What exactly makes a guy "creepy"? Is it a certain

>>36789322
Genetics.

original may 2017

>>36789322
If the person isn't who society wants them to be (whether by choice or genetics), they're seen as creepy.

When you don't back off after the woman shows obvious signs of disinterest.

>>36789331
>>36789343
Wrong.

>>36789355
I'm a grown man who likes My Little Pony. I'm also asexual.

>>36789355

we wouldn't have to be "creepy" or "scary" if the women just fucking said yes in the first place

>>36789355
Wrong mate. You do realise that you can be considered creepy even if you don't notice the girl or acknowledge her existence? Like if you're just walking along the footpath she or he already marks you out as creepy and decides you're a disgusting rapist before you even open your mouth.

>>36789392
This. Someone explain. Is it body language? Only possible connection i can make.

>>36789343
yeah pretty much this. Women often use the word "creep" about someone just to voice their dislike about someone, not even because they look or are doing anything out of the ordinary

>>36789416
No you idiot. It's the way you look.

>>36789425
Ugly dudes get laid too though.

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>>36789425
It's not fair mate, I think people just need to keep their mouths shut. I don't walk around calling obvious looking sluts a roastie or a cunt for making cuntish accusations about random passersby

>>36789322
It's a meaningless buzzword. Women throw around word "creepy" even more than alt-right uses "cuck". Creepy is literally anyone she doesn't like. It doesn't even matter what you do.
Guy A and guy B can do exactly same wierd/autistic shit, but if one of them looks like Chad he'll never be called creepy

>>36789322
Creepy is just a bullshit meme said by women that cant grow up.
and as always, a woman's opinion is worth dog shit to a man.

>>36789455
Yeah, except most women are shallow and vapid, quick to draw conclusions. Especially younger, working women.

>>36789322
If its compared to nice guys: If you sense hidden aggressions/passive aggressive behavior and hidden violent tendencies (verbal and non verbal) from the guy, he is creepy. There is a sense of being threatened. Also creeps don't respect your opinion at all or don't state their opinion at all.

>>36789355
>When you don't back off after the woman shows obvious signs of disinterest.
This is also part of it because the guy disrespects your opinion if he does that.

>>36789478
So alls I can draw from that is to not take it to heart if you're called a creep, because the insult / assumption is coming from an imbecile

cool, /thread

A creepy person is either someone who is a bit weird, tries to behave normal, and fails. Or someone who doesn't follow the standard of what is considered to be normal social behaviour. It helps if you don't realize you're creepy. Extra points if you happen to have a mental illness that isolates you from other humans .
.t i'm a creepy person.

>>36789487
>don't state their opinion at all.
That's because if we do, we'll be seen as creepy.

>>36789487

>If its compared to nice guys: If you sense hidden aggressions/passive aggressive behavior and hidden violent tendencies (verbal and non verbal) from the guy, he is creepy. There is a sense of being threatened. Also creeps don't respect your opinion at all or don't state their opinion at all.

Translation: he is physically unattractive and shows signs of low testosterone

>>36789526
No, if you disrespect the opinion of others, not if you state your opinion. That's a big difference.

>>36789322
Well...what's the image that comes to your mind when you say "creepy"? Remember Randall from Recess? Pretty much him. Now, switch his snivelling attitude and expressions to confident/chad like. The creepiness somewhat receeds. I think creepiness is caused by lack of social interaction with women, that overwhelms the poor soul into behaving autistically.

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>>36789514
>tfw realize you're a bit of a creep
>just don't have room to even care anymore

I'd like to hear some cunt call me creep so I could give her a real reason to say it

>>36789561
No. If you have an opinion that's different from everyone else's, you're creepy.
>"I believe that children can consent to sex, but that's just my opinion."

>>36789496
Yes, you got it right.

this thread is bothering me because its not a circle jerk.

>>36789557
not at all
you misunderstood completely
I was talking about (passive)aggressive guys that leave you with a sense of danger. This has absolutely nothing to do with physical appearance or low testosterone.

>>36789583
This is not creepy, this is a crime if you act on it.

>>36789628
Find me 5 girls who wouldn't find me creepy for having that opinion.

Normies throw around the most retarded shit at things they deem off.

