What do you do when you love someone but you'll never ever

Masturbate to their kikebook photos.

>>36700547
Make a lot of money, become very charismatic and successful, be wanted by everyone else and then sit alone pining for the person like some sad vampire-type character.

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>>36700547
Don't love anyone, stupid.

>>36700547
My only way to cope with that feeling is to remember that this simply means I'll just keep living my life like I always have. It may be kinda sad and lonely when I compare it to what could have been, but I managed to get through my days before I found this person, so I should manage now afterwards too. It's as simple as that.

You shouldn't miss something you never had. Also, get rid of everything you own that reminds you of that person. That way you won't think about them as often and how much you wish you had them by your side.

>>36700838
Correct answer here

>>36700838
t. gatsby

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>>36700817
I can't I'm too sad.

>>36700838
I'm 5'4 I can't be a vampire desu.

>>36700844
H-how?!

>>36700897
Anon this stoic way of thinking is very difficult to adopt. What if your mind won't let you "forget" about this person? What if everytime you go to bed they're all you can think about?

>>36701386
It never gets better, time doesn't help. The loneliness will consume you and every day is filled with sorrow, it will get to the point that you put the covers over your head when you sleep hoping that you'll suffocate

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>>36700547
You fuck off and die.
Atleast that's what I do.

>>36701386
Fall into degeneracy, and take your focus off that person by doing more and more dumb shit. Remember that love issue only a chemical reaction that compels us to breed. You'll end trapped in a failing marriage. I did it; you're parents are doing it. Rise up Morty. Focus on science.

>>36701386
>What if every time you go to bed they're all you can think about?
Oh, they will be. For sure. That goes for me as well. But as the years pass, if you made sure to get rid of everything that reminds you of them, and I mean EVERYTHING, then it will gradually hurt a little less as you will start to let go of them little by little, although likely never completely.

I fucking hate going to bed. It's the one time you simply won't be able to distract yourself from the thoughts. That's why the 'stoic' mindset is so crucial. Escapism won't get you the whole mile single-handedly. That's why you gotta tell yourself that everything is fine, even if it feels like you're blatantly lying to yourself.

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Hell, if none of this works, then consider that somewhere in a parallel universe she's out there wishing you would be hers just as badly. Every night as she goes to sleep she hugs her pillow wishing you were there lovingly embracing her. Sometimes she can't help but to cry because it hurts so much as she lays there all alone. But if she knew how badly you were suffering and longing for her as well, then despite all that, the thing she'd want the most is for you to be happy, regardless what it took, and that means living to your greatest potential as happily as you can even if it's for her sake, because deep down, if you really think about it, you know that's what you wish she would do as well. So pull yourself together by any means necessary, and just try to live as happily as you can without her, and hope that she does the same.

As far as I can tell, those are the only options besides spiraling fast into misery.

If going to bed is a big issue, I suppose getting a sleeping pill prescription from a doctor would be recommended so you won't have to lie there and suffer excessively before falling asleep every night.

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>>36700547
cry my man
i cry

I just bear with it and try hard to move on

>tfw the girl you love is onto someone else

>>36700547
post about it on ar nine kay

>>36700547
1. Nothing
2. I fantasize about going to places with them, like having a picnic in a prairie, going to a coffee shop, and boring stuff like that.
Pretty autistic, right?

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>>36700547
you start watching anime

You fucking move on and find a better one.

>>36703903
Normie

originix of it all

>>36700547
your goal should be to give up hope to the extent that you no longer feel pangs of sadness or regret in regards to a failure to accomplish goals similar to this in life. Eventually your automatic response to failure should be
>well i would have failed if I'd tried anyways.
After that all feelings of melancholy and dread should be nebulous enough that they don't bother you in any specific regard.

>>36701386
You can't be stoic because you're an overemotional fag, lol.

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>>36700547
I wish I could hate her. I haven't even seen her in nine months, why do I still think about her everyday? If I hated her I would have moved on by now. If she had outright said she hated me I could've moved on by now.

>>36703903
I know this is the only true cure, but it's so hard to meet new people, and it's only getting worse with age. The last three girls I've gotten to know have all had boyfriends before I even started talking to them. I think it's too late in the game for me at this point.

>>36700547
you don't get into a situation where that could happen

>>36700547
If I were in that situation I would dwell in agonizing sorrow until I get the strength to kill myself.

You power through it and work on improving yourself and trying to accomplish your goals, just without her in them now. Try to be stoic like >>36700897
>tfw I can't do this and keep obsessing over her, wondering if things could've worked for us in different circumstances and continue to indulge in Gatsby-esque fantasies about sweeping her off her feet someday[/ spoiler]