for anyone who has accepted the fact that they will never get

Maybe try NOT to think about this thing you call "loneliness".
>Never had any friends
>Sometimes you get bored cause you have nobody to do things with
>It's called utilizing your time with pass times

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>>36741944
oh ya i forgot you guys are all playing video games

im dirt broke i dont have access to any games right now

lol

maybe thats probably my main problem

>>36741882
Find a hobby, get good at it, learn to make a living out of it. Also, have some friends to talk to.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0rpZJ6CC08w

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bumperino

any perma virgins out there

whats ur strategies so u JUST FORGET/ dont get deppressed /sexually frustrated

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>>36742031
i feel like the only purpose to ever do something and succeed at something is so you could eventually fuck a gf

where do u get ur motivation

when ur a perma virgin

also how does friends not make you sad when they all have gfs but you dont

I can't explain it but I just don't think about it. My two IRL friends are both normies with gfs but it never bothers me when I'm around them or anything. Sure, soimetimes I wish I had a gf and I'll fantasise real hard, but it's never anything so bad that it's interfering with my normal day-to-day fuinctioning. Personally, I think it affects everyone differently. Also, I hold on to the scant hope that'll it'll find love one day.

>>36742054
I got used to being alone, not having a gf doesn't bother me. I'm more worrying about not having money and friends.

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>>36742097
for me it causes me to have these autistic seizures and fits of rage and depression

outbursts

if i see a post talking about having sex or something

it definitely interferes with my whole brain and i just want the desire to be gone i wish i wasnt human or i was dead

>>36742144
If you're not memeing, I think you have bigger problems than simply
>tfw no gf

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>>36742135
ya but are you a perma virgin and are you content like that?

i dont understand the "Friends" meme either

I'm almost completely apathetic. I don't want a girlfriend nor do I want sex.

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>>36742184
ok and what is your mindset like and what do you do with your time

i want to be able to be apathetic

but i really like the idea of having a gf

and i cant have it

It's honestly more painful when you have a gf and she brings up something like "I remember that place, I fucked one of my ex-bfs behind that". Breakups are bad as well.

>>36741882

I don't get lonely at all, I get the opposite of lonely where I wish I didn't have to associate with all the retards at work, maybe try being less of a normie

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>>36742223
ya but atleast you had a girlfriend and you can die in peace

ill never have a gf and it terrifies me

if i had a gf for just a few months i could die in peace because atleast i had a gf before

>>36742230
its not loneliness its tfw no gf
u dont get that?

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>>36741882
>men think they can be lonely when they admit to losing this "feeling" for a few hours after jerking off

>>36742197

When I'm not browsing this shithole or listening/watching something, I'm sleeping. I have a combination of apathy and laziness, I just can't muster up the energy to do most things.

Maybe you wouldn't be so lonely if you stopped holding all girls to the standard of one of the most popular kpop stars of her day

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>>36742260
and are you content with that life?

im getting pretty bored and sad every day while im doing the same thing

and how do you browse this place when 90% is talking about sex/gfs??? and you yourself dont participate in that

>>36742272
i dont ill take a below avg gf i just dont think ill ever get one

>>36742244
>ya but atleast you had a girlfriend and you can die in peace
The goal posts move. The number one reason for why we advance as a species is also the primary reason why we will never be truly happy: it's never enough.

>tfw no gf
>tfw never had teenage love
>tfw khv
>tfw never took anyone's virginity
>tfw no soulmate
>tfw no 9/10 gf
>tfw not a rich, 6' tall, 8" dicked, chad
Etc etc etc...

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>>36742333
nah my goalpost aint movin

i already know i would be more than satisfied with just a boring old plain gf in my life

>>36742305

I'm not content but it's the most effortless thing I can do, I've been thinking offing myself so I don't have to do anything. I just ignore/hide most threads.

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>>36742353
word word

but u never get the feeling like you want a girlfriend

how??????

it kills me

especially when i think about how im getting older and wasting more time of my young years

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are you tinfoil

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>>36742393
ya wassup

who are you

>>36741882
After a while (30+) you will stop caring I guess. At least that is what happened to me.

>>36742401
im just some guy that used to go on sc2
im surprised to see you here desu. i thought /pol/lacks hated /r9k/

>>36742374

I don't know what to tell you anon. I guess I just accepted I'm a loser and don't deserve a girlfriend and my mind just pushed the desire out of my mind.

>>36741882

I always think about cruel revenge.

The person who needs the constant presence and friendship of another to survive is not a person at all but half of one. Most unhealthy is when one of these half-persons develops insatiable loneliness whilst believing they cannot cure it.

You have two solutions, OP. You either climb out of this pit and save yourself- it will take effort, it will take pain, but it will give you what you want. Whether you truly enjoy what you get and find it was worth it- I cannot guarantee you that. It will give you perspective, however, and you will never fall into that pit again because you will leave yourself a rope to climb back out.

Your second solution is to fill this hole within you yearning for the presence of another. As I said before- a person that NEEDS, not just wants, the presence of some absolute, above-all other is weak. Friends are good- you should have them, to say otherwise is edgy nonsense- but having an absolute, driveling need for love is not a good thing.

What you need to do is not find another to love, but find something to love yourself for. If not- make something for you to love within yourself. Become as arrogant as you can be. Learn a musical instrument, become a philosopher, become a star-studded carpenter or artist- you will see adoration and praise, and however humble you might act, you will love it and yearn for it.

