How do you prevent oneitis syndrome? I never had romantic female

>>36618848
Realise that she is just like other women and there is nothing special about her

The only place I goto is the gym, other than that I'm at home all the time. Being a NEET makes it very easy to avoid oneitis.

Last time I spoke to a female outside of my family was probably back in high-school, I'm nearly 30.

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>>36618907
And this is why I'm desperatel trying to become a normie. I never want to be you.

>>36618907
Same but this girl is fucking way out of my league and calls me cutie etc

I don't think she realizes I'm a shut-in khv with no friends at all 2 years into college.

Got it right now OP

Can you explain your situation?

>>36618957
Meant to say I agree but replied to the wrong person >>36618881

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>>36618965
>be absolute beta shut in with little social skills
>try out bumble on a whim before I probably drop out
>match with qt asian
>she texts me a lot and asked to meet a couple times
>narrowly avoid meeting her besides we different schedules
>nervous as fuck and it's all I can think about sometimes

All females who talk with a beta male only do this for sympathy points.

Its like when a roastie participates in a sigel for a class mate that killed herself due to said roasties bullying them.

>>36619126
That's messed up, why would they do this? It's all online and in private (at least I think).

But yeah, I'm trying really hard to not give a fuck. Then she calls me cutie and idk what to think

>>36618881
Exactly this. There is no "the one". Just like a cartoon, everyone on Earth is just a character who fits into an archetype. Take it from someone who grew up as a military brat and moved around a lot growing up. People are carbon copies of each other.

Also never make eye contact with women. Not in the autistic way though, I mean in a condescending "I'm not acknowledging your existence" way. You'd be surprised how fast your interest in women will drop.

>>36619341

lol just realize that females do this with EVERY SINGLE guy they are trying to get attention from

its all a game - you can either play the game while remaining discretely emotionally unavailable - or dont play the game and don't talk to females.

its not that difficult to figure out - girls are just like guys except they get compliments 24/7 and are never lonely.

aka just man up and compartmentalize your feelings

>>36619365
>just realize that females do this with EVERY SINGLE guy they are trying to get attention from
Well I guess that's ok right? She was talking about wanting a serious relationship and asked if wanted the same.

So yeah, I'm trying to be apathetic but it's tough.

>>36619252
To make themselves look good and """"""""""unique"""""""""""""". Its as if they watch 13 reasons why unironically.

>>36619515

just realize that you guys probably won't be married.

i'm assuming you are young and she is somewhat sane, go for it.

just dont get too emotionally invested, although act like you are. girls will make you feel like you are the only one right for them until they get over you and move on quickly.

just never break frame, not for the sake of saving face in front of others, just dont hate yourself.

>>36619655
>although act like you are.
How exactly do I do that? I'm not trying to be a creep or anything and so far I've been trying to seem pretty distant.