Mario Kart.

In any case. Just want you to know I believe in you. None of that bee urself shit, but you really have to get out of your comfort zone. If a fat anti-social NEET slob like me can make it, you can too.
>>
I'm a 19 year old virgin (female). I'm working on self improvement so I can find a high quality boyfriend to take my virginity. I have guys right now that want to have sex with me in my current form but eh, I have to deal with getting over Christian guilt and I want a nice boyfriend that won't murder my vagina
>>
File: 1464828675770.jpg (101KB, 1014x764px) Image search: [Google]
1464828675770.jpg
101KB, 1014x764px
>>36859385
>Never really took the initiative
>Hope is lost
>Vidya, Anime & Masturbation

22 years old uni student and feel like I'm too far gone.
>>
>>36859385
22 V here.
>how do you think you got here?
By not giving a fuck about women and doing my own thing + overall anti social traits.
>any hope?
Meh. I am not hurrying to lose it, it won't be a "life changing experience".
>how do you cope?
By reminding my self that to get pussy you have to either be an ultra chad (which I am not) or succumb to being a beta slave. No thanks, would rather live a comfy life working part time and enjoy my free time with hobbies.
>>
>>36859999
Holy fuck you get quads and waste it on this crap?
>>
>>36861542
Define current form?
>>
File: 059.jpg (175KB, 1280x1280px) Image search: [Google]
059.jpg
175KB, 1280x1280px
>>36859385
Hai guys if I used pic related as my pro pic could I get laid on tinder? It's one of the only pics I have, lunch with roastie a year ago.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
never left my house, only have 1 irl friend that isn't just a friend of my twin
don't even see that friend more than once a month or so to go see a new movie that comes out
>any hope?
probably not but it's w/e
>how do you cope?
i'm dead on the inside, real life shit happens to me and i know i should feel deep emotions but the only deep emotions i feel are sad, mad, and being hungry

i still enjoy things but they're not that deep
i watch a lot of tv and movies and i play a lot of games
nothing in my life is fulfilling and i have never applied myself to anything so it's no wonder i'm a 24 y/o KHHV who never went to college and has no license/car
>>
>>36861909
no
girls don't want to see pics of other girls
don't take straight on pictures of yourself do it from the side

look up tips online of how to take selfies
girls will literally take 100s of selfies a day trying to get 2 or 3 they like to put on social media for validation
>>
File: Ant209.jpg (627KB, 1944x2592px) Image search: [Google]
Ant209.jpg
627KB, 1944x2592px
>>36859873
how the fuck you get laid on whisper?

>>36861968
can anyone else confirm this? And is pic related. It's the only other worthy pic, from age 18 or something.
>>
>>36861885
Overweight and no makeup skills
Cute face with potential
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Dated a few girls never was interested in them. They just liked me cause they thought I was some kind of edgy criminal rebel. Eventually they all find out I'm just a normal dude who has resting bitch face. One girl I actually like and could see myself starting a relationship with problem was she was four years younger then me. We were family friends she always had a crush on me and was pretty but I never gave into her advances cause age difference. Dude exactly my age hits on her anyway becomes her boyfriend. Me and my family joke about how creepy it is (deep down I regret not taking the chance but also glad I didn't)
>any hope?
Anything is possible
>How do you cope?
Writing, working out, friends and family. Not judging my worth on my sexual activities
>>
>>36862042
Why not just take a new picture?
>>
>>36862042
look at that pic you look like a fucking alien
even with photos for licenses they use a different angle lens
move the camera further out and do it slightly to one side
>>
23 year old virgin here. Dont care at all , dont want sex I will just masturbate. I just want to be left alone mom and dad stop pestering me for grandkids. I'm schizoid so I'm happy been by myself , losing my virginity or Having a gf is literally the last thing I want.
>>
I comfort myself by saying I chose this life. Only fujoshi seem to be attracted to me. I keep myself well kept and clean. Coworkers say I'm attractive. I put a lot of work in being like that but none of it matters in the long run. It's all about game and the game isn't for me. It isn't fun and it isn't genuine.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
I've never cared about sex and therefore never pursued it.

>any hope?
I'd probably could lose it if I tried to, but I don't even want to try. No need to bother.

