Let's talk about femdom /r9k/. >How long have you had

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>>36472321
O-okay anon...what did you mean by this?

>>36472303
I've had it since puberty, I think it might be genetic for me.
I like it now because if I'm tired after a long day but want sex, I can take a more passive role by being submissive.
I have faith that I will someday find a 3D girl who likes femdom
Normies can do what they want, they might change the definition of the word but they wont change what we want to do. We can just make a new word for that if we need to. I'd rather they make their own though.
Insecure people don't like it because it takes confidence to admit that your a submissive male or to take a dominant role as a female.

>>36472482
>I think it might be genetic for me.
I don't think that's possible, you must have had SOME event or environment that brought it out
>I like it now because if I'm tired after a long day but want sex, I can take a more passive role by being submissive.
That's actually really good reason for liking it
>I have faith that I will someday find a 3D girl who likes femdom
You won't find one, anon. I'm sorry, but it's just not in their genes to be dominant; you can't fight nature.

I like femdom because I'm a huge fucking loser and a beta

the only way I ever see myself being in a relationship is if an assertive dominant girl makes it happen

I'm not into weird stuff like BDSM or mommyshit, I would just need someone who is assertive and naturally takes the lead

>>36472303
If I get into femdom, can I get a gf who is okay leading conversations and initiating moves?

All I have to do is get abused and raped by her daily... I guess it's better than loneliness

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>>36472664
What if you somehow become a successful alpha?

>>36472708
I don't see why not.

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I'm just into being submissive in general.

>>36472653
>>36472303
3D femdom here. Shove a stick up your ass, disbelievers.

>>36472653
>You won't find one, anon. I'm sorry, but it's just not in their genes to be dominant; you can't fight nature.
I haven't had a girl tell me she's dominant in person, but back when I used tumblr for porn, I found a shitton of femdom blogs, some of which where run by girls. some posted pics of themselves a couple times, can confirm they had vaginas. I think girl that are into this are extremely rare, but I swear to god I will track one down and beg her to let me be her slave if my only other option is to die never having tried femdom with a 3D.

>>36472794
>What if you somehow become a successful alpha?
it's not even feasible to think about

but I would still want a confident self-sufficient woman I think, I could never go for that daddy-daughter play it's disgusting

>>36472303
I think it's just upbringing, from ages like 4yrs old to 18, a large part of life was being bossed around by women. The majority of teachers elementary to high school were female. Also there's a bit of influence from whatever media you consumed, if you look back at kid shows. Ed Ed N eddy for a possible example.

>>36472812
Can you please shove it there for me mommy

>>36472812
Not necessarily doubting you, but is there any way you can prove this? Not just timestamp with a pic of you to prove that you're female, but something that proves you're female and like femdom.

>>36472303
holy shit ayase really is best girl

>>36472303

>How long have you had the fetish
Don't really know, from age 13/14 maybe? Not hardcore until around 16 or so though.

>How do you think you got it
I've always had a foot fetish, so it started with that, but then I got into anime, and that only made things worse. I swear, the fucking japs introduced me to nearly every fetish I have.

>Why do you like it now
Because I like BDSM and I'm a switch. I like the idea of mutual domination. Sometimes I just don't really want to do any of the work, y'know? I dunno man, I'm kind of a degenerate.

>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
I mean, is it really? Why? I guess there's the whole not being able to find a gf thing. So yeah, I just get off to the idea. But I definitely imagine chicks dominating me and shit like that.

>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
I mean, that happens to pretty much every fetish. There's different levels of the fetish. I don't really care what normies do tbqh.

>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
Because they're cucks. A relationship is about give and take. Anyone who can't accept that is inherently insecure about something, guaranteed.

>>36472812
I'd be down for this if you did it for me.

>>36472843
Oh and I want to add on: what I enjoy in porn and imagination has no reflection on what I like in real life. In actual sex and relationships I'm naturally l dominant (I think all guys are) and the only time I like to be passive is if I'm letting her ride my dick

>>36472843
I'm not convinced that this causes the fetish.
I've seen more severely incompetent female leaders than half-competent ones, but I'm still obsessed with femdom.

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I really, really, really want a girl to sit on my face. But I'm a KHHV. I'll probably just pay for a fetish escort eventually and let her beat the daylights out of me.

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>>36472812
>larping

>>36472822
If that's what you truly wish for then keep fighting and I hope you find her one day. Alternatively, hope that heaven is real and Jesus lets you live the rest of eternity as a cute girl's slave. I just want you to be happy anon.

>>36472824
> I could never go for that daddy-daughter play it's disgusting
Agreed, that and choking and rape fantasies are the most boring normie tier shit ever.

>>36472843
The Kanker sisters made me feel funny as a kid.

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>>36472921
Really anon? Would you want a girl to overpower you in wrestling, and then sit her sweaty ass on your face while she jacks you off?

