I owe /r9k/ an apology. I'd never been totally sold on the

>>36545574
Date your friend, OP, it's the only good path

>>36545574
>>be me at start of uni, age 19
Stop reading here lmao XD

>>36545594
^This. How do you make friends though, anon? I'm literally that autistic.

Do you really not notice a pattern in the guys that got fucked over OP?

>awkward
>weird
>out of shape/unattractive/not masculine
>act feminine

If you act and/or look like a whiny faggot, women have no respect for you. Learn from this. Do not be like those guys. Get out of the anime club, and stop watching anime and doing any other gay shit.

>>36545594
My friend and I used to joke that we'd date if either of us were a girl. Part of me is seriously considering trapping up at this point.

>>36545743
It was literally pure chance. I referenced some memes autistically in a social situation and he picked up on it. Even at an anime club, most people are normalfags who just like SAO and Blue Exorcist. You have to be lucky. Since finishing uni I've made zero friends on my own.

>>36545959
No shit, anon, the Chad vs. cuck dynamic is the point of the story. I just didn't realise how prevalent and merciless it was before encountering it. I'm not giving up my hobbies for girls.

>Is this life from now on?
Yep. You get used to it, and maybe it will even save your ass from becoming the provider when you DO get laid.

Girls in their 20-30s don't care about men for long term relationships, they just want a friend that they can fuck and get free stuff from most of the time.

They're not at the age where they want to settle down. For good reason.

>>36546047
>I'm not giving up my hobbies for girls.

This isn't about just girls. This is literally how others see you as a person. If you're a guy and you're wimpy and out shape along with being awkward you're fucked in every possible way. People won't want to be around you, jobs won't want to hire you, etc etc. You're consciously choosing a life of loneliness.

>>36545574
>join anime society and meet fellow autist
>channer who loves moe anime, immediately my best friend
>very gay friendship between borderline femboys who cuddle and watch Yuru Yuri
I wish I were you

>>36546124
>You should change everything about yourself to conform to society's rigid, narrow view of what is socially acceptable
How about no

>>36546184

Being reasonably social and presentable isn't a rigid view it's just being a functioning human being. Life isn't like your weeb shit where everything works out in the end. This is your last chance to form a circle before everyone starts pairing off and generally not making new friends.

>>36546047
Don't trap up, just have pure boylove.
Get him drunk and confess you fucker.

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>>36546124
I don't really care? I don't announce my hobbies to anyone or wear merch, btw, and I'm pretty well-groomed. I don't really aspire to much, just to be able to play my dumb overwrought Japanese porn games in peace.

>>36546148
Honestly was the best time in my time. He hadn't seen it so we spent a whole Sunday cuddling in his bed watching it. He was really into Type-Moon, which was a big gap in my knowledge at that point, so I read Fate/stay night and Tsukihime and we marathoned the Kara no Kyoukai movies.

>>36546355
He likes traps a lot.

>>36546342
Maybe we do not give a shit about fulfilling your idea of functional

>>36546415
that is too cute. I would seriously pay a million dollars to be you

the anime club at my school is just normans who watch One Piece and tumblrinas who speak only in memes and wear collars

>>36546432

You will when you're out of school and realize you have nothing and nobody. You're exactly like the old, post wall women who used to claim they didn't need a man and when they're older they do anything for male attention.

>>36545574
we told you that women are fucking children who are driven by emotions they can't be trusted to be loyal. also if you study science their is a shit load of evidence that we evolve from a non-monogamous species.

>>36546532
But men don't need women nearly as much as women need men. So your point is pretty shite.

I wouldn't tell your friend about the cheating. Your friend is in a state where it would make him feel bad, and probably ruin some friendships. Meanwhile, the girl was never worth feeling bad about to begin with, she's just some horrible slut. Wait for him to get over the whole thing before breaking any news to him.

>>36546577
>believing this

K E K

men are literally disposable in modern society. pussy is put on a 10 mile high pedestal.

>>36545959
>"hurr durr just be alpha bro"

I know many super chads with a backbone who still get cheated on as well not just limited to whiny faggots.

>>36546124
>>36546532

When the gender revolution happens and chads go extinct and every male becomes a beta/femboy roasties will be eternally btfo and will have to accept feminine men.

>>36546672
This guy is right.
29 here.

It's easiest to get with girls in highschool and harder the older you get.
Sure, women have it worse usually but it's impossible now.

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>>36545574
>I'd rather be a virgin than suffer the humiliation of being so disposable,
The point of being an Alpha is precisely that the woman is the disposable one in the relationship.

If anything you should count yourself lucky not to believe in Disney "love is forever" fantasy anymore.

