NoFap requires the discipline of a Queen's Royal Guard and

>leave red board for blue board
>no longer need to fap

what a shock

>I've been laying here edging for like 40 minutes

I don't think that's how you're supposed to do nofap.

>>36791079
bro edging is cheating, you're fapping and it's called nofap, if your goal is to stop completely edging is WORSE than finishing it off
as for the sex thing idk, I just got more sensitive after it actually, kinda strange

I've been trying for the past month. the longest streak was 10 days. I relapse after 4-5 days on average. If you want to succeed, quit internet, go jogging, biking whatever. My biggest problem is that I'm unemployed, so I fap out of boredom.

I have lasted for 2 days max. Am I addicted, or is it normal to want to Jack off every second day?

My erections were literally tearing my pants.

>>36791121
There's definitely no set way to do nofap. My particular brand allows me to get off once a week without porn. Already had my once this week. I allow myself to jerk off/fantasize about shit and get horny, as long as I don't blow it.

>>36791150
even if you stop completely it's not like you won't have any urges, you will always have urges no matter how long you're on nofap, the question is do you mind that you don't control these urges and desires, if we don't control them than we are nothing but an animal

>failed at nofap, longest streak 23 days, at least cut off porn completely - over a year without it

>>36791183
Yea, I guess i want a will power of a monk, where I don't give in to my brains desires. I want to fap when i want to, not because i need to or because I'm bored.

>>36791160
it's not nofap then you inbred, it's called not letting yourself fap every day then

>>36791183
I think noporn is the important part. That's what messes with the subliminal subconscious sexual connections in our brains. Also not actually blowing is significant. That's the only part of the process that releases the specific hormones that start causing bonding/attachment issues in relation to masturbation.

>>36791205
yeh I get it, for me it's different I want to stop completely because I feel lame afterwards, but I relapsed today and yesterday because lately a shit ton of shit happened so I just don't fucking care anymorw idk

>>36791218
>>36791193

I've never seen someone so angry at anons on the internet about masturbation before.

>>36791228
ye i got noporn down pretty easy but it is so strange because my last few relapses I just didn't think about anything, nothing, and I still did it

>>36791160
>There's definitely no set way to do nofap. My particular brand allows me to get off once a week without porn.
>There's definitely no set way to do a diet. My particular brand allows me to gorge myself with fatty foods once a week, but no sugar .
>"For some reason I'm not losing any weight and it's hard."
You're retarded if you think this "special brand" of nofap you use to justify you failing at it is going to work. I recently ended a 3 month nofap (saw some nice pictures, came in my pants, broke my will pretty much) and I can tell you that after the initial few weeks, it became easier as it went on. If you're tempting yourself with porn, or actually fapping, you're going to fail every single time.

Guys i get hard while watching porn, but not when i jerk off normally. I mean i can still ejaculate, but dick isn't as hard as it is while watching porn. Do i have porn induced ed? How to fix myself?

>>36791319
definetly fucked up bro, I'd suggest you try nofap because that will seriously lower your libido (and maybe even remove ed?)

>>36791310
or perhaps, we just have different goals. I set up realistic expectations for myself. It's possible to do something and not do it 100% perfectly, right out of the gate.

It's funny you mentioned the diet thing. I actually do exactly that on my diet currently. I allow myself a cheat day. It helps alleviate some of the pressure to be "perfect" about it over time, and reduces the stress associated with it. After a couple months of having allowed myself a cheat day, I now feel comfortable enough to cut out the cheat day. You shouldn't set such high expectations for yourself, and other people. It's the reason you're so angry, and it's the reason you're inevitably failing at everything you do.

>>36791347
Should i busy go on noporn or is no fap important? And how long a week?
I'll try to never watch porn again

>>36791361
noporn definetly, as for nofap - it will make you more sensitive (at least that' what happened to me) - that's probably what you want if you have ed

What's the goal of nofap? Never masturbating again for the rest of your life? Do you guys seriously delude yourself into believing this will lead to a life more pleasurable than masturbating?

