Does anybody else have no friends? What's your situation?

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If this thread doesn't get any replies I will hate you all.

Fuck this retarded mongrelization of /soc/ and /b/.

try learn something new, it makes you feel like your doing something productive and you're working your brain.
personally i started learning sign language and its sometimes interesting just to say random things in sign just to get my brain working

I cope by having a little bit of hope for the future

It's killing me because I crave human contact so much and I get none. Why did I turn out like this, why do I crave the thing I have the least of

Im not even a spaz like most, i have 0 spaghetti to spill. People just don't love me.

I go for hours long walks in hopes of meeting someone I know and maybe hang out but it never happens.

There's no other coping, just self pity and thinking where have I gone wrong

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>>36749439
>anybody else
Robots don't have friends, silly.
>What's your situation?
21 KHV, never had any real friends
>How do you cope?
Not caring. I'm quite possibly schizoid, which helps.
How do YOU feel about not having any friends? Do you feel lonely, depressed? How long have you been alone?

I have a low social drive, I could get lonely and talk to someone once every 3 months and then feel fine. I usually impulse make a dating profile or go a concert to talk to people. It doesn't bother me not having friends as much as people's reaction to me not having friends

I've tried making friends online a couple of times but they always end up ghosting me. Slowly losing contact with my highschool friends... Most of the time i prefer solitude, but lately idk i've been feeling pretty lonely. How do i deal with it? I browse chans and talk to myself and my dog a lot.

>>36749439
Play vidya games, meet new people online

>>36749439
I cope by realising every "friend" I've ever had was a fucking faggot and I'm better off alone

There is no one I like enough to spend my free time with and neither does anyone like me enough to hang out with me. If I could pick who I'd get along with that would be a help, but everyone around me has such a complicated social circle I'd have to get through all the people I despise to even get to someone slightly interesting.

I actually got invited to a concert a couple days ago and I went, there I got a friendly reminder me, other people and lots of sound don't get along, big headache and constantly getting annoyed by everyone kept me from enjoying it.

How do I cope? Being a top-tier onii-san keeps me from getting lonely I guess, I also don't mind being alone.

just smoke weed you fucktard

>>36749684
I've always tried this. Nobody ever wants me. I'm not talking in a romantic sense, even. Just in general, nobody even wants to speak to me or look at me. So I've always tried to become better than them, get fit, get smart, learn languages, music, skills. So someday they'll all want to know me, be my friend, speak to me, date me. And I can laugh in their faces then and say, "With you? I think I'll pass." Typing it out, it seems really edgy now. But it's keeping me growing at least.

>>36750270

^
THIS

This also has been my experience, the idea of 'a friend' is something that only ever existed in my mind.

The reality is other people are assholes.

>>36749439

bro go pick up a study, or a hobby. Go speak to people while you're there. It will give you great confidence if you eventually are accepted within your study group. Just do it, or you'll be sorry you never tried. You will never have friends staying away from people.

And it's never too late to meet people. Everyone wants friends.

As for myself, Im still struggling. And it doesnt happen immediately. You'll just have to meet the right people and it will take some time to get to know them.

I have no friends! But I made. Snapchat. I'm a fun 18 year old, please add me: light0
Let's be friends.

>25
>work a data job where I don't have to talk to anybody
>spend free time reading or posting on 4chan
>try not to think about girls
>try not to think about "success"
>gradually accepting that I essentially just want to be left alone
>future seems bleak regardless of life choices so may commit suicide soon

>>36749439
I talk to cuties online and get high and drunk and speed

>>36750346
Whatever keeps you motivated man. But most of the time people are too self centred to care about anybody else unless they have some kind of personal or psysical trait that will improve their own social status. Just do it for yourself dude, you'll feel better about it on the long run.

>>36750420
>bro

Nice of you to stop by, Chad.

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>>36749439

I had a couple of really good online friends, also met them a few times. We are talking 8-10 years of at least weekly conversations.
However one day I dropped them all out of the blue. Why? I'm absolutely socially retarded and unable to lead a normal life while they all turned into turbonormies, got their shit sorted and talked about their lives etc.
I mean, good for them and all. But I couldn't stand talking to them anymore. There was nothing I could say to explain it or at least I didn't know how. I didn't say anything, simply vanished into radio silence. And I don't even miss them or feel anything at all about it while I know for a fact that they were really worried.
It's weird as fuck.

I have no friends and am situated in Toronto. I'm a fun 18 year old. Please add me on this snapchat I made: light0

You can't make new friends if you don't have any to start off with

No friends here :)

Honestly I feel much better without them, I'm a lot happier and my family always keeps me company. I can say for sure that I'm A LOT happier than before.

>>36749439
>Does anybody else have no friends?
I have a few friends, just not close friends
>What's your situation?
I'm a sperg who can't relate to 99% of people
>How do you cope?
I don't know

>>36750494
>nobody ever says bro except chad
Ok then bro

>>36750564
I'm also not sad about having friends except in the morning when I wake up and realize no one even cares about me and no one would know if I died for hours. I have family but not close with them and also no job currently.

