>ask girl out for a movie. >She says she's really

you guys made plans, she better show up. don't think of yourself as a nagging bitch, she's the one who agreed to go with you. call and confirm.

>>36791071
Just text her an hour or so before youd have to leave to go and just ask her whats up.

>>36791091
>>36791100
Would she think I'm just sitting around waiting for her to get back to me?
(Because i actually am)

Would the best thing to do would be, "oh shit i competely forgot... let's do today"
I'm meeting her tomorrow in class anyway.

>>36791132
Noo dont write that. Are you already late for the movie? Did you make exact plans with her or just "watch any movie sometime on friday"?

>>36791071
call or text her ahead of time (more than an 3 hours) and don't show too much nervousness in your correspondence, girls are turned off by that

>>36791141
I'm not talking about writing. I'll meet her in person tomorrow anyway, so I'll just say that to her.
We made plans to watch a specific movie, on a specific day. No specific time.

Block her number and forget her. She's not good enough for you.

>>36791169
dont say that retard.

>>36791132

text her and make sure you guys are still on for the rest of the day.

PROTIP: if she flakes, she's not worth it...unfortunately

>>36791071
call her
don't show your autism too much

>>36791169
No, also dont say it. Text her today and ask if the plans are still up, otherwise you would do unimportant_thing_xy now. if she says yes, be happy, otherwise forget it.

>>36791186
>>36791202
Why? Just want to know your reason behind it.

>>36791071
Listen here robro, it's really not hard.
In the afternoon you text her "Just got out of work/class/whatever, wanna eat dinner together or should I pick you at 7?"

>>36791071
Jesus Christ, I thought this board was just meming. Are there really people who can't even do something as simple as setting up a date correctly?

>>36791248
Kek look at this neet virgin trying to act alpha.

>>36791232
It sounds like you dont care at all. Girls may like "hard to get" guys sometimes but they dont like "uninterested" guys. Just a personal preference, you may say it but try to not make it sound like an insult or too autistic.

>>36791255
Nice try, young homo. But even when I was a virgin and shitty with girls, I knew how to make plans and communicate them to people.

>>36791269
Alright thanks buddy friend. Take my original reply

>>36791276
Yo be careful m8 that fedora is tipping to hard, it might fall in your puddle of shit

>>36791291
>being able to talk to people in order to make plans means you're a fedora wearing sperg

hm...

>>36791071
mommy gilly

>>36791322
>Pretending to be able to talk to people while being a neet virgin, means you're a fedora wearing sperg
Ftfy

>>36791352
Life's not a meme, love.

>>36791345
Uh o-ok. Not sure how that an og comment

>>36791071
Call her and ask what time you guys want to meet

If you want to be a bit more dominant then specify a timeframe off the bat, ie "what time after 6:30" or w/e

>>36791071
Stop sperging out. Just text her, "Hey, we still on for today?" or something.

>>36791391
What if she says she's busy even today? And it might not be a flake, because i know she's really busy.

>>36791401
If she's into you, she'll propse another date.

>>36791401
If she really wants to go and she's already said she's busy once then she'll drop her plans for you. Otherwise, move on because she's not interested enough

>>36791409
Oh yeah, this too. But refer to >>36791413
If she flakes out of that one as well

OP you have plans for the movie, don't be beta and ask if the date is still happening r anything like that. Text her and ask what time you should pick her up, there's showing at " two different showings", pick her up 30-40 minutes before (be at her house 30-40 minutes before) so you have time to drive, get snacks, get good seats, etc

I asked a girl out and she told me shes busy and asked if I'm ok going "another day". What the fuck does this mean robots. Is she just telling me to fuck off? I do know that shes actually busy today so thats not a lie but to just tell me "another day"? Help robots I dont know what the fuck to do

>>36791451
>another day

It literally means that she wants to go out with you on another day.

>>36791451
She's fucking someone when you wanted to go but she wants your attention and money for the day that she has no one for money and attention

Or she's genuine and is actually busy but will see said movie with you on x day

>>36791451
Calm your autism down you sperg. Fuck off from here if you have nothing to contribute

>>36791451
Ask her which day. If she's genuine she'll pick out a day and you'll be able to hold her to it
If her answer is 'I dunno lol' then drop her

>>36791071
Call/text her. Otherwise she'll nope out at the last minute. You gotta keep up the chase.