>how do you cope?
I don't. There's nothing to cope with.
>>
>turn 14
>almost instantly break out in severe cystic acne
>adolescence completely destroyed, skin destroyed, filled with anxiety, never want to leave my room
>26 now, still trying to learn to be human again

whenever i look in a mirror i just see myself from high school and want to gut myself
>>
>>36859743
gonna stick to this your post gave me hope thanks
>>
>>36859385
Got here because sex without love is meaningless to me

If I find someone, I suppose

I don't cope, it doesn't bother me in the slightest.
>>
I'm 28 in July.

I'm not attractive
Maybe slight hope because I've kissed 2 girls
Cope with video games
>>
I lost mine at 24, hang in there lads
>>
>>36862331
how did you do it?

>>36862116
do you think its even worth it with that face? Genuinely asking, do you think that face could be successful on tinder?
>>
>>36862384
I don't know, I've never used it.
>>
>>36862042
>>36861909
Do you have a pet dog or cat? Take a picture of yourself with them. Most women love animals, show them you do too. It also gives them an opening to say something like "nice dog", which you can then use to inquire about her pets, what animals she likes, then moving on to her other interests.

Get pictures of yourself doing something that isn't staring at a camera or sitting in front of a computer. Ask a friend to go on a hike with you or something. Find a nice view to enjoy. Go bowling. Anything. Give her the impression that you have an interesting life, something she'd like you to share with her.

Most important of all is that it looks natural. Don't pose for the camera, just make it look like you were "caught in the act" while doing something remotely interesting or fun. Don't look directly into the lens either.
>>
>>36862384
i went to this thing called drink and draw at a local bar/pub, most people there are a bit socially awkward and reclusive anyway as people who do art tend to be. i got talking with this girl and it just went from there. i didn't really do anything smooth, we just happened to both be around the same level of fucked up ness, anxiety, neurosis, weird humour etc so it felt fine. i was on a 3 week no fap streak and i think that helped a lot to let me not give a fuck.
>>
File: 064.jpg (159KB, 960x1280px) Image search: [Google]
064.jpg
159KB, 960x1280px
>>36862590
Does nofap help?

>>36862571
no pets but how about a bumper car
>>
>>36862742
It does and can be really difficult early on, worth it though. my highest streak was 100 days and it does seem to help with energy, motivation and just not being a pussy. at the moment i fap most days because it's just such a good way to help fall asleep. i don't use porn much anymore, i think ceasing porn gets you quite a lot of the benefit of nofap.
>>
>>36862742
https://theblog.okcupid.com/the-4-big-myths-of-profile-pictures-41bedf26e4d check this out op.
>>
>grin at thread title
>immediately realize that I became 21 two months
holy shit
>>
>>36862794
>i don't use porn much anymore
do you watch porn for the sake of it without fapping?
>>
I lost it at 20
Lose weight if you're fat
Shower more if you don't
Lift more if you're a twig

Then just act like a normie and, if you're political, hide the redpill (you can redpill them a bit in a relationship but not beforehand, that'll just turn them away)

If you just interested in losing it, then do the first 3 things and go on tinder.
>>
>>36862842
no, i don't think you have to ejaculate, it's probably harmfully overstimulating in some way and contributes to a subtle anxiety and insecurity around women. personally if i decide to look at some porn i can experience warning signs (adrenaline burst, limbs cooling down, increased tensing of my gut etc) before i've even opened the browser sometimes. it probably affects me more than most people but it still downregulates dopamine receptors density so eh..
>>
File: he kissed me.jpg (78KB, 610x421px) Image search: [Google]
he kissed me.jpg
78KB, 610x421px
>>36859385
>34 years old
I don't think I ever believed in love or relationships. I never tried to get a gf because I knew I will never be good enough for anyone.
>>
>>36859743

There are no standards to lower. Fucking anyone I don't love is just not an option. I look for sex too, yes, but fuck me if I spend the rest of my life with a retarded slutty cumrag. And if you wish me to spend my life with one? You're a right cunt.
>>
>>36859385
>21
>still college aged
Virginity isn't even a big deal until AT LEAST 25 or so, 30 is probably closer to where it starts to actually be seen by normies as creepy. Even in my tiny meme-autistic socially-dysfunctional circle I know MULTIPLE people who lost their virginity after 21.