>>36750495
Sounds like you are quite the schizoid. Otherwise it would have made you terribly miserable to leave them.

I have no friends and struggle to be social. It makes it really hard to come to work everyday when I have to see the same people but I don't talk to any of them. I basically have to daydream for 10 hours and it doesn't make the grind any easier. I just get to think about how alone and depressed I am.

I can be a friend for hire, if anyone's interested :[email protected]

r9k is my friend

irl idk i waste most of my time on the internet

I have no friends and struggle to be social. It makes it really hard to come to work everyday when I have to see the same people but I don't talk to any of them. I basically have to daydream for 10 hours and it doesn't make the grind any easier. I just get to think about how alone and depressed I am.

I would like to work extras to make more money but I just can't stand being out in the world like this.

>>36750624
Have you tried making friends online?. Not the best substitute for human interaction but it may help

I have no friends and cant make new ones. I think i might be slightly autistic because I feel like my brain overloads or gets overstimulated when im talking to someone. I start to panic and try to end the conversation as quickly as possible its even worse when there are other people listening. I simply cant make any meaningful connection with anyone

>>36750495
This is a huge problem for me. Even when I add people from r9k they'll ask me What I'm doing and say stuff Like "what? You Didn't leave the house all morning???" and it just makes me feel bad because I don't know What I'm supposed to do.

>>36750713
Fuck i have exactly the same problem. Im only a couple of weeks into my new job so i hope i can make a friend or two in time but knowing me i probably wont. My throat dries up everytime i think of joining in the office conversations

>>36750645

Yeah, I don't know. It doesn't even feel real, there is just nothing. And somehow I always knew that it would end like this. It was years ago and I never bothered to make friends again since then. No point.
Then again, I kinda need social interaction. 4chan isn't exactly what you would call healthy social interaction but it's something. Without any, I'd go crazy, yet I don't want social bonds. Makes fuckall sense.

>>36750779

I was starting to kinda just build a fragile mask of lies about what my day looks like, barely any of it was true and at some point I couldn't take it anymore. If anything, dropping them was a huge relief.

>>36750506
Someone please fucking add me, I'm a cool grill. Please.

>>36749439
No real fronds for like 10 years. Having any is almost alien to me at this point. I'm just bad at keeping in contact and put zero effort in to trying to reach out to people so it's no ones fault but my own. Can't really help it as I've felt like a loner and have bad social anxiety. The downside is that because you have nobody but yourself then everything is that extra bit harder in life.

Every time I get anything close to a friend, I realize that I don't actually want to spend time with them and its nothing like my chinese cartoons.

>>36750749
It's partially autism but may also be because your parents didn't make sure you had contact to other kids a lot as a kid. As a little kid I played SNES all day. It was not good for me.
>>36750847
>Without any, I'd go crazy, yet I don't want social bonds.
Textbook case of schizoid, actually

I'm the butt of all sorts of jokes. I'm an outcast. I don't cope because I can't cope.

>>36749439
I cope by playing guitar, smoking weed, drinking, and shitposting. It helps to not be a NEET, as you're usually too tired to feel too many feels.

I stopped talking to my friend groups a few years ago. It was nice when we saw each other in school every day, but nowadays I don't feel like it's worth the trouble to stay in touch.

I'm pretty "out of sight, out of mind" when it comes to friendships with people. It's nice when they're there, but I don't really miss them when they're not.

>>36750716
I really don't know how. I don't have any social media so the only way would be through sending emails, and no one wants that. Do you have any advice?

>>36751080
I feel the same, but sometimes if I see something funny or interesting, I have an urge to share it with someone who would get why it's so interesting. I'm thinking of making up an imaginary friend at this point, he would agree with me all the time

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I didn't spoke to anyone irl outside of my family/cashiers/doctors for about 5 years or something.

Eventually I get used to it and rarely feel lenely but it may be just me...

>>36751135
Idk anon i don't have any social media but i'm ok with emails, i find it takes more of an effort to establish a connection but on the long run it's worth it. To each his own i guess. Maybe you should try some of the social threads other anons make here?.

I didnt know what schizoid symptoms were till googling them just now. They describe me perfectly and im pretty sure I have the disorder. Im guessing a lot of robots here have it too? Do you get medication for it i want to stop being such an apathetic loser

Anyone else here optimistic even though their life is going down the drain? I'm almost homeless, I'm broke as fuck, I own 2 outfits, haven't gotten laid in years or even talked to anyone outside of family. I'm autistic as fuck, I fail even basic tasks, I got kicked out of college, and I have absolutely nothing going for me whatsoever. I feel completely content though, and I feel hope and happiness when I think of the future even though I have no plan. I've done nothing to better my life besides a few push-ups every day. I make minimum wage. Why am I so content? I should be panicking, but I just feel calm and relaxed. Is it just the weed?

