>orbit a girl for 6 moths >decide to say something >she

>>36828680
Same here man. Its a saturday night and shes probably fucking right now. Feels like shit.

>orbiting a girl
>getting hurt
You have no one but yourself to blame. There's absolutely no reason to orbit a girl - being around her for an extended period of time won't make her sexually attracted to you.

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>>36828680
Here's a sure way to get that girl.
>study hard
>graduate uni
>get a high salary job
>keep climbing that ladder
>get lots of raises
>buy a house
>find a used up roasty who's ready to settle down
>win

>>36829336
>>36828680

I once orbited a girl for like 3 years. 7, 8 and 9th grade. The whole time she would fuck shitheads. Not even good looking Chads. Just confident assholes.

I have no point to make other than once you're out of high school you have no excuse. I'm so afraid of even being perceived as an orbiter that now I will immediately cut off contact with a woman who doesn't seem immediately interested

>>36829437
This describes my views well, except that since no women immediately find me attractive, I don't hang around any women at all and thus have no experience talking to them whatsoever as a result.

>>36829384
Yeah I definitely do only have myself to blame, I denied it at first and blamed her for leading me on but then came to accept it was everything I did which really tore me up inside but I feel much more aware and confident now. It my first time I've ever felt this way about a girl so it never really all clicked until it was too late. Thanks for that extra bit of advice anon I really hope I don't orbit again.
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>>36828680
>6 moths

How will she ever aquire 6 moths to give you in exchange for this orbiting