Ok guys i have a problem, a girl i use to go to high school with

>>36604540
>i dont want to become a normie
It's okay, you're not going to be a normie at this rate. She just wants favors from you bro.

>>36604540
she's just desperately searching for people to use as references, probably because she's been burning all her bridges by being a shitty person at her previous jobs. Or her parents finally kicked her out after funding her useless lib arts degree.

>>36604540
she's most likely planning on using you

so use her

>>36604540

Okay first thing get the terms Chad, cuck and normie out of your head. They're just fabrications, thinking like that will ruin every conversation you have. She is not a slut, a whore or a stacey, she's a human being just like you trying to live in the world and actively tried to get in contact with you. Since you've been lonely for so long and have all these self esteem issues you're probably taking her emojis and things she says way too seriously and think she likes you and need to remember she just wants to friends.

>>36604540
>Im a virgin and a loner, and although im not ulgy, im just so boring i dont think any girl would enjoy being with me anyway.

You're judging yourself. You are judging your own self, it's all in your head anon, all it's doing is putting you down. If anything she'd be upset to know you think that way about yourself.

You didn't say if you had anxiety but if you do just chill the fuck out, write down what you're feeling and explore them as deep as you can.

>>36605188
This. Rape her. When girls hang out alone with a guy there's a risk of rape anyway.

She's just using you mate, a girl did that same to me, I've posted the story before but it's basically the exact same. One girl was asking me because she'd just had a kid and the dad took off, the other girl just wanted to use me because she jeard how much money I make. She started by randomly approaching me and talking to me, befriended me, and then asked straight up for money.

>>36605602
Oh and if you don't wanna believe me, for example if you think I'm just being cynical, ask yourself how many other girls have shown even the slightest interest in you? If she's the only one all of a sudden showing attention to you, it's not because she's attracted to you

>>36605602
>>36605626
This. The fucking truth, don't get caught up by those people saying that you are insecure for thinking like this. Girls have never shown any interest, and all of a sudden a girl starts to show interest, it's just because she wants to use you

where is op at

>>36605433
This is actually the best advice I've seen on 4chan