I think its the weed and your stupidity. Stupid people are always very happy and content

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>>36749439
>Does anybody else have no friends?
Anyone on this board that have any friends should get out


>What's your situation?
I live in a small rural town so not really many people here, at least not my age. I live with my mom little sister and older brother.
Always been shut in my entire life and after high school I didn't see anyone else than my family for years. I like doing things but NEVER with other people, not even vidya. I don't want friends but having someone to talk with now and then would be nice.
I would probably have friends if I wasn't autistic
I can't speak or write properly anyway and especially not about emotions and feelings


>How do you cope?
This board helps a ton and being with my family if I feel like I need company

>>36749439
i had a few "friends" that i ate lunch with in high school that i hung out with maybe twice outside of school and once we graduated they all alienated me from the group because i turned into a NEET and i embaressed them. now a few years later i finally mustered up the motivation to start taking community college classes and i see dozens of people that I used to be really good friends with early high school before I transfered to a different school that now pretend they dont recognize me when i walk by.
i play a lot of video games to distract myself. i also have a dog.

>>36752244

>This board helps a ton
Nigga this board only lets you dive deeper into the hole.

>really close friend all thorough like 8-22
>best friends
>he graduated and becomes successful
>physical therapist job, qt girlfriend, the works
>meanwhile I'm still living at home with parents playing vidya
>never have any experiences or great stories to tell when I hang out with his friends
>pretty sure his gf and other friends think I'm a loser
>starting declining all his invites as the years go by cause I was ashamed.
>calls eventually just stop coming
>zero friends now
It's pretty fucking lonely, I don't know how I'd have survived this long if it wasn't for the internet
At least I have other robots to talk to.

>>36749439

I've had no friends for about 6 years. I don't think I could tolerate people now.

I don't really think about it but to be honest I literally never made any type of effort to get friends/a girlfriend. I guess I should TRY to approach a girl at least once before complaining. Even normies get rejected all the time, I don't think anything is actually wrong with you

I have friends. Am I happy? Not really. My friends are mainly losers like me, we spend time playing video games, smoking weed and hanging around block. Our days are quite boring and repetitive. So don't fret too much about having no friends guys.

>>36752447
I'm sorry about your friend bro.

>>36749439
All of the friends I used to have became normies, one a literal cuck.

I actually prefer it this way, which is odd.

I have no friends irl. Tried to make some online, one of them ghosted me the other asked why i talked so weird. I'm fucking done.

>>36752769
Same here. Even then, those "friends" were more like acquaintances since we never hung out outside of gaming.
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Honestly I cope by watching streams, youtube vids, and listening to podcasts. Also lurking forums.

>>36754082
Keep trying man. How does your voice sound weird?

>>36749439
0 friends for almost a year now. was hard at first, but it's quite fulfilling nowdays. got more time to work on things that matter to me, not being distracted by those aspects of human interactions i was never too comfortable with. if i occassionaly get lonlier that usual, i would binge watch some tv show and smoke weed.

>>36750418

this

>tfw working at mcdicks part time has completley lowered my opinion of us as a species and i now cant help automatically despising everyone i meet

I've had no friends for about 7 years. It's fucking lonely and now I have absolutely zero social skills. I cringe whenever I try to talk to anyone, the stuff that comes out of my mouth is awkward and stupid. I'm also not attractive or smart, so I don't have much going for me.

>>36749439
I have some online friends that I might message every couple of days, and see virtually nobody IRL. Been that way for a few years, now.

I'm fine with it. I have no drive to make new friends, or to socialize. It's nice when it happens (family gatherings, the one or two times someone from high school wanted to reconnect, etc), but I'm pretty indifferent.

Despite not minding it, I can feel the isolation eating away at my psyche. I'm slowly becoming more aggressive and bitter towards society, and my ego is growing. Pretty weird, desu

Alcohol and porn. College socialization is shit

>>36756229
Music helps a lot, and I agree that college socialization is shit.

No friends. Why am I even posting?

>>36749439

>have a friend i see maybe once every two months
>theres work nights out twice a year but dont really enjoy them but have to at least try (mcdicks)
>dont really feel like anyone at work likes me
>go to gym after college or work, sped about 2 hours a day in there
>read a lot, military history, philosophy,natural world and the occasional historic novel
>also audiobooks
>paradox games, m&b, tw etc
>walk my dog and smoke a lot (pipes, cigars, cigarettes, vape)
>browse youtube and listen to a lot of music
>also come here

tbqh not even depressed or bitter or unhappy anymore, just a bland, quiet, apathetic husk with a stoic outlook

Can any of you put your fonger on why do you not have friends?

I have never had a single friend in my life and I don't want one anymore. The more I deal with people the more I hate and want to avoid them. The most conversation I've had this year was with a nice old man telling me about his time as a SEAL.

Thread deserves a bump, if I were less tired I would reply to people

no real friends since HS (over 10+ years ago), only online friends, which i began talking with when i was a teen

unless you are a gamer or socially active online, i dont think you will find a real 'friend'

you can get social interaction by idling in irc or discords as a substitute