30 is a FAR better line, hardcore religious people still sometimes save it for marriage (don't believe every meme) but if you're hardcore-religious enough for that you're probably married to Mrs. GeneticChristian BabyFactory before you're 30.
>>
>>36863208
>Mrs. GeneticChristian
meant to type Generic, not Genetic
sorry desu
>>
>>36860241
>Can't you adopt or something? I've heard single men aren't allowed to adopt kids, but I don't know if that's true or /r9k/ trolling me.

why would you want to raise someone else's overmatured sperm?
>>
>>36863236
>he doesn't believe his genes to be so inferior that spreading them would be a crime against humanity
>he isn't so pathetic and depressed that bringing a child into this world with his genes and upbringing would feel like abuse in itself
NORMAN LEAVE REEE
>>
Y'all aren't missing out on much.

I lost my virginity to my girlfriend at 19, she was 19 and a virgin too.

I had lost interest in our relationship but now that I am single all I want is to fuck her one more time, even though I never had the energy to do so when we were dating.

I've tried fucking four or five other girls since, but they aren't as kinky as my ex.

Ah well. Point is, better to be like y'all and not know what you're missing out on, right?

As for virgins desperate enough for a root. Look on CL for gangbangs happening. After my ex and I broke up I went to one. About 30 guys taking turns getting blown and fucking this fat mature lady. She was kinda gross but gave really good head and had big tits. She wanted us to cum in her bareback ( I guess it got her off) but I wore a rubber cause I didn't want an STD. There were also a bunch of older gay guys sucking anyone and everyone off. Try it if you really need a root.
>>
>>36859385
26 years old here

>how do you think you got here?
Shy, non-aggressive personality who didn't socialize that much until just recently

>any hope?
I don't think I'll ever lose it the old-fashioned way, but I'm pretty sure I'm hiring an escort very soon.

>how do you cope?
Work distracts me 5 days a week. Really too tired to give a fuck (pun not intended) after work. My two free days I actually do think about it a lot, but I tend to try to distract myself with housework and hobbies.
>>
File: 1451024819493s.jpg (7KB, 250x243px) Image search: [Google]
1451024819493s.jpg
7KB, 250x243px
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Aspergers, that's really it

>any hope?
Maybe, I'm thinking of going on a vacation with my neetbux and meet some new people in different countries. Maybe I'll meet a girl

>>how do you cope?
Spend my time doing and caring about stuff that actually matters like family
>>
>>36863832
Knew a lad who was a sperg, even he's had sex.
>>
>>36863844
really depends on how severe it is and how much social training you got
also I bet 60% of spergs aren't actual spergs, they just think so because muh social awkwardsness
>>
File: 1494154640433.jpg (122KB, 640x631px) Image search: [Google]
1494154640433.jpg
122KB, 640x631px
For pretty much my entire life I didn't care about girls. I genuinely was only attracted to 2D girls, not like I got rejected by real girls and was bitter or anything like that but it's genuinely just how my brain worked. And I was perfectly happy with the situation until very recently.
However for some reason in the last year or so I have a sudden strong yearning for companionship. I just really want a GF, I'm still not really attracted to 3D girls unless they're extremely cute and basically perfect looking like Katya. I have been doing nofap and abstaining from looking at 2D recently to try to change my brain to like regular women, but I feel like a fucking retard that I have to actually put in effort just to find girls attractive.
I'm 22 and I'm a fucking loser, I have one friend that I have left over from highschool but he doesn't go to parties or meetups or anything like that, and if he did he probably wouldn't invite me. I work from home so I never get the chance to meet new people. I can't even make a friend, let alone somehow get a GF. I wish I could go back to being happy alone like I was until recently, life was so easy before all these dumb feelings started coming up. I have no sex drive whatsoever, I just want a cute girl to be m companion in life. Probably gonna kill myself in the next couple of years tbqh.
>>
File: Chris-evans.jpg (71KB, 509x595px) Image search: [Google]
Chris-evans.jpg
71KB, 509x595px
22yr virgin
>how do you think you got here?
Having aspergers so no social life at all and no ability to talk to girls, medium level acne since I was 18
>any hope?
Well I'm 6'2", normal looking and i go to the gym 5 days a week, the goal is to get to Captain America's size. Hopefully then I'll have the confidence to ask a 5/10 girl on a date
>how do you cope?
Well I focusing on the gym until I get the /fit/ body I'm aiming for. But if I get to 25 and still a virgin I'm definitly killing myself
>>
>>36860433
>mfw this is the perfect description of my feelings
>I want off this ride

Anon, you find any other ways to cope? What you posted is all I have other then drinking.
>>
>>36859385
26 year old virgin here, feels meh
>>
>>36859385
19 years old virgin here. A trap and some gay offered me sex but I rejected it because no homo. Also there is a woman that wanted the D, I think, but I'm not sure, probably not.
>>
>>36865317
>some gay offered me sex but I rejected it because no homo
been there done that, several times even.
>>
File: oooo.jpg (18KB, 249x353px) Image search: [Google]
oooo.jpg
18KB, 249x353px
>>36859385

Lost my virginity at 24. 2 years ago.

