>Fall in love with any female that gives me the slightest

You're too naive, you must harden your heart as not to get it destroyed by the evil roasties.

How do you know how it's love and not infatuation?

A-Asking for a friend...

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>>36752230
>woman is all friendly with you one day
>ghosts you the next day
>this cycle repeats for weeks

>>36752314
I- I can't tell anon.

>>36752314
I'd say love is falling for a person just for being them.
Infatuation is more of a direct physical draw.

>>36752314
I hate it when ppl say """asking for a friend"""

Why do ppl say this shit here, stop talking like that

>>36752322
FUCKING SO CALLED "FEMBOTS"

FUCK

FUCK YOU

>>36752230
Same, even when she's obviously a shitty individual or a 3/10

>>36752384
Its a r e d d i t ism

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>>36752454
But she's really nice, and she likes me, but she's in another fucking continent and it'll never happen.
I don't know why I hurt myself like this.

>>36752491
i swear, the only thing that's more cancerous than reddit is channers mentioning it or using it as an insult. die you fool

>>36752384

It's a meme you clusterfuck of a human.

I tried to call you a dip but got R9K'd...

>>36752351
>>36752363
Honestly I crave attention so bad, any sign of it I melt like butter. I can't tell which is which.

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>>36752230


>cashier touches my hand
>imagine life together

>>36752523
It's a gay and bad meme, just like you

>>36752501
last session I was struggling in a class and a woman came on her own volition to explain to me how to do it. She even drew me graphics and shit

I probably masturbated thinking about her a dozen time and imagined my life with her for a good 2 weeks

Worse if it's someone on the interner and then she eh ghosts you well fuck me right

OP is pretty much the reason i stopped bothering with having male friends.

>>36752738
orbiters you mean

>>36752542

A nurse held my hands while using a syringe on me; the tension between us was off the charts.

>>36752738
Fuck off roastie. You have no value as a human being anyway. It amazes me that someone would even waste their fucking time on you.

>>36752938
that's the thing though i'm 99% sure they had feelings for me just because i was nice to them and had boobs. it's desperation not real attraction

>>36753102
>it's desperation not real attraction
the difference is so minuscule im not even sure why you bother

> falling in love with people on the bus
> imagine lives together

I fall in love with any dude I think I have a chance with and still get rejected.
> brother is friends with a guy at work
> i'm complaining about being single
>" Anon likes you."
> " did he say something?"
> "no, but you're one of two girls he knows and you like all the same shit. He has to."
> his best friend says he talks about me a lot
> even though this guy is barely not a NEET, the idea I have a chance makes me develop crush
> i mean come on? I'm average looking, nice, employed, smart, educated and funny! I got this in the BAG!
> he rejects me

Life is suffering.

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>>36753278
Be my gf instead. I won't reject you

It could be worse, it could be an escort you pay 200+ to spend 2 hours with and even though you know it isn't real you still go back because it's the only thing in your life that makes you feel anything.

I'm hoping I'll snap out of it before I lose my entire life savings, I'm part way to letting go but even that took seeing other escorts, which still costs money.

>>36752230
I know that feel.

>keep getting rejected by every girl I befriend
>after a while stop confessing to them and systematically repress any feelings I can have
>meet a new girl
>super nice and open to me.
>kind and understanding
>despite my best efforts I fall mad in love with her
>keep trying to tell myself it's only because she is nice
>at one point I stop trying and accept my feelings as they are
>confess to her
>she says that I only like her because she's the only girl I talk to on a regular basis and that we have nothing in common.

Just fuck my shit up.

>>36753345
Yeah, you would. Because he posts on here and says the same shit.

>>36753371
Jesus.

...do you have stuff in common?

I'm the same, too. I used to be really confident and ask dudes out. When they rejected me, I laughed it off and even turned it into a joke.

Nowadays I just act creepily nice around dudes until they pre-emptively tell me to fuck off, and then feel depressed and nauseous for a week.

>>36753665
>Yeah, you would. Because he posts on here and says the same shit.
No don't say this. We're not all the same. It's always the girls who ghost me. But I keep trying.

>Nowadays I just act creepily nice around dudes until they pre-emptively tell me to fuck off, and then feel depressed and nauseous for a week.
Break the chain anon. Give it a shot. You have to keep trying.