>see a friend at the market
>he's with a girl, a friend not gf
>talk a little
>we walk past a stall selling vegetables, I buy a mushroom and eat it
>expression on the girl's face is like I just took a rusty blade and cut my own throat
>asks me what the fuck I'm doing

I found it much more funny than disheartening that a person would react like that to such trivial shit, I have to respect normies that they can live by such weird restrictions.

>>36789652
This is not an opinion. This is approval to a crime that will damage other human beings for their life if you act this out. This is worse than creepy anon.

>>36789478
Humans like to forget that we're literally fucking animals, and women are even closer to the animal mindset than they like to think. We're barely better than apes at the end of the day.

It sounds like a meme but being ugly or being good looking is most of the time the difference between coming across as shy and creepy. There's a 9/10 chad in the town i live in who is in his 20s and has a liking for fucking 12-13 year old teenage girls and no one even blinks an eye. Physically looking like a creep can become a self fulfilling prophecy as well.

>>36789708
I have a different opinion. I believe that society pushes kids into feeling guilty for acting out on their sexuality and that touching a penis doesn't inherently scar you for life.

>>36789652
Because they don't have an understanding of what you are talking about. This kind of thing is against the law for a reason anon, and that's because it's morally wrong.

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>>36789461
Ding ding ding!
This guy gets it.

>>36789704
>not washing the mushroom first.

seems like a pretty normal reaction to someone who just ate maneur.

>>36789739
You should educate yourself on this subject then because there is more than enough scientific literatur about traumatas in childhood regarding sexual abuse. Sadly enough there are enough victims.

>>36789322
An ugly introvert, or an ugly autist.

>>36789739
I'm sure you'll find many reasons for justifying your pedophilia. You know nothing about human psychology and you're a scumbag.

>>36789765
I disagree. I believe that it's been made illegal due to women wanting girls to complete an education rather than starting families at an early age, and it's illegality is why people see it as morally wrong.

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>>36789704
that's odd as fuck behavior honestly unless you're on your way to jump on some turtles

I wouldn't go as far to say creepy but, who the fuck just buys a mushroom and eats it when there's undoubtedly more options available

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>>36789461
Its really not. The reality is some guys are extensively creepy. Its a real thing that many guys are and its a real feeling that you get. There are different levels of creep, the most superficial would be someone who isnt even creepy at all but just annoying or gets in the way, so kind of like you described but theres levels of creep after that that get more severe in creepiness.

>>36789786
Whoa! Kinda creepy how you don't respect someone else's opinion, don't you think?

>>36789780
>two consenting individuals having sex is abuse if one (and only one) of them is under the government-approved age

>>36789796
how bout this, I'll stop slutshaming as soon as roasties stop creepshaming

seems like a perfectly fair trade

>>36789514
So, because I'm autistic, self absorbed, have a virgin walk, and up until recently had bad hygiene and fashion, females instantly mark me out as creepy?

>>36789704
I would call you dumb, but I wouldn't call you a creep because of that.
Raw mushrooms are slightly poisonous. You should reconsider and cook them the next time.

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"creepy" means nothing more than being under 6' and 7/10 face

>>36789800
This is not about opinions you fucking retard. When it comes to abussing children there are no "opinions" only facts. No actually, i do respect what you have to say and it doesn't make me creepy because nobody likes a pedophile. Not even children though i'm sure you'll disagree.

>>36789814
It's not consent because the adult led them to "consent". It's more like scamming a dummy.

it has to do with your body language and how you behave.
If you look somewhat good and give people a sense of you being funny, normal, attractive or whatever then you can slap them on the ass and they'll laugh , if you look weird or behave different then even you saying hello can be considered creepy.
Hell, it's a lot about the vibes you send out, being needy alters the way they see you a ton aswell

>>36789819
Yes. But most people who are willing to mark you off as creepy without getting to know you first aren't worth your time anyway.

>>36789843
>proving my point
I guess I win.

>>36789416
Not sure about body language but there's certain things that certainly put off women such as:
>Inability to maintain eye contact
>Fidgety, restless, wringing hands
>Standing way too close/Invading their personal space
>Dressing bad, having poor hygiene
>Not showering and giving off B.O. Some girls like the "musky" smell but most men just end up stinking.
>Not being confident enough. This doesn't mean you swing your cock around, but an inability to take charge.

Anyone else want to add something?

>>36789835
So 80% of all men?

>>36789860
>child asks for sexual favors
>if you say yes, it's sexual abuse
Inb4 doesn't happen.