>>36791079
>quit my habit of biting my finger nails with no issues
>can't go a week without breaking my no fap
Yeah im pretty sure there is some truth in people saying masturbation addiction is a real thing

>>36791443
masturbating is exactly like everything else in life - there is the high and then the low, removing it doesn't remove happiness, it just replaces the happines of ejaculating with the happiness of being able to control yourself, it's just about what you'd rather have

>>36791443
For me, NoFap is about a few different things. First, it's about discipline. I think we're all very familiar with the depressed state of mind that inevitably follows a period of an uninhibited short term satisfaction. Video games, eating pizza and ice cream, and jerking off is great. Now try doing it every day for 5 years. Doesn't feel so great anymore does it? Not to mention the long term effects of short term gluttony are palpable, to say the least. This also applies, to a more extreme extent to things like drugs. Doing heroin is great short term. Do it every day for 5 years.... the "great" parts of it become almost non existent, while the negatives become glaringly obvious.

So it has a lot to do with putting a general philosophy and lesson I've learned so far in life, into practice to develop a healthier and more balanced long term oriented life.

Second, it restores your natural sex drive. I've jerked off almost every day since I was old enough to know what it was. I never even considered quitting until I started coming across nofap. So, I'm now realizing that I have no idea what it feels like to have a normal sex drive. I had no idea masturbating on a daily basis had such a profound impact on one of the most, of not the most, essential parts of what it is to be a man. I always wondered why I never wanted a girlfriend. I hardly even cared. I could brush off the advances of a beautiful woman without a second thought. This behavior, I thought, was just "natural". I assumed it was some intrinsic part of my personality. I assumed wrong. After having practiced nofap for the last month or so, it has been coming overwhelmingly obvious that I've been ignoring this VERY important part of myself. I want to see what it's like to bring this natural part of myself into being.

Thirdly, I believe watching pornography on a regular basis creates "kinks", as they're popularly called. I don't think kinks are actually healthy or normal. Continued:

>>36791611
Kinks as in fetishes? You think it's bad?

>>36791611
Kinks create subconscious association with situations that aren't a part of our every day experience. Ejaculating to unrealistically proportioned women on a regular basis creates a deep rooted sexual connection to unrealistic experience. Even something as minor as looking at photos of several hundred nude women is totally detrimental to our built in darwinian selection process. The reason I (OP) wondered if cutting out porn would have an influence on my premature ejaculation is because, through cumming to just a PICTURE of a nude woman repeatedly throughout the course of 13 years, I hypothesize that I've subconsciously hyper sexualized the female body to such an extent that during actual intercourse I'm absolutely overwhelmed. After all, I've trained myself to ejaculate to just the IMAGE of a nude woman, no wonder I can hardly get it in without blowing my load.

I hypothesize that these different fetishes, and pornography as a whole are having a profound impact on not only our sexual selection process, and in turn our proclivity towards casual sex, but are having catastrophically detrimental effects in society as a whole. We are only beginning to uncover the tip of the iceberg concerning the gargantuan impact the introduction of unlimited pornography is having on societal function as a whole. I think it would be wise to take a step back, before it's too late.

I also hypothesize that by watching pornography we're creating these kinks. Ever wonder about the sudden rise of cuckoldry? Think about what it is you're doing when you're watching a porno video. You're watching the woman you're fascinating about, having sex with another man. Repeat this 10,000 times and suddenly it becomes a preference in REAL life. I think shit like this is happening with all different types of porn and is closing in on epidemic proportion. There's something very intrinsically psychologically damaging about our ability to ejaculate to images on our computer monitors.

>>36791835
What about fapping without any assistance, well, except imagination of course?

>>36791484
>the happiness of being able to deny yourself pleasure
Whatever makes you happy I guess.

>>36791079
>edging
Youve already failed idiot
Originally

>tfw been able to edge for hours
>now usually come after like 10-20 minutes
I blame stress from uni for this

>No fap when you are in control of your life
Ez pz
>No fap when NEETing away and every day is similiar to the next.
Might as well sit in a dark room all day if I'm denying myself what little pleasures I have left. I always feel like it's the only way to control the stupid breeder instinct within, and it's purging for the body.