I "stole" the girl that one of my best friends was pining after.

picture related.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
I just haven't tried at all. No dates, nothing. I have no interest. That'll probably change, but by then it may be too late. And Asperger's doesn't help either.
>any hope?
If I start now, there may be a chance.
>how do you cope?
I've just lived with it for now and accepted it. I'm 21, turning 22 in late July.
>>
>>36865652
are you me?
>21, birthday in July
>aspie
>no dates or interests
>>
>>36859385
>>how do you think you got here?
I was an edgelord when I was 15, decided I couldn't waste time on wimmin or give them my precious bodily fluids. I even turned down a few offers.
>>any hope?
Not really. I have a hard time connecting to people, I don't even have any friends I can talk to about this kind of shit.
>>how do you cope?
I keep myself busy with my studies. MSc in Mech Eng in around a year and a half at this rate.
>>
>>36859385
schizoid
schizoid
schizoid
>>
>>36859385
22yo. Not a virgin, but I was shitfaced when we did that and I haven't seen her since. It was in my tent on this open air festival.
I still feel like a virgin in a sense that I never had a gf. The intimate connection with someone.
Sticking your parts in someone else's flesh hole doesn't mean shit.
>>
>>36859743
>lower my standards
Not in a million years, if I fuck a Stacy out of desperation it'll be rock bottom.
>>
>>36865966
Kill yourself and leave this board normal faggot
>>
>>36865966
I bet it feels good though doesn't it?
>>
>>36866158
It doesn't feel like anything.
I stuck my dick in another person, that's it. You glorify it way too much.
>>
>>36866195
Also I think she stole my cigs. That sucked.
>>
File: Iambroken.png (1MB, 1279x723px) Image search: [Google]
Iambroken.png
1MB, 1279x723px
>>36859385
>37 yrs
>no real hope due to the degeneracy of the modern female + the leftist shithole that I live in.
>I try not to think about it. But on cold mornings, memories of my ex love wrapping her arms around me from behind in bed as we lay there, spooning to keep warm and just feel close, burn their way out of my subconscious and make me want to die.
>tfw she left me to be a degenerate pansexual regardless of how good i treated her.
>>
22 here so 8 years to go until I gain my wizard powers. Are they as great as people say?
>>
>>36866341
You unlock a bunch of new levels in the crippling depression tree.
>>
>>36866356
this

fuckyourobotobloxbloxbloxdieinafire
>>
File: 1492566682520.jpg (232KB, 1000x1000px) Image search: [Google]
1492566682520.jpg
232KB, 1000x1000px
>>36859385
i got here by building walls that i felt where impenetrable and began to see the true redpill for what it was after my mother cheated on my father i realized the truth about female nature i now have no interest in sexual contact at all and i am ok with that because i am not a beta who is a slave to women of this society
>>
>>36866356
That sounds cool. How many points needed to unlock painless suicide?
>>
>>36859385

Hey OP and everyone 21+ in age

Im 26 kissless, handholdless virgin actully.

Not really mad at life or women because I never interact. But I think the world as a whole is getting far too deep in the shitter.

I feel sorry for most/some girls growing up today know that they will sometime, much sooner than they expect, hit a wall.

They will not understand why they dont get the attiention they used to, why everyone is so "wierd and evil"
(no one really is that mean or evil but in the eyes of a girl that grows up getting both dicks, money, human libs etc thrown at them, hitting this wall makes it seem like that)

Im happy i grew up with my few half autistic/ maybe just normies but shy friends in a small suburb playing in the woods and stuff.

Had many friends, no girls ofc. Legos, pokemon, computers and more computers and eventually no friends but all my intrests of the NEET life intact for me to enjoy them some more years before having nothing to do.

Then I just turned to school again, having a good enough father to support me.

Anyway, most people would look at my life, if they knew it, and just feel really wierded out or sorry for me.

I spare them those feelings and feel that for them instead in class and in my dark room at home. :)
>>
>>36859385
dropped out of grade 10
never talked with girls romantically

I'm 22 so I still have hope if I get out of my room
>>
>>36859385
24 this year. I'm a socially awkward recluse. I live in a geriatric small town with no attractions besides its 3 churches. I haven't had an offline friend for a decade.