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>>36546856
>tfw went to private school from 10-12th grade
>only 2 gfs, one of 5 months and one of 1 month
>friendless and moving to another state

People keep telling me it's not too late though.

>>36547058
Just remember, stay alive so you can spite others. That's all I have now.

>>36547058
>dickgirl blacked

yeah, i'm digging it

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>>36546477
Yeah, I still feel lucky to have a friend like this, and I think it boosted my confidence too. Most anime societies are always 95% boring normalfags, but I'd really recommend trying hard to find male company that *gets* all this stuff. I thought I'd never talk to anyone in the real world about my hobbies, and then suddenly I've got a friend talking to me about how much he wants to be a cute 2D middle school girl while we watch SoL anime. It's really special to be able to share those kinds of things.

>>36547033
That's an attitudinal issue, though. I don't want to go through life not trusting any girl ever again. It doesn't help that formalised dating is out the window and most of my normie acquaintances seem to get into relationships through one night stands. What's even the point?

>>36547121
I have an incredibly high tolerance for loneliness and don't mind most of the time. I complain about no gf for a day then forget about it for a few more.

>>36545574
Women like confident and good looking guys and don't like fat and awkward guys. It took you 20 years to realize this? No wonder you're a failure.

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>>36546415
Great taste aside, how do you end up cuddling your friend for a whole day without it turning sexual? How did you not pop a boner or feel his pop against you? You seem mildly attracted if you entertain the idea of trapping so I really struggle to comprehend how nobody got a handy or blowy on that day.

>>36547490
The problem my man, is that one exemple isn't representative of the whole group. You can't just see one event one day and tell that it's always going to happen that way.

You seem laid back enough to make me stop from lurking and actually talk to someone on 4chan. It sure feels bad for your friend, but at least you got to know him.

On that regard... if you truly are his friend, I think you should talk to him about the fact his gf lied to him. A true friend wouldn't lie to one another. No matter the cost.

At least, that's what I, and from what I've seen, what others of value values too. Good luck anon.

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>>36548066
None of the guys in this are fat or even bad-looking except for the guy who I said was fat. In fact I would say my awkward friend is more attractive than the Chad guy, who's really gangly and oddly proportioned. Also, I know a fat normalfag guy who plays American football, smokes weed, etc. who does fine with girls and has an attractive normal gf. It's a cliche, but I feel it's more about being confident and normal rather than just conventionally good-looking.

Anyway, the point wasn't that girls don't like these guys, it's that they'll treat guys they don't like so callously by stringing them along and the guys just keep worshipping them even as they totally screw them over. If they just dated attractive guys it wouldn't be anything special, but this is actively malicious and deceitful behaviour for no purpose except to make themselves feel better. They didn't even pretend to treat these guys in an honest way by rejecting them outright. That's not being selective, it's being cruel.

>>36548180
Probably a combination of shyness and him being in a relationship (which I believed to be serious and reciprocal at the time). Obviously we were both craving something tactile, but I don't know how far either of us would have been willing to take it, especially given how young and honestly quite innocent we were. I did get a boner actually. Don't know if he did, but I p-probably wouldn't say no, if we were ever in that position again, at least.

>>36548699
That's what I have to tell myself, and I hope you're right. People talk about sex realism, but it isn't very real until you experienced it yourself. This has really been weighing on me.

I think you're right re: telling him about his gf. He deserves to know, and I don't think anyone else is in a position to tell him. It's been a few months since I learned all of this, and I've reconnected with him since we're in the same city again, so now is the opportunity. Thanks.

>>36549291
It's not easy. It's never easy. We all come accross hard situations, which we all hate.

But it has to be done. I really wish you the best of luck anon.

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>>36549291
Will you comfort him if he gets sad over his ex when you tell him? Are you going to nurture his dick when he feels under the weather over it? Isn't cheering each other up what good friends are for?

>>36546532
>implying that I don`t have friends
>further implying that those friends don`t think like me
>and further implying I don`t have a job I enjoy
>and thus further implying that I`m a failure in the eyes of some retarded ideal you hold

You can only project this much.

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>>36549574
G-gosh anon, you're getting me all flustered...

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>>36550215
Is that a yes then? I believe in your cuteness anon.

>>36550669
it's a dangerous fantasy, but if the opportunity arose, y-yes

Partly because I know it's a scarily short road for me. I was always the little spoon when we cuddled because I'm only 5'7" and really skinny with delicate features, hands, feet, etc. I've been approached by more than one gay guy thinking I'm a twink.

The real issue here is that you are gay (/possible bi). There are crappy girls and crappy guys. Look at your chad-tier friend. You say he cucked the girl's ex to get her. Not gonna make it.