As you yearn, and grow arrogant, that hole lusting for another will be filled. If it is not, hide it- your newfound confidence and substance will attract a mate.

Humans are like jigsaw pieces. Women are pieces with holes. Men are pieces with apparatus that fit those holes- some might not fit, some might be weak, and must improve. Some men do not have such and have holes instead, and expect to be filled by a woman- and that is what you are.

You are weak, and you need to compensate and become your own person.

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>what is a good coping strategy you develop in your head to deal with the loneliness?
Shitposting

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>>36742422
>used to

i still keep the sc2 thread open all the time even though janny is cracking down hard

its still the best place ive ever found on the net
as strange as that is

and i hate starcraft lol


i never really post on r9k except if i get the feels

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>>36742454
thatll take too long i just want a gf

i dont want to travel the globe and become the next multi lingual philosopher pianist

>>36741882
"Hot" "trap" yeah no. 99% of trannies look like guys and even the feminine looking ones have male ass and a dick.

It's just pathetic losers shilling their own delusions like guys who fuck drugged up asian midgets

>>36742492
>Walking to the well for some water? thatll take too long, i just want a drink

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>>36742506
im sure you have already written 10 novels about your philosophy and music and global travels

lmao ur fuckkin faggot

>>36742465
>i still keep the sc2 thread open all the time even though janny is cracking down hard
i went back there recently and i saw someone made what's essentially sc2chan. why dont you guys use that instead of getting banned constantly? surely it's a lot less hassle
>its still the best place ive ever found on the net
as strange as that is
i completely understand. that thread used to have me laughing all day. remembering all of the "gook" posts and that one guy getting papa johns for free everyday still makes me laugh for some reason. as pathetic as it may sound, that general was like my friends since im a friendless loser.

but while i really loved it there, i just felt it wasn't healthy to keep going back. i would spend all of my waking hours on it while still being a neet. i figured if i weened myself off it, i would be more productive. truth is though, im still super unproductive.

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>>36742677
thats sad you shouldnt ever leave 100%

ive already accepted my demise so theres nothing i could stop doing to have a better life

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>>36742677
also we do post on that other website still

its kind of dying though its just me and like a few guys lol

i cant avatar fag on sc2 general though

;/ anymore

you used to be able to in the old days

>>36742144
yo elliot how's it going?

>frustrated
I've never been frustrated over a fact that i dont have a gf. I never teased girls or did anything when i was in hs.

>>36742750
>ive already accepted my demise so theres nothing i could stop doing to have a better life
i still dont have that mindset. i always have my mother's complaints of me being neet in the back of my mind, which keeps from being too comfortable.
if i was supporting myself, i wouldn't care about shitposting on sc2 all day, but as it stands i feel like nothing but a burden. i wanted to pick up programming so i have something constructive to put focus into and feel a little less worthless, but it's boring and im lazy. i wish i had a talent in something desired :c

>>36741882

Let me just give you some advice. I'm a friendless KHV and have been for years. If you can better yourself, do it. I'm talking about exercise, going out often, meeting people, trying to make friends. This life is very draining on your soul because everywhere you see happy people living happy lives and then they look down on you for being unhappy and whenever you have to deal with these people, you feel inferior and like absolute garbage.

In terms of coping strategies, you just drown yourself in whatever vices you can to distract you from your shit life. For me, it's video games and alcohol. And 4chan. This is not a life anyone chooses to live and is happy with themselves. Just get a fucking job, lose weight, and just try to be normie. The longer you wait, the harder it is.

>>36741965
You dont have to play video games anon, I didn't play any video games. I just read books, lots and lots of books. It also feels good to know shit, it can help with you to get a gf too. Whenever I talk fancy or talk about philosophy some girls seems to be interested but since im an autist and I panic, that's why I still don't have a gf.

Usually I just remind myself I'm forever alone because I got rejected. Really isn't anything wrong with me to merit it. I really don't want to be with someone that doesn't or didn't want me so it's actually somewhat preferential to stay that way even though there are a lot of times I'd like to meet someone different.

>>36742454
lol you sound like a jerk. 'constant presence' what makes you think they had *any* presence of that sort

>>36742252
This. Jack off 24/7 and youre pretty much never gonna have those feelings lol

>>36743144

Doesn't work. I'm >>36743089 and you end up with your dick in your hand thinking about how shit your life is while looking at a cute girl suck the dick of some ugly fat old guy.

>>36741882
I personally haven't done anything special, I've been 3 years alone now and while at the beggining was hard and painful, something eventually died inside of me, my libido in general has almost dissapeared (I jerk off once in a while and I feel it's enought for me), and I never have women tits and pussies in my mind, it's liberating anons, of course I feel like I'm losing something, I know how reconfortating a woman's warm can be, but at the end we all grow tired of another person, no matter how awesome they are, I consider all the women I've been with very special, they all had great virtues yet I ended up decieveing them all, can't help it, I need freedom more badly than I need sex now, even if I only use this freedom to play videogames and post on this site, I'm better than ever, cause women are no longer tormenting my mind.

kys? you'll die eventually
and in that time it takes for that to happen you'll won't be able to overcome your animal instinct to find a mate
the distractions aren't a cure, the disease will still be with you
so why not get done what you need to get done today