you fucking shitstains get great advice on how to fix your lives

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>>36793003
How do you fix a boring personality OP?

How are people supposed to know im interesting if they don't give me a fucking chance OP?

I try to hang out but get denied. No one wants to give it a try, im too much of a trouble for normies, they like only the safety of familiar environment

this is some grade A projection right here. were you looking directly into a mirror when you typed this up?

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>>36793028
why are you fucking boring? do you have no opinions or interests to talk about or comments to make about anything during a social situation?

Maybe you should try doing things and learning things so you have something to fucking talk about that isn't the same memes you saturate yourself with every day

>>36793042
you are probably an awkward, fickle person (albeit unintentional) that gives off weird vibes to normies. normies like to understand the motives and personality of people they talk to if they can't it scares them

>>36793087
damn i've accused people of projecting and felt confident in my judgment before, but now i feel a fool seeing this. you really don't know anything about the person behind the text...

>>36793089
I'm completely normal on the outside. Maybe a little quiet since I don't say random shit to try to entertain everyone around me. My body language is calm too, i don't act nervous or stressed.

Im just invisible

>>36793281
then christ sake man you are half-way there for fucks sake.

don't you dare tell me you don't have thoughts and observations and opinions on things, because you fucking do. you ever heard the lil' 'ol phrase "be yourself"? what it actually fucking means is don't box away all your inner thoughts and feelings so much, share your brain mush with others sometimes, i love hearing people's random observations

>>36793323
If I let my fucking inner thoughts and feelings outside im going to have an emotional breakdown
I don't have any other thoughts that are not negative most of the time

And even then, people don't want to give me a chance in the first place because they dont want to hang out. Why do I need friends to gain friends :'/

>>36793361
you're above my paygrade son, maybe professional help?

and don't throw up your arms with the "see!!! no one can help meeeeeeeeee!!!" i'm not palming you off;

genuinely consider talking to someone who studies humans as a profession.

>>36793003
>the only person that can help you is yourself
Self-help is the worst meme. People can change just a little, and most of us (myself included) are way too damaged to do something about it. It's also a matter of time, the longer you live in such a pathetic state, the harder (aka impossible) it becomes to change enough to actually "improve".

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>>36793384
>''Doc, im really lonely, what do''
>''lmao just go outside, talk to people''

>>36793399
you are absolutely right, there are large amounts of people who cannot help themselves because of their current/past situation.

But i fucking hope that one sad little nerd out there realises that in HIS particular situation; he really is all that is holding him back.

>>36793487
You're more honest than most normies who post here, so I will not tell you to get out while autistically screeching. But I think you're wasting your time here, /r9k/ is the toilet of 4chan, autists who dwell here are beyond saving.

>>36793548
Its so fucking frustrating because I used to come here all the fucking time, and then about 3 years back I got all my fucking shit together and have the life I live now because of it.

I was the only thing holding me back.

>>36793399
This, I've been trying to reject who I really am for at least 5 years now. Got fit, tried my best in academia and fully applied myself, tried to socialise. In the end nothing changes though, and old habits catch up with you.

>>36793003

you know why? because at the end of the day a night of r9k and tendies is funner than putting effort into being another wageslave normie

>>36793625
Please elaborate, I'm genuinely curious (especially about how fucked you were before "getting your shit together")
>>36793631
Yes, story of my life. I start living better, eat well, lose weight n' shiet, but I never really improve where it matters. I'm the same autist. I'm tired of trying, I'm almost 27 now I'm too old for this shit.