>>36545574
those people (she who cheated on your friend and the 3rd guy who didn't reject her, or knowing how she is warn the friend) were just pieces of shit
and that fat guy from the club is a cuck

>>36551795
Coyness aside, I'm probably just bi-ish or bicurious or whatever. I like femboys and traps but can't get it up much beyond that. On a visceral level girls are more attractive but male company is usually better and most girls find my looks too feminine so it's a nice fantasy.

He dumped that girl, actually. She was very upset about it, of course, and he picked up a new girl a few weeks later.

>>36545574
turn that gay friendship into a gay relationship

>>36545662
>XD
Fuck off reddit

Chads and mean bitches are evil

What's new?

Don't reveal what she did right away, get him to realize that these are not good people - and that you have his back.

>>36553026
In all fairness, although the Chad guy is selfish and tends to be dishonest for the sake of that self-interest, she's on a whole different level of shittiness. He's very bright and knowledgable, diligent professionally and has a great sense of humour. She's humourless, unpleasant and boring.

>get him to realize that these are not good people
My friend is unsurprisingly very down on himself and low in self-esteem. I've had a lot of fruitless conversations with him trying to make him see himself in a more positive light. I'm not sure he'd come round so easily to this no matter what I said. I'll probably have to tell him straight.

>>36553460
Bro, you have an irl f r i e n d.

Do everything you can for him and don't give up.

>>36554604
>Do everything you can for him and don't give up.
I intend to, but obviously I can't force him to like himself more. I think part of my homoness towards him is that his unhappiness makes me sad and I wish I could play the supportive gf for him. At the least, I want him to find a supportive gf but, y'know, autism.

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>>36555666
Give him the blowjob of his life and suck all his worries away satan. Support him under his desk when he's playing games, support him during his work breaks, support him late at night when it's just the two of you under a starry sky. Be there for your friend and his aching cock dude - that's what friends are for.

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>>36556386
>disillusionment with girls and empathy for my closest friend brings out latent faggotry
>get satan trips
deary me

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>>36557104
Your story is very cute and I most certainly didn't pop several boners imagining the two of you together. I love you and hope you'll get happiness.

>>36549291
>That's not being selective, it's being cruel.
It's not being selective nor cruel, it's just being selfish.

Women get the most benefit by having each of their needs fulfilled by an specialized man. So one man fucks her good, the other is an emotional tampon, and the last one is an ATM, etc.

The only ones being cruel are those who intentionally string along some poor sap with no intention other than prevent him from being with anyone else. But even that is often not cruel, just selfish - they want him friendzoned and pairless so he can be useful.

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>>36557679
Y-you too anon. I most certainly didn't pop any boners either as you described me getting intimate with my very dear friend. I think if I can tell him about all this horrible business, I might see if we can watch some anime together like old times. Wishing you many happy cuddles.

>>36558009
>It's not being selective nor cruel, it's just being selfish.
Those aren't necessarily mutually exclusive, and you don't know this girl either. She was not just selfish. She was cruel. She went out of her way to verbally abuse him to his face and his friends. Bear in mind this guy is borderline depressed with terrible self-esteem. This wasn't 'emotional tampon' in the normal sense, and she never dropped the act, whether he was around or not. I told her about my birthday present for him in a one-on-one conversation and she said 'Aw, isn't it sweet that *someone* cares for him" or something to that effect. If her sadistic behaviour was a put-on, she gave no indication of it.

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>>36558393
I'm so proud of you. Maybe you'll be able to get that boner of yours softly squeezed and petted next time, when the two of you are cuddled up together. Have you both seen san-hai yet? It's the perfect mix of story and very latent romance development, ideal for cuddling and heavy petting among dear friends.

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Suck your friends dick and go gay with him.

Just imagine your tight asshole flexing around his hard cock, as he thrusts deeper into your boy pussy. Imagine feeling his warm cum flood your ass as your body convulses in a euphoric mix of pain and pleasure.

That goes for all you fucking robots, Stop letting Stacy's manipulate you. Go gay and show them how obsolete they are. The Chad's can continue to cuck each other while you guys have fun care free relationships with your gayboys.

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Is this fucking b8, or is this whole fucking board fucking mental. I'm a bit of a new fag but what the fuck is going on this fucking board... Redpilling and circle jerking? Fuck of to reddit? at least that's a circle jerk where there are fucking normies vs a circle jerk with these fucking autists. I honestly don't know fuck this board I'll go with /fit/ because time will pass and I can be a cuck bitch shiter here or get fucking fit and go from manlet to outer bod and get a qt who acutally cares about me. And honestly I do feel a bit sad that you generalize women as a whole maybe you'll find a loving respectable gal. But staying on this board won't really get you anywhere idfk robot life isn't for me later fags

>>36558574
absolutely abhorrent shitpost mate very well done

>>36552158
Btfo newfag