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>tfw it's impossible to get a social life if you don't

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>tfw it's impossible to get a social life if you don't already have a social life
>tfw done NOTHING with women apart from pay for sex with escorts
>tfw I'm always the extremely quiet spergy guy in the work place and throughout my entire time at university
>tfw trying to avoid eating shitloads of junk food and coffee (ruins sleep) and wasting ALL my free time on the internet but keep putting it off another day (today will hopefully be the last day)
>tfw despite reading many books and having a degree, there is nothing I am passionate about or could talk about at length with anyone
>tfw aged 26 and feel extremely jealous of young people who are experiencing the best and most free times of their lives
>tfw it's impossible to get female attention unless you have a thriving social life or are the top 1 % of males who can use dating sites successfully
>tfw women are disgusted by non Chads and society is a scam designed to create and transfer resources through the exploitation of beta males
>tfw society sees me as pathetic for being ugly, male, quiet, shy
>tfw starting a new white collar job on Monday and dreading it as everyone will discover I'm a sperg and I slowly get treated like a leper
>tfw I plain don't have any initiative- this is a death sentence to anyone not on the Oxbridge to prestigious employer trap
>tfw university was even intellectually worthless because I went to my local one instead of the best possible one and did an engineering degree
>tfw seeing attractive girls on sunny days that consider me worthless for being a non chad is seriously depressing
>tfw "just lifting bro!11!" does nothing
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>>36796848
Do not lose hope anon.
I dropped out of the job market
Dropped out of Facebook
Dropped my shitty apartment
Started my own shitty companies and lived in poverty but ruled my own world. Fuck them all, live in a van
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>>36796848
>tfw everyone here can actually relate to at least some of these, including me
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>>36796848
I shit you not, 4 years ago I lived in a camper in my friends back yard. I was a ducking degenerate. I would play n64 in a tent under the gooseneck of my camper. Literally playing video games in a tent like a bitch. I checked out of all the bullshit and started being an asshole like I really felt.

Feels good man. Free yourself
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>>36796848
>tfw it's impossible to get a social life unless you already have a social life

Fuck fuck fuck my life
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>tfw it's impossible to get female attention unless you have a thriving social life or are the top 1 % of males who can use dating sites successfully
Not true. It just requires a lot more effort. And I think you're making using tinder or something like that out to be a lot harder than it actually is. Do some reading about how to.

>tfw society sees me as pathetic for being ugly, male, quiet, shy
Nobody cares nearly as much as you think they do.

>tfw "just lifting bro!11!" does nothing
To be fair, this is true. Lifting has a placebo effect by making some people feel more confident, but getting jacked won't instantly solve your problems.

I've had all these thought before, and desu, it sounds like a lot of your unhappiness comes from building a castle of words around yourself. You have the choice to pay attention to and spend time thinking about whatever you want to. If you spend all your time thinking things like "Nobody likes me because I'm shy and autistic," "Women think that I'm worthless," or "I'll never have a social life," you're just making yourself miserable. Now, that doesn't mean there's no reality to the idea that having a normal life is going to be a lot harder for you than someone who's naturally equipped for it, but there's also no reason you can't be happy without being a normie. Like I said, you can spend time thinking about anything that you want. So you could learn a new skill, or do something that you enjoy, or find some new media to enjoy. There are plenty of people who are awkward and ugly spergs and still have friends - they go to an anime club, or play Magic at a gaming store, or go see the latest Marvel movie. And they're probably a lot happier than you for the most part. So you can stop caring about what normies think and do what you like, or you can ruminate over the idea that people at your new job might not like you because you're awkward. It's your choice.
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>>36797255
Sage advice with dubs
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Stay strong anon i feel like ahit aswel but imma not talk it here
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>>36796848
>tfw it's impossible to get a social life if you don't already have a social life
the fuck are you talking about

GET

A

JOB
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