https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sI6I9DT3W1Y
how do people have normal conversations like this? how do they sound so relaxed and confident talking to people they only know from the internet? I get nervous just answering the phone, let alone having a conversation.
normies don't appreciate how lucky they are being born without this irrational fear of people
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>>36714569
it makes me so fucking angry when women act like they can fit in on group chats
I wish they just fucked off
>>36714569
gotta be born with a pristine unfucked high-quality normiebrain capable of thinking 1000 words per minute
sorry OP you didnt make the cuti didnt either
You know we have YouTube threads. Just wait for those. Don't shill.
>>36714942
this is just some normies whores channel that was posted here a while ago and i subbed to because i have absolutely nothing better to do with my time then watch teenage girls make trashcan youtube videos
>>36714569
Yeah I've never understood that normie skill. I wish I could talk well enough to make conversation flow. And if I somehow think of something interesting to say it's always like 5 minutes after the moment has passed.
My vocal chord muscles are super weak from not talking for 10+ years as well. My voice is gone after speaking for a few minutes. I'm in my 30's by the way.
>>36714967
Learn Lisp programming, will fulfill your life.
I feel ya op. Social anxiety/awkwardness or even just not talking to people often can make it so you have word salad but with practice comes skills. Just gotta try and chill and speak what comes to your mind. I know its tough but it'll happen. Or if you absolutely can't then get meds or smoke weed/drink
>>36714569
i used to be that way...learning sales techniques at my old job helped me get more comfortable with just talking to new people. you'll get there someday anon
>>36714914
and then the whole group turns into an orbiting contest consisting of who can impress the girl the most
>>36714569
eliminating self esteem helps ironically, once you think intimate shitty things to yourself on a regular basis it becomes increasingly unlikely that anyone will say anything that will really hurt you. Beyond that it's mostly social cues like when you say something dumb or mildly autistic and everyone stops talking for a second or you can feel you own pessimism seeping into the mood of a room and have to change the subject.