>>36789902
>In a thread about what makes you creepy
>Starts defending pedophilia
You sure are not a creepy fella!

>>36789889
Sure you do anon, because this is all about winning isn't it. Have a fucking medal.

STOP TALKING ABOUT PEDOPHILIA YOU *CREEPS*.

>>36789927
I was told that having a different opinion doesn't make you creepy, so I challenged it.

>>36789944
This is a thread about what makes someone creepy. And i'm sure we can all agree that being a pedophile makes you a creep.

>>36789892
>Standing way too close/Invading their personal space
thats the only thing I'd put into the creepy section.

Other points like bad hygiene are plain disgusting. Some like the inability to maintain eye contact can even be cute.

>>36789998
The virgin Mary gave birth at 15, but go ahead and tell me that God was wrong and the government is right.

>>36789984
Ok well try a put your point across a bit more coherently next time m8 so there isn't any confusion.

>>36789892
how about just
>being ugly

>>36789984
An I already told you that this isn't an opinion but a crime that can damage people for their life if you act on it. If you don't it's still approving of a crime.

>>36790010
Beheading was also a thing in the middle ages. Maybe we should bring that one back into practice too.

>>36790027
>it's not an opinion if I don't like it
Sure, sure.

>>36790042
You've never read Michel Foucault, have you?

>>36789984
So the underlining message to your argument is that PEDOPHILIA IS GOOD and if you don't agree with that then THAT'S JUST YOUR OPINION. ok got it

>>36790066
No i haven't actually, why?

>>36790075
So the underlining message to your argument is that PEDOPHILIA IS BAD and if you don't agree with that then THAT'S JUST YOUR OPINION. ok got it

>>36790091
He argues that public beheading is better than our current legal system, and he brings up a very good argument.

>>36790010
>that God was wrong and the government is right.
there is no god in my opinion and I don't care if some bitch cucked her husband 2000 years ago and lied to him. Also: How do you know she didn't cuck him with another 15 year old?

goverment is sometimes right and sometimes wrong but this has nothing to do with defending a crime that likely damages the psyche of a person.

>>36790117
>likely damages the psyche of a person
Plenty of women have had sex underage without being scarred for life.

>>36790114
>he brings up a very good argument
share his argument with us anon

>>36790114
Ok then very funny, i guess i'll have to read it. Beheading was just an example. <Insert henious act against another human that we don't really like any more here>

>>36790162
With everything being held behind closed doors, everyone just assumes that the justice system works fair. With public execution, there is more likely a chance of people revolting against injustice.

>>36790100
Nope. Because what i'm saying that when it comes to pedophilia there are no opinions only facts. Read my post history.

>>36790165
Remember, alcohol was also a crime at one point, which was seen to ruin people's lives. Just because it CAN doesn't mean it's the only factor.

>>36790147
1. the pedoasshole here was talking about children, now it's woman and teens
2. there is a huge difference if they diddle with someone their age, which is common for teens and it's not a crime for a reason or if some pedobastard cheats them into "consent"

>>36789388
>assuming they have to say yes to you

wow, creepy!

>>36790180
People could still be put to trial behind closed doors though.

>>36790181
And you have given me nothing but garbage. It's not a fact if there's no validity to it.

>>36790180
>>36790205
Woops didn't read that properly, i take that back. He makes a pretty fair point actually

>>36789704
You have to at least wash it you disgusting fuck.

>>36790180
Shouldn't he argue for more transparency then instead of public murder?
Are you shure you didn't put it out of context? I never stumbled over this part of his works, but then again I never liked him.

>>36789898
>So 80% of all men?
yes

80/20 rule is real

>>36790197
>there is a huge difference if they diddle with someone their age
OHHHHH! So it's not that they're under 18, it's that I'm over 18? What else? Should 30 year olds not be allowed to have sex with 23 year olds because of "muh power gap"?

>>36790117
>that likely damages the psyche of a person.
this is bullshit. It's culture in which people escalate this as a crime what makes it traumatic. Humans biologically are ready to breed way before age of consent. Age of consent historically was created to better control family unit and reduce sex before marriage. Stop believing in jewish lies. Chance of getting unhealthy kids with autism or other mental issues increases drastically with age.

>>36789835
That is not true at all.

>>36790210
Should i really have to defend that pedophilia is wrong?. There are more solid facts that back my argument than there are that backs yours. This is not just about morality and ethics, people have put years of study into this you fucking retard.

