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Are you actually okay with being forever alone?

On one side you despise normie advice meant to help you, yet on the other hand you complain incessantly about your predicament. So what the fuck is it?

>she's out there right now and you've chosen not to look for her
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>>36525951
At this moment I accepted that I'm gonna be alone once my mom dies or thrown into a mental institution.
Probably will kill myself before killing anyone else im fucking crazy brobots there is someone speaking to me inside my brain
Also I love lolis I fucking love them there is no way out for me just live alone forever or kill myself
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>>36526044
At least you have us :^)

orginal comentoo
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>>36525951
i'm not sure desu. i alienated all my irl friends and i feel "nothing" in regards to it. I was never really their friends.

I made a single friend in college but after going out with him last night, i don't really like him either. i guess i just don't like people. i like pussy but women are a nuisance. i think the solution is to immerse yourself in interesting hobbies or create stuff.
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I'm not Chad so I can't "find" her.
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>>36525951
>>she's out there right now and you've chosen not to look for her
I just feel really drained after finding out for sure that I'll never be with her. It'll be a while before another her comes along. If another one does at all.
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>>36526044

>At this moment I accepted that I'm gonna be alone once my mom dies

fuck this feel
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>>36526090
i really can relate to this. The more i get to know people the more i fucking hate them. But i guess i just hate myself whatever that means.

how to start liking people and not hating them 101 pls
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>>36526071
I felt a bit happy with this and that's pathetic
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>>36526187
im gonna go to therapy soon to get a 3rd person perspective or analysis of WHY i am this way. if they see things that i don't than that will possibly provide the urgency/motivation for me to recognize the faultiness of my thinking, and perhaps change it.

g-going on r9k doesn't help either
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>>36526197
happiness is good :)
thats the way of the normies. just be happy. always. ggez
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>>36525951
I'm working on it, Anon.
I will have her, dammit.
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>>36525951
>complain incessantly about your predicament
Not true at all anon. I'm saving up money for an early retirement or to buy a shit load of guns, ammo, supplies, and my own land should shit ever hit the fan, and having some bitch who'll probably cheat on me nagging at me every day sure as fuck won't benefit me in the slightest.
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>>36526259
therapy could be good, unless youre just talking to some stacy retard that doesnt get shit.

what you need is a real friend though
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>>36526313
i refuse to see a female therapist. i'm only willing ot talk to an older guy.
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>>36526294
you sound incredibly retarded my fellow /brobot
have you considered suicide?
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>Are you actually okay with being forever alone?

Yes.
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>>36526327
good luck to you my friend!
dont let him rape u
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I'm not okay with being forever alone but I'm way too ugly, stupid and autistic to change it. I'm a 29 y.o. virgin and nobody will ever want to spend time with me. And that's okay, because I'm fucking worthless.
Is that really so hard to understand?
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>>36525951
>she's out there right now
Having sex with 50 chads. Fucking kill yourself. All I want in this life is a qt anime girl. Something to motivate me to try better. Someone to work for but they're all whores who will just take advantage. I fucking hate this world.
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It's nice to wake up and nothing's been moved or misplaced or "borrowed".

I've had male roommates who were much more considerate than any girl I've ever been with.

Also it's nice not to be gaslit on some cunt's blog spread out over five dissertation-length articles because you wouldn't share your weed with her that one time.

Plus my dog seems more comfortable and happier.

Men are simply resources and stopgaps until the woman can find an upgrade to replace you.
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>>36526259
>paying someone to listen to you
Its so artificial. Therapy is a fucking meme. How many patients of theirs do you think killed themselves.
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>>36526375
Nice 17th century mentality there, m'lord
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>>36525951
>just get humiliated again bro
I'll start looking when it stops being so dangerous to do so.
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>>36526393
>It's nice to wake up and nothing's been moved or misplaced or "borrowed".

Autism confirmed.

Seriously. If that's the first thing that comes to mind.
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I wouldn't say that I've given up on love, but it's that I don't have the drive to pursue or anything. I'll look at girls, think they're cute or whatever, but I won't flirt.

