After how many dates is it acceptable to ask a girl to be your

5 imo
you have issues
16 lmao
just ask her out

>>36791663
>16th date
WHAT THE FUCK? Nigger that opportunity is long gone ask after like 3.

>>36791663
Just tell her, that you enjoy her company, that you have feelings for her and hope she will become your gf. This is life, you have to improvise all the time.

After like 3 or 5, Id say is fine.


What the fuck. Either she doesn't actually love you or you have genuine issues. I hope you've at least got your dick wet.

>>36791705
>>36791684
>>36791670

C'mon guys don't be too hard on me, I was just taking it slow.

We've only just started holding hands so things are starting to heat up

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>>36791723
Don't be hard on them. They just don't know any better. Their cheap porn taught them a lot of crap. Just give it as much time as it takes and don't panic.

>>36791723
>We've only just started holding hands so things are starting to heat up
Is this the first girl you've dated? l kinda wish l could go back to that whole "taking it slow" thing. It all moves so fast now

>Meet girl
>Hang out as friends for a month
>She shows up to my place unannounced one morning and slips into bed with me
>Tells me shes been into me since we met
>We don't leave my room for 4 days except to re-hydrate and wash the stink of sex off of each other

Good luck OP and godspeed

>>36791855
Thank you anon, that was kind

>>36792052
>Is this the first girl you've dated?

Yes, we're both 26 and kind of autistic/spergy but it's moving along I guess. I really like her. Plus she's a virgin

Not to hijack OPs thread but how many dates until it's appropriate to try to kiss someone?

For potential gfs, you fuck on the 3rd date. That is the official standard. If she fucks before that then she's a slut and not gf material. After that and you're wasting your time.

>>3679221 you are very ok my mans, do not fear. She wouldn't hang out with you if she didnt want to.

>>36792052
this is a nice fantasy sometimes i have it also

>>36792253
Kissing is illegal, you monster. You can handhold, but only when married. Eye contact is all you get beforehand.

Well if you've been on 16 and are only holding hands and she hasn't left you then the normal rules don't really apply. Just do it when you feel like it because it sounds like both of you are excruciatingly inexperienced but like each other

>>36792283
You are either shitposting or never dated someone. Maybe both?

>>36792211
Thats kinda sweet to be fair. First proper relationships can move slow and be fucking nerve wracking as hell man

>>36792253
Depends on the girl really, a quick kiss on the first date is usually the way to go right? if she touches your arm a lot or gave you a quick peck on the cheek or forehead though, green means go brother.

though l'm probably not the best person to give dating advice. l've never even really taken a girl on a proper date more than once or twice (l'm more of the "meet an ok looking girl at a party and hump in an empty sports field on the way to macdonalds" kinda guy).

>>36792283
>you fuck on the 3rd date

Do normies really do this?

>>36792449
It's not like you're total strangers on the first date. You've already been texting on your phone etc.

>>36792339
Not a fantasy, its literally been my week. Shes coming around again tomorrow, l'd post a pic of the messages she sent me afterwards but its mostly sickeningly cutesy and l cbf

>>36792501
>but its mostly sickeningly cutesy and l cbf

Please share these are my favorites

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>>36792575
Ya get one famalam

>>36792637
Post a pic of her lad she sounds cute desu

>16 dates

I don't even think my parents have had 16 dates and theyve been married for 30+ years

>>36792211
>26
>virgin
Unless she is morbidly obese or has some extreme disfigurement going on, this is a lie. Still, at least she likes you well enough to go on 16 "dates" with you. So she should at least understand that you might be interested and maybe not immediately call the cops.

>>36791663

it all depends on how well you get along, could be on the first date or never, just ask her if you want

>>36792253
I've been on 1 date in my life and I got quick kiss at the end. Never asked her out again, though.

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>>36792339
the wording made me laugh. here, have a funny picture. it's the least i can do

>First date at 24
>gets to the hand holding stage at date 7

And on the next date she broke up with me, don't know why but it's either because im boring and/or becuase i never made a move on her. Oh well!

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>>36792654
>Post a pic of her lad she sounds cute desu

Normally l would, but l actually kinda like this one. And yeah shes really cute.

if she is willing to see you 16 times and still wanna see you more, she is absolutely waiting for you to ask her to be your gf

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>>36792052
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

GET OUT NORMIE
GET OUT NORMIE
GET OUT NORMIE

RRRRRRRRREEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>36792794
Just blur her eyes out lad, or change the picture's dimensions. Nothing bad will come of it

>>36791663
"Wanna make it official?"
>"what do you mean anon?"
"Do you officially want to be a couple?"
>"sounds good anon!"

If you're on Fagbook, it officially becomes official when you set your relationship status to "in a relationship with anonette"

>>36792686
>this is a lie

Like I said earlier, she's autistic and so am I so being a virgin at 26 is far from far-fetched.

>>36792808
>waiting for you to ask her to be your gf

How should I ask her then chap? Would a simple "wanna be my gf" work all right?

>>36792861
Just say "we've been doing this a while. Wanna be my gf?"

>>36792861
Unless she is literally a low-functioning diagnosed autist, it's not an excuse. Girls get fucked super easily. Even the most awkward girls have no trouble getting guys

Holy shit, get out you normie. You don't belong here.
Sage

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>>36791663

I advise you to leave now.

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

after you have sex
which is usually the first or second date, third if they're really shy

>>36792879
Should I text that to her? Or wait until I see her again in person? Shit lad, now I'm nervous

>Girls get fucked super easily
Even 3/10s who still have braces at 26? I hope not, that would make me sad

>>36791663
If you're not familiar enough with her to just text her and confirm, in writing, that you're a couple after 16 dates, you're wasting your time.

If your exclusiveness is not something that you have verbalized already, you are wasting your time.

>>36793055
>fucking on the first date
And i thought this was a meme

>>36793543
I don't even want to deride you for going that much time without fucking her. I'll give you that as long as you two are in a dry spell together without looking at anyone else to end it. There should be no ambiguity after 16 dates - whether or not you've said the word, "girlfriend."

If you press the issue and get anything besides yes, then you are wasting your time.

>>36793543
>>36793596

We're both NEETs that live at home. How & where am I supposed to initiate sex?

We've only just started holding hands and I'm p sure the farthest she's ever gone is an OTPHJ (Same for me I once rubbed a girl's bergina during a movie)

>>36793474
ALWAYS talk in person if its about something important. Texting seems easier but it will only complicate things unnecessary because you miss out on her direct reaction.