>>36472303
>>How long have you had the fetish
Many years now
>>How do you think you got it
From being more of a submissive, beta male.
>>Why do you like it now
It's one of the few ways I can seem useful and please them
>>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
Yes
>>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
Not normalize but that's the only way you will see females doing it
>>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
They have a fragile masculinity

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I think this explains it well

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>>36472653
>Doesn't think it's possible to be into femdom genetically

>Says women are genetically submissive

>>36472903
Yeah, not saying they're good leaders, just that I was always being told
What to do, all
Through childhood and teenage years while developing mentally and sexually, no surprise that it impacted my sexual tastes if only slightly.

>>36472921
It looks nice in porn but I have no desire for such a thing irl, the idea actually kinda grosses me out. Shit comes out of there, and besides you wouldn't be able to see anything and I'm very visual, I like to just bend a girl over from behind and pull her hair and shit, idk. Maybe with a really hot girl I could be convinced, but I think naturally sex works best with the female being submissive, and even though for guys they might be into that femdom shit, most girls would be either grossed by it at worst or maybe they'd tolerate it but be bored of it at best, and I don't see any pleasure out of having sex if she's gonna be bored or annoyed.

>>36473142
Yes, certain traits of humans are simply manifestations of genetic instincts. You cannot be genetically "funny" or "nice" but all men are genetically dominant to an extent and females are genetically submissive to an extent. They are wired into your genes as a species.

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>How long have you had the fetish
3-4 years but probably longer
>How do you think you got it
By reading pic related doujin of Kurumi Tokisaki, gave me a fetish for feet in pantyhose, can't stand feet without them
>Why do you like it now
I like the idea of Kurumi dominating me making me do what she wants and i have no choice, also i keep reading femdom doujins and find them hot
>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
Yeah, the only way I'd find 3d femdom is through prostitution and i don't want that cause i wanna lose my virginity to someone i love
>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
I haven't heard any normies talk about it
>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
They're fags? I dunno

>>36473291
You have great taste, anon. oregano

>>36472303
I quite enjoy the fantasy of it, but it feels like a chore in 3D. I feel like I'd get bored really quickly.

>Initially don't want to be into femdom
>But it always makes me cum buckets; 2d femdom just gives me uncontrollable urges and feelings
>Started to slowly submit to the pleasure of being controlled by a female
>Now the idea of 2d femdom is really all I jack off to and I fantasize about submitting entirely to females
It just feels too good. Deep inside me there's almost like this natural instinct to submit to them that's been hidden due to a lifetime in our spoiled society.

>Porn everywhere
>Masturbate whenever you want
>No challenges
>Drugs
>Food, warmth, technology

But all that combined with the degeneracy of our society and our women (Shit women, whores, disgusting personalities/acts) and I'm just a very unsatisfied frustrated male, regardless. 2d femdom portrays the ideal female image that not only do I crave for (As it's absent in our world; 3d women are complete trash), but also what I would submit for.

I guess that inhibits itself in the form of my erections.

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>>36472303

I've had it for as long as I can remember

I think it stems from the feeling that always being in control is boring, and having a woman take control would be exciting. I also like the idea of being wanted.

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>KNOCKED UP MOMMY GF
WHAT DO

>>36474250
Ride it out till she gives birth and starts lactating.

Then get breastfed bro. I'd fucking love to drink milk straight from her tit.

>>36474299
but then we have to deal with the child and Im brat enough as it is

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>>36472653
>I don't think that's possible, you must have had SOME event or environment that brought it out
You can't really know that. I've had a foot fetish since I was very very young. I probably always had it. Not everything is about conditioning. Genetics are responsible for more things than we'd like.

>>36472822
>I found a shitton of femdom blogs, some of which where run by girls.
They do it for money and attention. They don't actually get off to it.

>>36472303
>>How long have you had the fetish
Forever. Since I was old enough to think about sex
>>How do you think you got it
Don't know. I don't have some well defined moment that I can point to.
>>Why do you like it now
I don't like taking charge, I like pleasing others and being told what to do.
>>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
Yeah. Some things are best left as fantasies anyway.
>>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
I don't know what normies think about anything
>>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
It's the internet. People will shit on everything. Also, it's the opposite of how a man should act.

I only like gentle femdom because I have an oedipus complex and desperately need motherly affection and discipline.

>>36474334
Take responsibility for your actions you fucking normie.

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>>36472303
>>How long have you had the fetish
since I've got consciousness
>>How do you think you got it
I was born with it, nothing happened in my childhood, no special/fucked up relationship with my parents
>>Why do you like it now
I don't know, I'm wired that way
>>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
yes, I even have a sub gf, and we have a normal maledom sexual life, but I still fap to femdom on a daily basis, she doesn't know
>>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
I don't know, didn't notice anything like that, I don't care
>>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
everyone's insecure, but not everyone hateful

pls respond

>>36474237
>I think it stems from the feeling that always being in control is boring, and having a woman take control would be exciting. I also like the idea of being wanted.
this

fucking this

you fucking nailed it

>>36474432
>yes, I even have a sub gf, and we have a normal maledom sexual life, but I still fap to femdom on a daily basis, she doesn't know
God that sounds awful, imagine if she found out her bf has been lying to her for years about the cruel reality that she doesn't please him.