I cope with my loneliness with drugs. Bless my boys in Cali mailing me shit.
>>
>Shy child, developed intimacy problems
>I have turned down sex on multiple occasions
>disregard meat pleasures, acquire strings
>>
Friendless 19 yo virgin here. I think if I don't just get a hooker I will stay this way till I'm 21. I'm nearly 20 as it is.
>>
File: winter.png (560KB, 877x624px) Image search: [Google]
winter.png
560KB, 877x624px
>>36859385
>tfw just had the best thing just happened to me. I had friends, my own house and a girl that liked me.
>tfw woke up, threw up all the alcohol from the night before, alone freezing in my room.

Idk where it went wrong desu for some reason when i was 11-12 girls were all over me. Constanatly got asked out had a few "gfs". Didnt mean shit to me back then tho and after puberty it all stopped no more gfs almost got one at 16 but that didnt work. Now im turning 22 tommorow now a friendless jobless virgin livin at mommys. Satrting to actually think i should an hero.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Poor social skills, subpar aesthetics (overweight), contentment with isolation.
>any hope?
Sure. I'm only 24. I'm sure I'll have sex within the next forty to fifty years, but I'm growing increasingly scared that it will be with a prostitute.
>how do you cope?
Same way I've gotten by the past fifteen years since I woke sexually. Above average amounts of masturbation coupled with hearty amounts of escapism/reading.
>>
>>36863236
I want to raise a cute daughteru but not spread the curse of autism.
It's a shame, my family has great genetics otherwise.
>>
File: 1418759162571.png (671KB, 960x717px) Image search: [Google]
1418759162571.png
671KB, 960x717px
>how do you think you got here?
shy, unattractive
>any hope?
maybe
>how do you cope?
i don't actually care that much. i suffer depression for other reasons that are more important to me. i am an introverted person and though some dream gf who is going to fix all my problems sounds nice i don't think sex or a real gf will do me any good right now, maybe ever
>>
>>36859385
23

Eventually you accept it. I've started rejecting women entirely once I calculate their whore stats (good luck finding a woman who isn't a filthy cum slut).
>>
>>36859385
>>how do you think you got here?
I was always shy and reclusive.
>>any hope?
Don't know, don't care.
>>how do you cope?
Honestly I've never really worried about having a sex life. I've sort of known since I was a teenager that I was going to be a virgin for a lonnng time.
>>
>>36859385
>how do you think you got here?
Never been interested in other people
>any hope?
>how do you cope?
no, but I don't care, I had a girlfriend, she wanted me,
it was the worst time of my life, and now I'd avoid any kind of romantic interests, if there were any
>>
>how do you think you got there?
can't manage to socialize, people don't like me and i don't like them
>any hope?
no
>how do you cope?
I just don't give a fuck anymore, it's litteraly something to get credit in social interactions, but i don't have social interactions so i'd have no use of it
>>
21.
Kissless as well, but most people don't assume I'm a virgin because I'm not ugly or anything, usually in good shape, and I socialize pretty well.

I squander every potential relationship by arbitrarily deciding I'm not attracted to the girl or deciding she'd never be attracted to me.