>>36790260
Thank you! Good to know other people realize what facts really are.

>>36790274
Just like the people who put years of research into how transgenderism isn't a mental disorder? It's obviously politically biased.

>>36790260
Puberty reaches full development at around 16-17 in males and in females. Having children before that age wouldn't be considered "biologically safe".

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>>36790252
>23 year olds
are grown ups, there is a huge difference between them and children
you know that. you just want to define reality according to your perverted missconceptions
but diddling children is a crime and likely damages their psyche for their whole life

>So it's not that they're under 18, it's that I'm over 18?
exactly if we are talking about teens here

>>36790302
But the brain doesn't fully develop until 25. Are you really going to argue that it's OK to have sex before then?

>>36790327
>women
>fully developed brain
toplel
as far as I'm concerned female brain never develops to adult level.

>>36790300
You can believe that if you want anon. Politicians pick and chose what scientific studies fit their own agenda but the scientific world on a whole is pretty unbiased.

>>36790326
>sex will damage a person's brain the rest of their life
How? If both parties consent with no coersion, how could that possibly ruin their life? Do orgasms cause brain deficiencies?

>>36790274
seems like we found the criminals and sub humans of /r9k/ in this tread
it's worse than creepy to defend sexual abuse of children

>>36790302
Ok then, but do you really think that it was a mistake that adulthood was set at 18 in most developed countries?

>>36790027
i dont think you understand what an opinion is desu. people can have opinions on law too

>>36790327
You don't need to have adult brain to put weewee in vajayjay. It seems to be pretty easy to do and feels good too.

>>36790369
Yeah well what can you do. Pedophiles wouldn't be pedophiles if they weren't fucked up in the head

>>36790322
I hope you catch some of those sub human childabusing criminals

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>>36789322
It's being ugly.

If you're ugly, you're creepy. You behave completely normally, but you're ugly, so everything you do becomes creepy.

>>36790420
What makes you think anyone abuses kids here? Pretty sure they're too autistic to do that. At best they could get jailed for CP.

>>36790302 this very original comment meant for>>36790327

>>36790426
To play devil's advocate, we can't take everything an individual says as representative of the whole of a group.

>>36790355
>brain
brain=/=psyche

>consent with no coersion
as I stated earlier It's not consent if you abuse children
it's scamming helpless dummys and traumatizing them for the sake of your sick fetish

>>36790402
There are facts besides opinions sir. You can dislike facts, but you can't ignore them without lying.Thats why I wrote, that you should educate yourself about the damaging potential of your so called opinion. And damaging other human beings for the rest of their lifes or at least risking this is a crime (regardless of actual laws)

>>36790193
Alcohol damages only your own body and mind. Others may indirectly suffer frorm it. You cant compare drinking and abusing children.

>>36790550
first off, im not the guy defending pedophilia
secondly, some opinions are debatable. even if there are facts that support an opinion, it doesnt mean an opinion is fact.

You've all discussed what 'creepy' is, but what is 'weird'?

Two people have used this term to describe me in recent time, but I don't think it was out of malice or dislike.

>>36789322
being ugly or unattractive instantly makes everything you do creepy and awkward, theres no key to it

chris evans could do the weirdest most fucked up dumb autistic shit in the world in public and everyone would be copying him by the end of the week

A creepy guy is an ugly guy.

That's it. That's the only difference. An ugly guy who does anything an attractive guy would do is considered creepy. An ugly guy who even looks at a woman in a way they don't like is considered creepy, whereas while women might not necessarily 'like' it if an attractive guy were to do it, the label 'creepy' is not applied to him.

>>36790656
weird is just something mildly of abnormal (like listening to nightcore)
creepy is something very abnormal (like hugging random children)

>>36790656
Eh someone recently called me a weirdo because she said i constructed my sentences weird. Don't take any notice of it.

>>36790736
Could 'weird' imply attraction or enjoyed company? Someone where I work said that, and though I was looking the other way most of the time we spoke, I think I saw her smile when she said it. I may be imagining it, but I think I've been stared at too a few times.

Someone online has said it before too.

>>36790742
I tend to speak in a static and concise manner. Perhaps it's similar to your case.

