How do you guys get over your oneitis? I have another "hang

>>36526967
Just do what I did OP

>ask her out and make it clear you don't want to be friends
>when she says no just stop hanging out with her

>>36526994
this is pretty good
force her to be direct so you can't perform mental gymnastics to explain why you still have a shot when you really don't
other option is to blow her off and cut all all ALL contact with her

>>36526967

Just say fucking no, you fucking piece of shit.

Okay but really. Cut it out.
Any other advice is superfluous. Just don't go. Learn to say no. You don't need to give an explaination. Girls ain't shit.

>>36527053
What are some signs that you still have a shot vs you will never get her?

My oneitis actually invited me to hang out like out of the blue too, but shes moving out of state in like a month

Do i still have a chance?

>>36527053
When I did it she still lied

>fed me bullshit about how shes broken emotionally and would break my heart
>meanwhile is actively going on dates with other dudes
>implying we didnt have fun times always
>implying I would be this stupid to fall for this
>she had the nerve to ask "but we can still hang out, right"
>I said yes
>I LIED

>>36526994
This. If you are in the "friend zone" with someone it's your own fault for not making your intentions clear

By not having a oneitis, faggot.

>>36527229
My thing is this: Why are girls this naive?

Do they think they're actually fun to hang out with?
Do they think they're funny?
Do they think they're good friends?
Do they think they can do any of this stuff better than a man?

>>36527295
That's the point, they aren't that naive, they know very well they're worthless as friends, especially to a guy.

That's why the keep guys in the friend zone, that kind of "friend" is the closest thing to a friend they can get.

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>>36527340
Sheeeeeeeit. Are girls really gaming on this level?

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I looked her up on social media. She got ugly and lost her best quality, booty. She used to have a big nice soft ass. She remained skinny but her ass got flat.

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>>36526967
She cut all contact with me so I had to get over her. Looking back I'm glad I did cause now I don't have to care about her anymore.

what if my oneitis is a guy

>>36526967
Ok Anon, I've had to do this 4 times so far, so I guess I got some sort of experience.
Basically you have to completely cut her out of your life. Don't fall for the "just friends" meme. Girls always say that because literally nothing changes for them if you guys stay friends. It's you who has to face the fact that she will fuck multiple dudes and you'll never be one of them.
No matter what people say, you're not a bad person for doing this. Just literally stop thinking about her, I can bet she is not thinking about you as much as you think about her.
If you have the same circle of friends, basically interact with them and not with her. Don't talk to her, don't look at her, but don't make it too obvious. It's very hard if you're forced to see her, but you'll go numb after some time and it's gonna be ok.
Be strong Anon, maybe one day we'll find someone to welcome us and all our flaws.

I cut contact and went into total isolation for three years.
Then she ended up working at the gas station right by my house while going to school so, fucking wasted those years I guess.

>>36526967
jesus christ OP is pic related? if it is...damn...that is a god tier azn qt

>>36526967
>Delete all social media, not just her as a friend, but actually remove yourself from facebook and all that jazz
>masturbate regularly to an array of pornstars
>delete her number from your phone, if she makes any effort to contact you just ignore her
>take pleasure in basic shit like music, vidya, and food
>fantasizes about a lot of different woman, but never her.

>>36528289

Give him a brojob