How do I get over hating my parents?
I;m 24 and a complete mess
They didn't abuse me but they didn't give a shit about me either. I was neglected, I don't feel any emotional connection to my family at all, except bitter resentment and pity
I'm 23 and in a similar position. I obtained the right amount of love/money/attention from them. But I'm an emotionless being and have not spoken to my family except for my man in over 2 years. It bothers me not
>>36447257
>Man
Meant to say Nan there. Not gay here
>>36447257
but I didn;t obtain the right amount of money/love/attention, thats; why I resent them
>>36446522
Pity
>"sympathetic or kindly sorrow evoked by the suffering, distress, or misfortune of another, often leading one to give relief or aid or to show mercy"
>tfw you were given a home, food, and "support" but no guidance, direction, or even just money
I'm in one of those positions where the glass is half full and I feel greedy asking for more
I got over it by cutting contact and ignoring my mom's bullshit. I saw her last month and the amount of bullshit i was subjected to just in my short visit would be enough to drive me insane if still cared about her. I was there to see my grandma and my little brothers and she still managed to inject herself into that as much as possible. Funny enough, at first she groveled for my attention but as soon as i gave her any she turned right back into the cunt i know her as, acting like i owe her something.
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>>36446522
No, no, you guys are too naive. Giving food, shelter, not abusing, that's what people do to pets. We are not pets, we are people. They neglected us and that's a fact.
>>36449224
Yeah but I hate thinking life screwed me over since it means it's out of my control. You make a good point though. We really are our parents' children and that's all we'll ever be.