Going to my first psychologist next Monday.
I'm 30, and I'm going to tell someone for the first time that I was molested as child, which has caused me to basically be a friendless shut-in virgin my entire life.
Dunno how the fuck I am going to do this without ceasing up, tips? Thinking about writing it down on paper giving to the psychologist right up front so they can read it.
But you just told us that you got molested. So it wouldn't be the first time. Also have fun paying hundreds of dollars each week just to sit in a chair and have a stranger take notes.
>>36791914
Im in Australia, its free.
>>36791925
Also, its for the first time face to face, not some random internet people from other side of the world who I'll never know.
Stop being a faggot and get over your childhood issues. You're an adult, it's time to get past the bullshit, grow a set of balls, and take care of yourself.
There's your therapy session. I just told you exactly what your psychologist will, only she'll be more hesitant to say what a bitch you've been.
Lol. Who molested you?
>>36791993
I can't drive
I can't use public transport
I can't get haircuts and have to cut my own hair because dont want people touching me
I can't go to public places in general
I can't socialize or relate to others
I have no desire to socialise or relate with others
Can't into intimacy
Im pretty much not functional at all, and my mind wont let me not be shut-in.
I'm 30 and still have not worked, still with parents and no chance at moving out and dont want to, there's no chance of me growing a set of balls at this point, I'm already too far gone.
Good for you OP
Hope things get better for you
>>36791894
In the US 1 in 5 boys were sexually molested before they turned 18, so if you think you are an extreme outlier and it's a big deal to tell a psychologist this it's not, they hear a guy talking about getting diddled literally every work day of their life and you're not going to shock them or make them uncomfortable or whatever you might worry about. Feel free to do the note thing, they've definitely been told all sorts of ways.
>>36792156
Then why are you going to a psych? Do you know they will tell you to get over it too?
>>36791993
Unless you're experienced then shut the fuck up lad. Childhood is the point at which most people grow and learn; There are some, however, that because they were molested and/or abused in other ways that their development is stunted and altered dramatically. I went into foster care when I was almost 7, but because I was physically, verbally, emotionally and sexually abused by my dad and abuse from others who were supposed to love me, I had the mind of a 4 year old.
It's responses like yours that turn people like OP and myself into murderous, raving lunatics, because abuse is not taken as seriously as it should.
Abuse against males especially. If OP was a girl I bet your response would be one of (false) sympathy.
Anyway, rant over... I know you're a troll but that rustles my jimmies.
I'll see all you cunts on the front page
>>36792230
I don't really care what they say, I'm more so just going for the sake of going. Better than just sitting around and never telling anyone. At least if I can get diagnosed with some mental disorders which I most definitely have I'll at least have an legitimate explanation/excuse for the reason I am the way I am.
My life is in no way normal. I haven't been able to live a "life" at all. I've literally been shut-in through my late teens and all of my 20s. I'm beyond the point of just "getting over it", it's already destroyed my life, the damage is done.
>>36792230
Youve clearly never been to therapy, let alone have even seen it practiced in movies and shit.
Havent you fools seen the sopranos?
>>36792156
You poor soul. Too bad you can't into intimacy, a gf is your biggest chance at getting over what happened.
>>367919936
Wannabe alpha normal faggot giving shitty advice as usual.
>"JUST MAN UP BRAW"