>getting food with a girl
>she shows up, says she's just going to get the food and eat in her room because she's tired from staying up all night for an essay
>small talk for like an hour, line was long as fuck
>get the food, go grab some boba tea at some place, and then she leaves
not sure what to feel. what should I feel?
It sounds like you feel disappointed.
I'd feel disappointed.
Granted, tvs and movies have indocrined me to expect every interaction with a qt girl to be a magical event where everything just clicks and we fall madly in love after a night of adventure and hijynx.
Unfortunately, despite realizing I've been brainwashed, I can't figure out how to fight it and accept reality without disappointment.
>>36445791
yeah, I guess that describes it
Instead of just eating together she walked 5 blocks back to her place. I understand she was dead and tired but c'mon...
>>36445673
You can feel disappointed, anon. Thats fine. But also, its not the end of the world. sometimes shit comes up and fucks up plans. its a bummer, but it happens.
Reschedule. If she flakes again stop trying and let her reach out next. She'll have to show that she respects you and your time.
>>36445673
>small talk for like an hour
How the fuck do you do that?
>>36445882
I don't know, we talked about school and some other random stuff. it wasn't like a deep conversation or anything