Maybe one day I'll end up with some oneitis kinda junk. That might kickstart something.
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>>36526424
>its 2017!
Its actually been the mentality of every man in every civilization across the earth since the dawn of time until just recently.
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>>36526422
id rather pay someone than an untrained beta faggot like my dad or any of my dipshit friends.
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>>36526489
Fuck off, virgin. Go paint your warhammer.
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>>36526524
>i'm going to go to /r9k/ and call everybody virgins
Why are you here? Stop jerking off your ego. We all know people like you are the biggest scum of this earth. You're worse than us. You're only better than us in physical terms but you still manage to be a worse human.
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>On one side you despise normie advice meant to help you, yet on the other hand you complain incessantly about your predicament.
Do you understand that the world isn't black and white? There is a massive grey area in bewteen those two positions, and that's where most robots are.

There are some things you just can't control. Your social development. Your genetics. Your luck. Your environment growing up.

Most normie advice isn't relevant to anyone but normies. They don't seem to accept that some people just inherently have massive disadvantages, sometimes so many that it's literally impossible to escape.

Some of us cope by complaining; expressing our pain to the world. Some of us keep it bottled up and just accept ourselves for the failures we are. Some of us are in between, grasping onto small slithers of hope for change, no matter how much it hurts. Of those, many will eventually give up. Maybe some will make it. But it won't be because some normie on an anime board told them to be themselves or "just hit the gym bro!"
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>>36526623
Go cry somewhere else, inferior little fag boy.
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>>36525951
>someone for everyone
this is a flat out lie, there are hundreds of millions of excess men in the world
I will probably be an incel forever which sucks but at least I'm not a fag who come to r9k to try to make fun of down-on -their-luck virgins
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>>36526805
whats wrong? Did I hit a nerve?
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>>36525951
>have girlfriend
>have backup girl that is also my ex
>fuck them both stupid on the regular

I WANT TO BE ALONE! if these bitches keep acting crazy, imma ditch them and go gay.

Females arent worth it, but it makes me feel good knowing that i can make another person feel good, emotionally and physically. Now watch me kill myself.
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>>36527279
>this bait post
fuck off from r9k
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>>36526805
>comes to /r9k/ and cries about virgins
>"g-g-go cry somewhere else!"
How does it feel literally being more pathetic than virgins on 4chan?
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>>36527326
iwish it were bait. Having female companions literally makes me want to kill myself. Not a single one of them have i found that i would want to create a child with. Im 27 years old and i will be 50 by the time i can share a drink with my kid and impart my knowledge and wisdom on him on why hes going to need alcohol to make it through life if he decides to engage with females.

FUUUCK
>my mom was 32 when i was 8
>sister is now the age my mom was and she has no kids either not even married or with boyfriend

society has turned to shit and its effects are felt by both men and women. NOBODY wants to start a family anymore. Peoples standards are too high thanks to social media. HOLY FUCK! life is literally not worth living anymore! we are so entitled to perfection that we ourselves become the filth we resent in our search for a partner! This "ME ME ME" ideology has destroyed the organic mating rituals of life.

we have become monkeys slinging shit at eachother and banging on walls and fucking without thinking. I can see this even in my own behavior with my two girls!

THIS IS THE END
/existential crisis
lol just kidding it never ends
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>>36527566
I'm not going to read all that. If I wanted to read a normalfag's thoughts I'd visit /soc/.
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>>36525951
Its not that i hate any advice normies give me, in fact, i'd welcome it with open arms; as long the advice ACTUALLY FUCKING MAKES SENSE.
Most normies just tell losers to "just be yourself", which is completely useless in my case since "myself" is a complete autist, and girls dont really date autists.
Normies also tell us to "just be confident" which is near impossible for the worst of us, considering they were most likely bullied all throughout school. Some even by their own parents. When you've gone through a childhood like that you have learned that you are worth absolutely nothing, which isnt very benificial for that good o'l self esteem.
When autists do manage to be confident, it doesnt change the fact that they are autistic, meaning rather unnatractive, unintelligent, and completely unaware of even the most basic societal norms.