>>36791472
>>36791451
This
Just ask her when she's available, or just say a day of the next week, nothing hard

>>36791472
>>36791507
>>36791507
Ok I just asked her if she wants to go next friday. I think shes going to tell me to fuck off, this is fucking nerve wrecking.

Guys i texted her with "Stacie xyz. Tonight 9.30"

Unfortunately she's really busy with shit. Ah well.
Thanks everyone in this thread. I really appreciate it.

>>36791710
>Stacie xyz. Tonight 9.30

Sounds kind of bossy. Why did you text her like that? Should've asked what's up first

>>36791757
Because that's what I'm going for. When i talk nowadays, i pretend I'm Donald Trump or Jack Nicholson and imagine what would they say.
It sounds autistic as fuck, but at least i got a nice conversation with her out of it

>>36791794
What the fuck is xyz

>>36791845
Her name. Like "anon"

>>36791794
>at least i got a nice conversation with her out of it

How? She flaked on you. Maybe if you didn't ask like a douchebag she would've went out with you

>>36791071
No, you should not call her and ask her out. You have already announced this intent.
You should call her and tell her when you arrive to take her to the movies. If the decision was not included in your previous interaction, you will also tell her where you're watching the movie and where you're going to get a coffee/snacks/whatever after.

>>36791710
>>36791794
well meme'd dude!
but seriously, you are fucking stupid if you texted her like that.

>>36791071
i would stab a baby to fuck gillian anderson once for even 10 seconds
i would stab as many babies and whatever else for the same deal with 90s gillian
this woman is the only one that actually makes me sad ill never even meet
and im not even that into xfiles

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this is why you beta idiots don't get dates.

1. NEVER ask a girl out via text, it just communicates weakness to her and that you are not confident enough to ask her out in person (weak pussy male)
2. make definite dates with a certain time and place to meet up. if you don't you are putting the power away from you into her hands basically. you are completely fine with her bossing you around. also the fact that you wait until the day of your date to make the ACTUAL date itself just tells her that you are not very busy, don't have anything going on besides her, don't have a social life etc.

i am 99,9% certain that every virgin 25+ of age is a weak pussy and does stupid shit like op. peace

>>36792634
>1. NEVER ask a girl out via text, it just communicates weakness to her and that you are not confident enough to ask her out in person (weak pussy male)

I think this used to be true like 7 years ago but honestly everyone communicates almost entirely by text now it's simply normal

>>36792666
you are making excuses for yourself here dude. why not do it in person? it can only be beneficial for her mental picture of you.

>>36792699
>why not do it in person

Because people are busy, duh. This isn't college where I can walk anywhere in a half-mile radius and see my friends.

Asking a girl out over text is completely fine, I rarely get rejected from it

"Hey, if you still wanted to see a movie tonight, [MOVIE] is showing at [THEATRE] at [TIME]. Let me know if you're still up for it."

>>36792770
I bet you're soooo busy. So busy that you can't talk to someone for 5 minutes. Stop being in denial, you only ask girls out via text because you fear rejection.

>>36792770
if you really are that busy, just give her a call

>>36791071
Just forget it. If a girl ever tells you she's busy, she's not interested. If you bother preparing, she'll bail 5 minutes before the agreed meetup, trust me. I've had it happen a bunch of times.

>>36792846
>>36792863
>busy

I'm not OP btw but I really am busy. And so are a lot of millennial men and women. So fuck off ya oldfags

I don't get where this meme "gotta ask her out in person or else" comes from. In the age of instant messagers and vid chats, asking someone out electronically isn't unusual. Hell I rarely call people anymore. And I have experience with this (many tinder dates and a current gf)

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>>36792255
I absolutely 100% did

>>36792634
>>36793036
read you dense motherfucker. yeah let me just do exactly what everyone else is doing in this thread. it doesn't work for them so it probably works for me right? op, this is your fault, you failed from the beginning

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>>36793036
>aw man

Disengage immediately

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>>36793072
>>36793079
He commented after I messaged. Would've followed his advice if I'd seen it. Most people were asking me to say hey what's up, which is something girls hate

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>>36793036
>aww man
ouch. delete those digits and move on.

>>36793286
3. only use your phone for setting dates

go on youtube and search for "Coach Corey Wayne". do what coach tells you to do. it is actually surprisingly easy.

>>36793345
Isn't he that fag who just asks you to buy his books in every video?

>>36793339
She's still a mate lol, I'm not going to delete a girls number just because i get turned down

>>36793286
honestly dude if she really wanted to see you, she would have. go for another girl