Do you play vidya and wanna talk

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>get caught staring at an attractive girl's feet on the train, get called a creep
>start imagining our wedding

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>girl talks to me in class
>just wants to know the due date for an assignment
>daydream later about getting married and having kids with her

>>36752505
he's right though...

hdgakfgfk

>>36752314
love is reciprocated
tttttttttttttttt

>>36753665
>..do you have stuff in common?

We are very different, but we both have been through tough shit and have the same vision on things. I never felt closer to a woman before. She discarded my feelings like they were nothing and the worst part is that I don't even know if she was right or not.

I don't know if I'll ever be able to be certain of my feelings toward a girl after this.

>>36753371
Hey at least she was honest with you.

>>36753878
Well, obviously your situation informs your perception. You'll never be purely objective in your emotional responses. You just need to review your emotions intellectually. One should understand their emotions, not try to reel them in fully.

Ex. The guy I got rejected by

We don't have some major things in common. I'm educated, he's not. He's working for minimum wage, I'm not.

Personality wise, he's pretty slovenly.

Politics wise, he's completely disengaged, whereas I am very political.

I guess there are a lot of things that most women see as "dealbreakers", but I'm lonely so wth. Is it entirely fueled by desperation?

Well, no. He has some hobbies he's good at. He's funny and easygoing. He's cute and quirky. We like the same comics and movies and vidya. So was my infactuation logical?

Well... No.

Her having lived experiences similar to your own but no shared hobbies might be perfect for someone who just wants a partner they can relate to. If you want to do things with your partner, it might not be ideal.

So I don't think there's anything wrong with your perceptions. I just think you use them as a guide as opposed to your intellect.

>>36754286
>I just think you use them as a guide as opposed to your intellect.

Eventho I'm someone bitter and cynical I wouldn't try to rationalize my feelings toward a partner. I don't believe in "true love" but I feel that emotions are important in that kind of stuff. As you said, women tend to put more thinking into it and show more pragmatism when it comes to finding a lover.

Yes, I doubt of what motivated my feelings but it doesn't make them less real.

Do you think your affinity for a potential partner should always be a "logical" choice ?

>>36752322
Yhea... I can relate

>>36752314
the thing is youre never supposed to do shit about it , every single time some retard has told you "go for it dude!" or the classic "just bee youre shelf" its been a lie. If you like a girl treat her as if she were a man
>Always let her start the conversation
>When talking to her dont look directly at her , be nice but also give her your profile and look at her for a bit every so often as if you had something else in your mind

and if she ever basically hits on you pretty obviously be cool about it and go in

>>36752230
My only reason to be alive and look forward to right now is to talk to a married tomboy dyke three times a week who transferred to my department for the five-ish minutes we run into each other. I have our life together planned out

>>36753278
sorry that you're fat anonette

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>>36752230
>Female shows you a slightest bit of attention
>You start dreaming about dating her and how your love life will be

>>36753102
If every girl feels this way, how are robots supposed to get a foot in the door?

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>>36752230
>accidentally meet eyes with a girl
>sperg out and quickly get out my phone and pretend to text until she's out of sight
>imagine our life together
>repeat with next girl

>>36752230
just ignore them. they are the most unpredictable creatures in the universe. if you want to have sex, there are womans who can arrange you with that, for money. if you are looking for a soul-mate, well, mate, realise that such thing is as rare as a predictable woman

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>cashier girl at gas station talked a bit to me
>can't stop thinking about her

I feel so pathetic I hope I kill myself in the near future

>>36755832
I always get this response and it's stupid because
1.) I'm not fat. Ugly, but not fat.
2.) /r9k/ bitches about girls not giving manlets / lanklets a chance ( except I do) but expect Stacey with Zooey Deschannel Bangs and then complain about female entitlement. So yeah, even if I was fat, /r9k/ reserves no right to be fucking picky.

>>36754597
> logical choice

Uh, well, I know lonely single white ladies reading Austen is a meme, but...

I really liked Persuasion because between Anne and Wentworth there is a physical attraction / romantic spark but a lot of the relationship is based on respect.

I think the goal is to find someone who inspired that romantic spark, but is also is admirable.

>>36756192
Wasn't expecting you to respond anymore

>I think the goal is to find someone who inspired that romantic spark, but is also is admirable.

It's a nice compromise, I can get behind that.

I would love to chat more with you but it's past 1 AM in my timezone and I'm working, gotta go soon.

>>36756477
Good luck, and sleep tite, anon. <3

>>36756010

If its a local gas station you can try to get in touch with her, maybe get her phone number.?

>>36756509
You too !

'night