My twin brother and his qt gf are having kinky, experimental sex all the fucking time. It's the reason my virginity is starting to bug me.
>>
File: 1491885480246.gif (500KB, 500x381px) Image search: [Google]
1491885480246.gif
500KB, 500x381px
24
>how do you think you got here?
Unattractive and no real ambition other than keeping myself alive.
>any hope?
None that I can see.
>how do you cope?
Vidya, 4chan and anime. When I'm not at work (thank fuck I work nights) I'm playing vidya, lurking here or watching random anime I've never heard of.
>>
File: 1460697035578.gif (2MB, 248x291px) Image search: [Google]
1460697035578.gif
2MB, 248x291px
>>36867319
>i am an introverted person and though some dream gf who is going to fix all my problems sounds nice i don't think sex or a real gf will do me any good right now, maybe ever
This so much. I love the idea of someone that loves and accepts me, but I don't think that I could love the kind of person that accepts me as I am now.
>>
22 almost 23, never even kissed. I'm not fat at all, just kinda ugly. I have a 17 y.o. coworker who I am pretty attracted to, she isn't hot but she is thin and has a somewhat pleasant face so that's good enough for me. However when I have been in charge of her I treated her like shit thinking it would make her attracted to me, instead one of her friends asked me if I hated her, to which I said no. I remember asking 4chan to rate her at one point and everyone said she was ugly as fuck, like 3 or 4 / 10 but I don't really care. I might be driving wither her somewhere for work soon and I am wondering if I should try to get lunch with her on the way back. The problem is that my friends also work there (although most of them are quitting) so if they find out I tried to ask out a high school girl they will think I am creepy as fuck.
>>
File: 81743382.jpg (71KB, 550x413px) Image search: [Google]
81743382.jpg
71KB, 550x413px
>>36868086
>no real ambition other than keeping myself alive
same
This shouldn't be a bad thing because this is what all living creatures live for, keeping themselves alive for as long as possible. Everything else we humans do is just to cope with boredom of life and sometimes help our fellow man to survive.
Stay alive for as long as possible, maybe reproduce someday and just fuck everything else
>>
File: 1490022295394.png (277KB, 796x534px) Image search: [Google]
1490022295394.png
277KB, 796x534px
>>36868355
Nice dubs and yeah, I feel you man. I don't think it's a bad thing either but it gets a little tiring when family members get on my case when they see I don't have any real motivation or drive to do anything other than what I'm doing. I'm not living for anyone other than myself so why the fuck should it matter to them what I do as long as I'm content with what I have?
>>
File: 1480912126658.png (460KB, 854x1000px) Image search: [Google]
1480912126658.png
460KB, 854x1000px
I turn 21 in a month (I'm American)

is it really any different?

I still feel the same as when I was 18 only less hopeful
>>
>>36859385
>>how do you think you got here?
Being socially awkward, not attractive, broke, 5'9

>>any hope?
At this rate, nope. I try, but it guess nowhere.

>>how do you cope?
Im now thinking I should just fuck some escort. I don't know how to get one or not get caught by the police. Plus, I'd be still nervous about it
>>
I've put 0 effort into having any sort of relationship. A few years ago a decent looking girl in my class gave me her number out of nowhere and insisted on always eating lunch together, and I just never attempted to do anything with her. Eventually she stopped contacting me, and I've never seen her since. That was probably my only real chance, because I'll never initiate something myself. It's probably for the best, I feel like I'm incapable of feeling love.
>>
>>36861542
>high quality boyfriend
Just admit that you want chad.
>>
24.
>how do you think you got here?
I could rehash my typical blog post / journal entry, but why bother? I'm a friendless, everything-less virgin. Basically I don't talk to people.
>any hope?
There is an irrational part of me that still has hope. But obviously nothing's going to change if I don't actually do something different. It's just too easy to keep doing nothing.
>how do you cope?
The internet in general. Entertainment, distraction, avoidance.
>>
>>36868925
lol b&
that's what you get for breaking rule 5
>>
>how do you think you got here?

Not caring enough as a teenager and caring way too much about my current friends (since then, and my current friends atm).
Lots of vidya, animu and being a shy introverted fuck

>any hope?

Actually, I do, I'm not KH, I still have friends and minimun social skills, my main problem might be that I'm looking more for emotional than just sex, so I end up with female friends, female enemies and massive crush-oneitis...

Not to mention that this cyber fem friend thinks I'm actually kinda attractive

>how do you cope?

Last year: Alcohol and nihilist memes, I ended up wanting to kill myself... Totally not the way to do stuff...
Now, I'm trying to leave my confort zone, actually trying to talk to my crush, ask her out (even though, it seems she might not be interested :/), not only that, also doing different stuff, I carry a list of stuff I want to do, short, pointless experiences* but, who knows, maybe some of them might get me something I'd enjoy, finally, I also hang out with my friends, specially the old ones since it's been like 4 years since we used to hang out, now, I want to keep in touch with them, see what's up with their lives, today, I'm going to keep a promise I made back then lol.
I'm an adult, a cyborg (nope, not frustrated normie, test says cyborg), but, I'm still young there's stuff I can still do, I can take the control of my life, there's so much I can do, and I think, I can still count with so many people.

*:
-going to the movies alone
-drinking beer with people I talk to but don't consider my friends
-getting a tattoo
-making my fem friends to teach me how to dance (this one is complicated atm)

Maybe someone can relate to something I said and find it helpful?
meh, I hope it works out for you, robots.
>>
>>36860206
>I could lose my virginity easily
keep telling yourself that
>>
>>36859385
i'm still 21 so i have this summer to lose it wish me luck
Thread posts: 136
Thread images: 33


[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.