About the complaining part; we only do that toward eachother, here, on r9k, which should be completely acceptable considering this is our "safe haven" and our obvious desire to not be disturbed by "normies" while we browse r9k.

TL;DR: Fuck off.
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>>36527584
thats the sad thing anon. Not even normies are normies at this point. Were all just closet robots with narcissistic personality disorder.
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My personality allows for incredibly autonomy. I can go weeks without seeing another person. Girls are never in my mind before things I actually need like money and food and all that good shit.

I do feel a little bad that I don't have more friends, but given my experiences with friends before, who needs em?
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>>36527612
Just got that advice last week. I'm getting tired of useless advice.
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>>36525951
Yes, but only because I've made an effort to get out of the robot lifestyle and I found out that life is still awful even after you've had sex. The girlfriend meme on /r9k/ is a lie to distract us from the real problem: we are fundamentally broken and no amount of sex will fill the gaping void inside of us.
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>>36525951
Sometimes I feel very lonely and want to go and look for a hiki-neet girl like myself but I remind myself that it's a bad idea. A relationship like that wouldn't work.

I know the normie advice but I don't take it because I don't want to. Therefor my only other option is to accept my station as a volcel because bitching about it won't do anything.

It kinda sucks though because I'm getting close to my 30s and I'm feeling a paternal sort of protection for children and I take that as a sort of biological indicator that I want to be a father. I want to raise children right in defiance of this crazy world. But I don't have the courage to do it.
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My two options are:

>never try. be forever alone save everyone's time

>try. fail over and over and over. embarrass myself. be forever alone, wasted my own time and others'

I will literally never be able to get a girlfriend. there's no point in trying and wasting time.
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>>36525951
The normie advice isn't going to help me.
There is something inherently abnormal about me that makes it impossible for me to connect with the overwhelming majority of other people.

Whoever this girl you're talking about is, if she has any chance of understanding me, she's probably just as incompatible with society as I am, and normie advice isn't going to get me any closer to her.
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>>36526805
Imagine this, you've had a stressfull day at work and have decided to go to bed early. It is 9 P:M when suddenly, you are woken up by a knock on the door. You stumble out of bed to open the door, and when you do so, an unknown man barges into your living room and asks you why you are sleeping at this hour. You explain to the man that you have had a bad day at work and felt quite tired. The man looks at you in astonishment. He tells you that if you really are tired, you should go drink an energy drink or meaby take a cold shower to feel awake again. He also tells you that you should stop feeling sorry for yourself, and refrain from going to bed early when you are tired.
Now it is your turn to be astonished. You explain to the man that this is your home, and as long as both he and you reside in it, he has no right to tell you what is wrong and what is right.
Now the man turns downright furious. He yells at you that you are weak for being tired, and that it is YOU who should leave the house, as the man, in his own opinion, clearly deserves the house more since he has had a less stressfull day.
You feel a slight hint of pity for the obviously mentally challanged man as you push him outside you house and look the door behind him. You go back to bed, confused by the encounter but also slightly amused.

Spoiler Alert: You are the unknown man in this situation, and this is our perspective simplified.
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>>36525951
I'm ugly and was cucked at birth by having my foreskin removed so no girl will ever love me.
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>normie advice meant to help you

normie advice isn't meant to help you, it's to make the normie get a slight ego boost

"be yourself" and "plenty of fish" isn't exactly sage advice anyway
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>>36525951
She's not out there OP. Shes a drawn character who isn't real.
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>>36525951
Yes, I'm okay being foever alone.
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I'm okay being alone 99% of the time. It can be difficult stomaching the last 1%
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>>36526090
>i like pussy but women are a nuisance.

At least you had pussy anon.
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>>36525951

i mean, part of me doesn't want to be forever alone forever.

but I keep getting matched with things like this.

and I don't know if I can really deal with this anymore.

(I sent her: "Hey babe, looking for some meat, wanna fuck?")
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>>36528669
her pics
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Have autism so I prefer to be alone.
I don't have friends so I'm pretty much living the nightmare already.

