>tfw terrified of intamacy >get offered sex and turn it

>>36833706
Hot tranny.
Original message from my phone

the fear never stops

>>36833706
By realizing you regret the chances you don't take more than you regret the chances you DO take.

>>36833729
>dem hips tranny

>>36833706
find a girl who you can be your self with
find a girl who gets you
find a girl who you don't have to pretend with

I fear intimacy too, op. I also fear having a girl find out I have a small dick. It makes me feel slightly better to know that my horrible genetics will die with me

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>>36833757
spoken like someone with a better success rate than 0 over the last 3 decades

>>36833765
>Implying a girl can achieve any of the qualities you listed.
Boy howdy you took the blue pill.

let me know if you find out, i've been sabotaging potential relationships and isolating myself for the past 2 years basically.

>>36833794
>implying a give a fuck what you think.

luckily for me I have found this IRL

>>36833792
>there are literally people in the world who think that if you feel like you're a girl, then you are a girl and anyone who says otherwise is sexist and ignorant
Trump can't start world war 3 fast enough

>>36833706
Call me, my name is Micheal... i can help...
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One day you're gonna look back and regret all this decisions you made just because you're scared. You need to let go of yourself ones and do it. Do it or forever you will will hate yourself for not having the balls to do it.

>>36833706

Who is this in OP's image?

>>36833765
>tfw found a girl like that but she dated my best friend and is a single mom

>>36833792
Well, I'm happily married now. But before her, there was a chick that I got with that cheated on me, got engaged to the guy she cheated on, cheated on him and got pregnant, and told me if I didn't raise her bastard as my own she would abort it. Then she sent me the photos of what was left of it in the toilet.

Chick before her constantly drained me, constantly needing support for whatever drama was going on, and when I finally couldn't deal with it anymore and needed some support from her, she told me she'd be there for me, then literally quit her job at KFC where we both worked at the time, and moved to her Mom's in a different state, and changed her phone number.

So it's not like I haven't experienced pain or failure. But those are what made me into who I am today, and what made me into the guy that my wife loves and supports, even after 6 years of marriage (and a stint of homelessness together before I proposed).

>>36833880
But the fear is so much stronger then the feeling of regret.

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>r9k actually giving half decent life advice for once

>>36833706

I've been seriously hurt by a girl taking advantage of me. Now it's years later and I just remember the good times. I'm happy I trusted even if it didn't work out.

>>36833929
Buddy if you never try you will never know how a relationship feels. Betrayal, heartache can be overcome but you will never have these lost chance back when you're older. Take it from me I am a wizard can't even remember the last time I spoke to a women, my time for is long gone and all I have is regret I wish I could get back lost time but what's done is done. Do it for me op, take the leap

yep. I'm a musclebound 23 year old 6'1 handsome white male and I fail at everything due to being so fucking oversensitive

if I wasn't such a pussy I could literally walk out the door and lose my virginity today

I've had a ridiculous amount of missed opportunities you could turn my life into a tragic comedy so easily

>>36833909
found a girl like that years ago, shame she lives on the other side of the cunt, and is mentally ill.

>>36834044
What a fucking faggot.
You have all the tools at you're disposal and yet you fail. Your type are the biggest fucking losers the Elliot type.
Kys you fucking pussy you know you suck

>>36834044
Well, at least you have dat physique (and good health), right?

>>36834085
>>36834044

Don't be mean. And anon, you can get a gf. Try. Alternatively, grow to be a wizard and live a life of regret. I believe in you anon, you can get a gf.

>>36833848
Please stop posting your friends number without his permission

>>36834026
I'm turning 26 in a few weeks.
It only feels harder to talk to women because I feel so inadequate.
I'm OK with heartbreak or bring hurt, but I can't overcome my own self loathing or find any self worth.

>>36834044
feel ya breh, I could have had something special with a girl I meet here, but ever since I found out she took 8 inches balls deep, I just lost all courage to talk to her, know I could never satisfy her, specially since that was the cock she lost her virginity to.

>>36833902

No one knows.
Every time her pic gets posted someone tries to find out but the only results are just other 4chan threads.
That belly is very hot though.

That Asuka cosplay it making my peepee very hard.

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>>36833757
that's actually not true at all. I don't cringe at missed opportunities the same way as awkward failures, not even close

>>36834177
howd you find that out??! I want to not give a fuck about that but its really hard not to

>>36833757
This OP

Honestly think about this girl who wants to be your girlfriend, do you even like her? If you don't, reject her like a decent human being because if you look at this situation without your anxiety you just look like a selfish dick that broke a girls heart. How would you feel if someone ghosted you? Anxiety can lead to extremely selfish thinking. I know you can't do it right now because I was this bad a few years ago but I just want to give you some perspective.

In my honest opinion though I think you're not ready for a relationship. You should learn to love yourself and know if you do get "hurt" by her (very vague word in this context) it's okay. Everyone gets hurt in relationships and you should be able to move on or end the relationship yourself if it comes to it. Everybody takes a risk of getting hurt when they get in a relationship.

>>36834312
the dumb bitch, at the time she was dating her boyfriend/exboyfriend of w/e the fuck they are, told me how she loved her boyfriends 8x6 cock how it was the masterrace of cocks
dumb ass bitch, breaks up with him and comes crying to me, without realizing what she did probs.

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>>36834411
>she loved her boyfriends 8x6 cock how it was the masterrace of cocks
hhholyshit what a fucking slut theres no coming back from that. I hope she wasn't cute.

>>36834464
she was pretty damn cute. shame really.

>>36834157
If you're still here op. Think about the worst scenarios and think about the best. If people are asking you out it means you have something in you, a spark, that means you're worth spending time with. No one can never value themselves truly but others can see you way more clearly without the prejudice. Please do it anon for me atleast. Take a blind leap it will lead you into new uncharted land where things will take a turn for the better

>>36833706
your fears are rational and you should abide by them and make it a lifestyle.

This is probably the worst advice i would give to anybody, but just don't think about it, just act impulsively.

JUST FUCKING ACT YOU FAGGOT

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>>36833757
no
inactivity is the only move I can own with some ounce of sincerity
everything I do is regret

>>36834044
I kinda know this feel.

Except I am a slim 5'6" manlet but for some reason get plenty of female attention.

I think its because i never knew how to handle this shit in highschool and have just accepted my place of not being up to pick up girls.

For example i was at the casino with a friend of mine who is one of those guys who just looks at a girl and thinks i want to fuck them then makes it happen. As we are walking some 7/10+ girl leans over and overly flirty and friendly says hey, I assume shes after studazn friend and just give a weak smile and a nod and dont break my stride.

My friend who thoughtlessly fucks a different chick every other day turns to me and goes "dude that girl just said hey to you, that was fucking ruthless."

Huh? to me? is all i reply. "Yeh man you shoulda seen her face, that was cold" and then laughs.

Such a mix of emotions, i didnt want to hurt anyone...but never thought I'd be that guy