What is your biggest obstacle to having a romantic relationship

Not having someone I truly want

>>36568110
Finding someone I truly want

>>36568110
Being me, obviously

>>36568110
I'm going to say 90 percent of men have trust issues and will not have good relationships with their gf cuz if this. They always need to know where they are and what they're doing

>>36568110
Having very low self-esteem and severe autism.

Crippling fear of regection.

>>36568541

>Women are known worldwide for cheating and flirting behind their guys backs, lying to them about who the father of their child is, divorce rape, etc etc

>I just don't understand why men don't trust me!

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I fundamentally cannot be compatible with other people.

Pretty sure I'm schizoid.

She lives in another country on the other side of the continent and barely knows I exist.

She does not want me

>>36568541
Ironically this is why I dumped my ex gf, she was too paranoid and jealous.
>tfw in the 10%

>>36568586
The trust issues are justified, but still issues.
Not saying that women being notoriously unfaithful isn't an issue as well.

I've lost control of my life.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1vs55Z7t7bk

>>36568586
muh femenism

>>36568110
Finding her in the first place.

>>36568541
I'd say 90% of women are untrustworthy.

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>>36568110
I'm denser than osmium, I'm scared of love, I don't trust people, and they need to be what I deem perfect

Basicly, I'm just gonna die alone; I accepted it years ago, so its not a big deal

But it still hurts

>>36568586
Relationships won't work with either side not trusting the other. You'll push your So to someone else. Or you'll stress them out and end in divorce. Literally date someone you love and trust and it's like having your best friend by your side all the time.

>>36568110
She's halfway across the world and may not even be alive any more
I hope she can stay safe until I have the money to move over there

>>36568690
Of course you would, you probably swallow everything on this cancerous board.

>>36568730
>date someone you trust
>and take her on unicorn rides
>JUST BEE YERSELF BRAH
>JUST BE CONFIDERNT BRUV

>>36568110
my oneitis and i are both very different people. even if i had a chance at her, i dont think it'll last long.

Don't know how to talk to girls. Clam up when one seems even slightly interested. Socially weird in general. So used to being single it would be a massive shift for me to date someone.

>>36568110

All of the people I've wanted didn't want me.
I only talk to people if I like them and I'm pretty anti-social, but I can deal with social situations well if I have to.

All the rare times I've found someone I've liked they've rejected me.

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I'm not 2d

>>36568110
them loving me back

other than that, degeneracy and the fear of wagecuckery

I have yet to find a girl as degenerate as I am, sexually.

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>>36568887
We can fix that.
WRYYY!

>>36568110
A lot of trust issues and paranoia telling me "It won't work out and whenever I do try my suspicions are right

TL;DR I am kind of giving up hope

>>36568110
Long list of minor health defects and below average sexual skills and penis, and an ugly outward appearance and an autistic mind, and no money or desire for a career

>>36568820
I guess my grandparents and parents and me are the only people capable of finding loyal and obedient wives... Strange.

All kidding aside the best thing you can have in a relationship is open communication and trust. Relationships aren't work at all. They just flow naturally

>>36568975
Wow I am legitimately sorry for any person that had to see you

I don't really want any one specific person, but I'm fairly sure I don't have a gf because I'm a fat ugly sperg with acne

>>36569036
>the best thing you can have in a relationship is open communication and trust. Relationships aren't work at all. They just flow naturally
Literally like winning the lottery. I have to put on an exhausting, disgusting act just to have girls notice me.

>>36569041
I know you're on 4chan and trying to find innovative cool bad ass ways to offend people but at least make it so that it actually makes sense and uses waht is in the post you're quoting instead of choosing something nobody's even said anything about and projecting something and hoping it fits the random Anon.
>had to see you
>implying anyone's ever seen me

>>36569355
Maybe you should move. I don't see that kind of thing in the Bible belt. I mean there are still sluts that are not wife material but that's heavily out weighed by women who are well worth your time

>>36568110
She's not real and even if she was she probably wouldn't want me.

>>36568110
>What is your biggest obstacle to having a romantic relationship with someone you truly want?
I'm an ugly neet that they wouldn't want. I realize this and understand why they don't want me.

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>>36568110
My biggest obstacle? That would clearly be myself, I have no one else to blame. This also means that the ability to change my fate lies with me as well...

>>36568110
im ugly and post on an african american church hymns facebook group

>>36568110
Money. It's always money.

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>>36568110
>What is your biggest obstacle to having a romantic relationship with someone you truly want?
Fear of intimacy and vulnerability. I have no idea how to fix it.

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>>36568110
Because there is no one I truly want.

>>36568110
>someone you truly want
that, probably.
When I meet a girl I'm autistic enough to look for a partner, not for sex.
But most normiegirls are empty shells ready to cook for 'man' and be his sex/birth doll.
I'm probably asking too much by wanting a person that I would love instead of just a girl...
And, of course, that >>36569810

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>>36568110
I'm poor AF, no money to take her out.

>>36568110
She's asian.

I've known her for 4 years and we both like each other and I'm hopefully moving to the city she lives in for uni.

But I am reluctant to get involved because even though I like her, I just can't see myself getting serious with anyone who isn't white.

I want to have kids and I want them to look like me.

I have no social skills and unable to form relationships.

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She doesn't like men.

No girl wants me, and I have no one I want either