>she's out there
No, she's not. She doesn't exist.
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>>36528716
god she is really fat and ugly
dont do it
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>>36525951
I want to believe I'll be okay with it, but there are times when I really just want someone to lie down and watch shows with. Alongside hugs, kisses, and cuddles.
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>>36525951
With drugs, sure.
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>>36528146
I've heard that girls in the UK love the circumcision penises.
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>>36528825
this is all i want in life.

original
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>>36527948
someone PLEASE give me (you)s. i spent 20 minutes writing that shit and i havent yet gotten my /daily dose/ yet
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>>36528783
I mean, I wasn't going to.

I'm mostly comparing her to shrek, being sarcastic and doing everything she said not to do.
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>>36527948
>>36528907
Just for (you) anon. Original desu ne~
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>>36528907
i want to be a nice guy so here's a (you)

still not reading your post, tho.
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>>36526422
It's not like you're talking to anyone though, you're talking to someone who has knowledge on mental disorders and how to help cope with them. As long as you're talking to a decent one what's the problem?
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>>36528944
>>36528956
Thanks bois :^)
appreciate it
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>>36528669
why do women, especially ugly ones, always do the humble brag? Do they not realise everyone can see what they're doing when they write something like "OMG why is everyone saying I'm so attractive it's so annoying"
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>>36528891
Most girls do for the fact that it increases their pleasure. Having sagging skin on a dildo is something they don't by, I've noticed. They'd only be bothered by the idea that a man enjoys it less, so they'd be bothered that you're not as into it. But then again, they're already bothered by men orgasming too fast, so yeah. Cut is better.
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>>36528907
>took him 20 mintues to type that
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> tfw shop chief just put me on swing shift (4PM - 11PM)

I just met a girl goddamn it. I will never get a fucking girlfriend.
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>>36527948
Here's a (you), for the effort. Good post!
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I would take it if it comes my way (it won't), but it takes too much effort to get girls.
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>>36525951
>you've chosen not to look for her
How exactly would you advise I look for her? Really, tell me a method and I will attempt it.
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>>36529049
I have a shit imagination, but thanks anyway. Every (you) counts!
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>>36529227
>be moderately attractive
>have a good personality
>be interesting
else, you'll never find the one you truly want to be with
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>>36529281
Those are qualities That's not looking. I could satisfy all of those but it would do no good sitting in my mom's basement. How do I LOOK for her, not qualify for her.
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had a gf for years
it's cool for a bit but then like everything else in life you get used to it

not worth the investment
i value freedom above all else, i hate being obligated to other people
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>>36527948
Nice post, can i copy it and paste it later? if you don't mind.
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>>36527948
This was good up until >>36528907
I sincerely hope that was another anon trying to make you look like an ass.
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I was thoroughly amused.

Heres a (you)

>>36527948
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>>36525951
I am okay with waiting on gynoids, because navigating a real relationship seems too impossible now. I plan on living forever and one love will not last for eternity anyways.
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>>36529428
This. I can relate 100% brother
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>>36526327
>>36526357
>>36526422
>>36526516
>>36529002
Both of my therapists have been essentially devil's advocates for me. I bounce my thoughts off of them, they give me battle plans, and let me know if I'm about to fuck up. I can't stress enough how much having a paid, professional, and experience neutral viewpoint on my issues has helped me. Find one with a good reputation, and go to them.
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I'm looking for her

Even if I'll have been alone my entire life when I die

I accept it

This is the world we deserve, and there are people who deserve it less than me who are worse off
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>>36526119
>go to mall
>look at all the couples, old and young
>realize that 1/50 of them are Chad
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>>36526644
>"just hit the gym bro!"

You should though. Forget doing it to get a girlfriend. Just do it for the massive dopamine rush you get when you're done. It's like taking a fucking zoloft but better.
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>>36528635
That fucking hurt to read. Fuck me.
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>>36525951
I'm planning on getting a decent job and getting a wife who wants to have a large family. If at some point this becomes an impossibility for me, I'll either an hero, or live a hedonistic life of pleasure.
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Yea, for the moment. My family and few friends are really tight-knit so its not like I am lonely or anything.
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