How do you build a social life when you have no friends and no girlfriend?
I've been to a few meetups (clubs, volunteering, even a church) but it felt awkward, like I didn't fit in, or the others were much older than me. So didn't get to know anyone.
I've met a few people through the internet, but they showed no interest in meeting again. Even if they had I'm not sure what I would do with them.
Also tried online dating but it seems almost impossible to get even one woman to meet for a coffee.
>How do you build a social life when you have no friends and no girlfriend?
You don't. You are doomed to be forever alone if you end up in this situation.
>>36464677
Do you work or go to school? If so, what is the reason you haven't made contact with anyone in any of those places?
>>36464677
>meet strangers
>do small talk
>find person you seem to vibe well with
>ask them for contact info and do stuff together until you become friends or find out that you don't "click" after all
>repeat with other people
Try asking the friendly people at >>>/adv/
>>36464706
School. I don't know why, have worked with others on projects and such but it never lead to friendship.
I use MMO's and interpals.
it isn't very effective
>>36464765
Well, one of you faggots got to initiate things. If the others don't do it, then it's on you to do it.
Meetup.com is decent for being aware of events near you. Just pick some which are relevant to your interests.
>>36464729
>>meet strangers
where