What the hell are you supposed to do after a girl agrees to be your gf? Do you automatically become closer to yourselves than to your best friends?
Also, there's the sad fact that you're either going to break up or get married. Doesn't that bug you (if you still haven't lost all hope, that is)?
had a girlfriend for 2 months, still don't fucking know
I don't think she does either
I think she just likes having me buy her little things and holding her hand
we've made plans to get an apartment together near the end of the year
I need serious answers, I will only have one chance to stop being a robot and I can't even decide if it's a good idea.
t. OP
>What the hell are you supposed to do after a girl agrees to be your gf?
There's no hard rules for it anon, the dynamics of every relationship will differ
>Do you automatically become closer to yourselves than to your best friends?
See above, you can if that's what you want to do? But it's down to the people in the relationship
>Also, there's the sad fact that you're either going to break up or get married. Doesn't that bug you (if you still haven't lost all hope, that is)?
When you buy a pet do you just think about the fact that it's going to die one day? Or obsessing over the fact that it'll one day be obsolete when buying a new gaming rig?
the ride is what's important, not the destination
>>36551024
Honestly that sounds extremely awkward. Would you really want to live together with someone you don't even know that well?
You dont ask somebody to be your gf like that. Just hang out a lot and become close and shit then one day be like 'we're a couple, right' or change your relationship status on Normiebook. Hope this answers it
>>36551049
>When you buy a pet do you just think about the fact that it's going to die one day?
Actually... I know I'm going to disappoint you, but the answer is yes. I bought a pet half a year ago and I thought about it dying a lot.
>>36551075
It only answers that it's too hard for me and I should give up the faster, the better. Well, thanks nevertheless.
Fuck, why do I even bother. All this shit only makes me nervous. I wish I didn't feel love or attraction at all so I could stay comfy as a virgin and have no regrets.