>>36789322
Your creepyness level is heavily based on your attractiveness level amd after that your behaviour level. An ugly guy with a few weird quirks will be labeled as ugly immediately, while no one would bat an eye to Chad having a few weird quirks.
That doesn't mean you can't be ugly and not be seen as creepy or attractive and be seen as creepy. If you act heavily autistic in front of someone even though you're very handsome you might very well be seen as creepy. If you have a really great personality but you're ugly you most likely won't be seen as creepy.

TLDR:
>creepyness level mostly depends on attractiveness
>can be compensated by behavior (in both ways)

>>36790656
Weird just means that something is not according to an expected outcome or behavior. In this case how normies expect people to behave.

>>36790656
Just means not normal. You probably act autistic or something. It most likely has more parallels to human tribalism, fear/hate of those who do not conform to the tribe, act/look differently.
Creepy, I think, has more sexual connotations, but it was so overused that it lost its meaning.

Why are the creepiest people always Indian? I was in the metro last night and this Indian fellow wouldn't stop staring. It absolutely unnerved me.

>>36790792
>Could 'weird' imply attraction or enjoyed company?
idk dude. im no social guru. however, i can said that i was called weird plenty of times but girls were still interested in me. maybe that girl likes your weirdness or just doesnt mind it. like everyone else has said in this thread, being weird isn't as bad when you're attractive. it can even be a plus

>>36789892
Wearing your work clothing thats old and worn can give them the "he is a creep vibe"
Sick of it,

>>36790845
Did he stare-rape you?
You should probably sue

>>36790845
Probably wanted to say some thing but
>Indian
>male
and
>>36790890
Make men not want to talk to women.

>>36789416
Alpha talk with beta walk

>>36790845
I bet he wasn't even staring at you and it was your narcissistic delusions kicking in. Quite common thing actually.

>>36789322
Behaviour that consistently ignores others' boundaries.

>>36790792
Yeah probably. Her grammar and punctuation were all over the place so go figure.

>>36790845
Different cultures sometimes don't work together and that's why racism exists. Become a citizen of the world and you'll do ok

>>36789984
It's an awful strawman when you take an opinion as an example that's about the creepiest thing there is. FUCKING CHILDREN!

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>>36789322
I can tell you exactly what it is. It is being low value (not deserving anything in the eyes of society) and still demanding something from women. I.E. being an average man chatting up an attractive woman. Everytime someone doesn't act according to their place in society, its considered weird. Only when you're a man of course.

>>36790866
I suppose I am odd. I also take care of my physical appearance, and am gifted with ideal traits. It's pleasant to think this is a desirable combination.

It's a shame I am socially mute in public.

>>36790883
I look significantly worse in my work t-shirt. If I just put on a sweater over it or something similar, I will instantly look better.

>>36790656
Personally I use weird as a compliment. It means: this person has some individualistic traits and is not a plain and boring normie.

To normies if you're ugly and/or introverted you're a creep. For real weirdos some general traits are
>blank, dead stare
Similar to the psycho/sociopath predator stare but completely unreadable, not even on a primitive level. With the latter you can tell it's a dominant stare but the former seems like a carcass is staring back at you. Blinks too often or not at all when talking. Amplified by dark brown eyes.

>no self awareness
Wears manchild clothes or extremely dedicated to manchild hobbies. Plays handhelds in public, too loud especially when it comes to blurting out autistic babble. Complete disregard for the perception of others.

>no perception of others' feelings
Gets violently angry when confronted, even mildly. May be accompanied by pacing/screeching/punching objects etc. Sexually aggressive both in conversation and physically, despite the victim telling them to go away. Will keep at it until they experience a mental breakdown or are forcibly removed. Complete disregard for the feelings and safety of others.

These are the major ones off the top of my head, many other traits are subjective.

>>36791641
That's a nice way to see it. I wonder if it is interpreted similarly in their heads too.

>>36789563
This guy gets it.
But also lack of hygene, and no personal bubble, if i can taste the basment you crawled out of thats a huge no no

Bad eye area: Bags, hyperpigmentation, negative canthal tilt and other weird eye shapes.

>>36789322

Not understanding social cues

Also looking ungroomed

>>36790248
It seems as if you never go outside, nearly everyone is or was in a relationship

>>36790252
Dude, pedophilia is <16 as soon as you are a proper adult. The age when someone is a proper adult differs but 14 year old kid and 30 year old adult is fucked up
Only america has this stupid 17 is illegal even if you are 18 bullshit