>>36474334
>>36474250
Your gf will become double mommy because of the baby

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>How long have you had the fetish
5 or 6 years or so. I stumbled upon a Amy Liu CEI vid where she humiliates you for cumming on your face. Still the best CEI vid I've ever seen.

>How do you think you got it
Single parent family. Worship my mother (not in a sexual way). I imagine it somehow stems from that.

>Why do you like it now
I don't. I wish i could get rid of it. But any time I get super horny, it's back to watching humiliating JOI/CEI vids.

>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible, do you just simply pleasure yourself to the idea as a sexual thought rather than act?
I watch JOI/CEI vids and imagine. I especially like pegging JOI vids so I can imagine the chick is fucking me in the ass.

>Do you feel that normies are starting to normalize it and deconstructing the fetish to shitty light tease roleplay with chad?
Sure, I guess.

>Why are people hateful towards the fetish so insecure?
They should be hateful towards it. It's disgusting and degenerate... but I can't kick the habit.

>With knowledge that 3d femdom is completely and utterly impossible

If it was impossible, this board wouldn't exist. Femdom can exist in a number of different ways. Physically it's more about height, age and experience, but in social contexts women have more intrinsic value as human beings than guys. You also have the "alpha male" crowd who let themselves be defined with other people, the backbone of which are women.

But in practice, yes femdom is completely possible. It's just that you don't see it happen outside closed doors since most guys in hetero relationships are taller and usually older than their girlfriends, so male dominance happens more naturally since he has the bigger stats. But can anyone imagine a 15-year-old 5'6 skeleton dominating a 25-year-old 5'11 athletic girl?

Another thing to consider is that dominant and submissive roles are only preferences that won't matter in certain matchups. A short guy will more than likely be sub to a taller girl who in turn will be sub to an even taller guy who dominates them both. Sex doesn't matter - size does.

>>36472303
I hate it but I can't stop fapping. I just want a girl sit on my face.

God I hate myself

>>36474636

I'm 6'4" and I've been longing for a femdom relationship for my whole life.

Just my personal anecdote

I've met two women in my life that were dominant, one when I was young and one a little later. The first one was Asian and worked at a massage parlor, she didn't speak a lick off English but we didn't need words after the first time she slapped my dick and sat on my face. I didn't even have to pay after the first time, she would say "no money" and I'd come early so I'd be her first of the day.

Her pussy smelled and tasted like sushi,asshole was pleasantly tart. Getting my dick abused while she ground her ass on my face is something I'll never forget.

The second was a random stripper that wasn't afraid of me being a tall black guy and noticed how much I liked her ass,then kept "making" me kiss it. I didn't pay her either, just gave her a few xanax and got a handjob plus some assplay.

They're out there!

Post your dick and I'll bully it for you, losers.

im a shy virgin someone pls femdom me

>>36474737
But you're a man anon, why would I do that?

>>36474636
>But can anyone imagine a 15-year-old 5'6 skeleton dominating a 25-year-old 5'11 athletic girl?
that pairing is ridiculous in the first place in any context

>>36474636
>>36474730
can confirm, 6'4'' anon has a point. I my self am 6'2'' and /fit, and I'm also into femdom. I wouldn't say no to doing it with a girl taller than me, but being dominated by a shorter girl just makes it hotter for me; she's more likely to resort to tying me up.

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>>36474432
Geez man, talk to her about it, you have sexual needs too, she doesnt have to do it all the time, maybe just two days in a week or some shit
Seriously dude, dont be afraid, she will probably understand if she is not a selfish person

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>tfw carnivore monstergirls will never chase you down to have their way with you

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>in public
>see a cute thicc girl
>she's taller than me
>nervous sweating

>look down
>she's wearing flats
>sweating intensifies

Why can't I have normal sexual tastes? I'm a KHV, I don't need to limit my opportunities even more. I don't have the social capital to afford being picky.

>>36475238
she is way to submissive
I don't actually want to do anything femdom with her
it just wouldn't work
there is no point asking her as Im not aroused by the thought of her "dominating" me, I wouldnt even let her

>>36475575
>carnivores
https://exhentai.org/g/773802/a1b4233837/

>>36472303
Cant remember when it started and why
And I can tell you its not impossible because an experience of something akin to 3d femdom happened to me

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>>36476070
nice
>tfw you will never have something like that

I want to find a girl who will fuck me in the ass, but that's not exactly something you bring up when talking to anyone.

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>tfw you will never be killed by a female serial killer as you reach climax

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>>36476619
I read some testimonials from guys who were pegged, the vast majority consensus is that the pleasure of getting your prostate rammed is enough to make you ahegao and have a earth shattering orgasm; I want this so bad.

>>36476924
That actually sounds pretty hot.

>>36472921
Femdom is a meme outside of paying for it, women hate being in control