>it's okay, i don't want a girlfriend anyway >all

>>36463293
How old are you and which one are you, too skinny or too fat?

>>36463352
just hit 22, anon

i'm in the middle. Neither skinny or fat. I exercise on and off and I try to watch what I eat.

>>36463389
Strange... usually if you can't get a gf as a male in your early twenties, it is because you're either too skinny or too fat.

>>36463406
I suppose the truth is I'm ugly, and I make no effort to get one. I'm afraid of rejection and being cheated on. I'm very insecure, but also prideful- I would feel so humiliated and it terrifies me.

>>36463451
>I would feel so humiliated and it terrifies me

Learning how to deal with this shit is important for guys, anon. You can read a lot about it, some people might even give you good advice. But in the end it will come down to simple trial and error for you if you really want to become better at social interaction, which is paramount for getting a gf.

>marriage/kids is a waste of money, you'll just get divorced
>i'm probably too boring for girls anyway, i don't think i'd get along with any so what's the point
>i'll just bother her with my autism/weirdness, her family won't like me, nor will her friends
These are some of the actual, legitimate reasons I have. Although I don't want kids at all, which makes it even more pointless to date anyone.

I like the fantasy of having a girlfriend, but the real thing would never have even a theoretical chance of working.

>>36463488
I feel like I am adequate socially. I had one before, but my paranoia was my downfall, and it lasted a month. In senior high school, I was weird but had friends and I could speak aloud.

I'm still frightened though. I don't know where to meet girls either