>Talking to new person I met on steam
>We're getting along well
>Suddenly stop talking for hours
>This continues for days
Why do all of you do this? It hurts so much when we could have been close friends
>>36432640
>talking to someone on steam
>we get along well
>have to go to bed, say goodnight
>wake up next morning
>don't have the courage to say hello
>they don't try to say anything to me
>never speak again for months
they're still on my friends list
i don't know if they didn't like me or if it was just me being a sperg and i was supposed to say something back
they seemed so nice but i'm still scared
>>36432770
In my experiences, its the second. It feels very bad when I try to talk to someone and they never chat me back. Please don't be scared otherwise people like me think you hate me.
>>36432799
but they have so many friends now.
i probably matter nothing to them.
>>36432835
Then remove them, but I think you should give them another chance please. You might matter to them more than you think and even if notyou matter to me anon
>>36432858
you're right
maybe i could at least try.
thanks anon.
>>36432907
You are very welcome anon, do your best out there okay?
>>36432640
I'm not the anon you're talking about but I've done this before
I'm going to pretend you're one of them. I'm sorry anon, you seemed like a decent person but I just can't connect with people and I've found that alcohol numbs the pain quicker
>>36432955
You did connect to me anon. We were speaking so well and things were going great. I cannot comprehend why you stopped talking to me. If you do not wish to speak to me why can you not say so?
>add someone
>not talk for a few days because nothing to say
get some conversation going and itsa fine
>>36432995
> I cannot comprehend why you stopped talking to me.
Me neither. Talking to you was easy and fun. But for some reason I always step back inside my little box, and wait until I'm all alone. I guess it's the only way I'll ever feel safe
>>36433066
I could have made you feel safe. I would do anything for you to trust me and be my friend. It's all I ask for and I don't have a time expectation either. I will never and would never give up on you, but you gave up on me in a day
steamcommunity.com/id/cockwork
add me up peoples
>>36433150
Yes I did. You were wrong to hold me in such high esteem.
>>36433196
You could have been different though. We could have made this work had you tried with me
>>36433297
No, I couldn't have been different. Far as I could tell, you're great, but I am what I am.
>>36433381
If i'm so great, why won't you be my friend? I'm not great if I can't keep someone around who I had such a good time with.
>>36433400
It's simple really. No amount of greatness can bring the dead back to life. I saw your message and I tried to say hello back, but the anxiety threw me off and all I could do was go back to bed and drug myself into dreamless sleep. The next day I was back to normal, fooling myself that I was ok with having no friends. That I could just get through college without ever initiating friendly conversation with anyone.
This is the way I am. And sometimes it hurts but I know I'll make it.
>>36432640
hey i can talk with you, where are you from and how old are you?
my e-gf broke up with me some days ago and now i don't have anyone to talk with at all
it's so fucked how she just suddenly stopped liking me...
>>36433637
When females suddenly stop liking you it's obvious they've moved on, sadly anon. I'm bored though and need someone to talk to.
>>36433674
i know but it's weird, at one day she was like being super clingy saying that she loves me and then suddenly she doesn't want to talk with me ever again, i know that it happens, but it's so like wtf it's completely irrational, and non sense.
>>36433722
Nice dubs friend, but I know the feeling. A day ago the girl I'm close with tells me I'm an important part of her life, the next day she's dry texting back to back and closing herself out and I want to connect so bad and know what's on her mind. Sometimes the best thing you can do is pray about it you know?
steamcommunity.com/id/tfwnoTomokobf
cebrz.tumblr.com
OP you are a piece of shit
>>36432640
Does your name start with aneby any chance, anon?
>>36433742
this makes me give up on woman, i actually had already given up before meeting her on a forum, finding her was like winning on a lottery, and i'm pretty sure that she started liking me before i started liking her, it was so good while it lasted.
i still have some pictures of her, and a comment on my steam profile, but, i think i should delete everything, but i cant.
just to know that there's someone that really cares about you adsjlffflsa
she didn't even said anything, she just disappeared for 1 month until i started sending messages on that forum, like what the fuck, she would just never talk with me again, how can someone do that, specially with someone that you have a relationship with like wtf.
>>36433637
I remember you, but I could swear you were a Chaika poster.
>>36433887
what do you mean with you remember me?
and i'm not an avatarfag
>>36433947
I remember you talking about how she was ghosting you for days and posting with an alt account on the forums. I also remember your steam profileLuft, was it? Fine, you're not an avatar fag, but you really like to post specific anime characters.Green is best girl, anyways..
>>36434024
No I didn't post my profile and i'm not ''luft''
i don't even watch much animes i just save the pics posted here, i dropped k on on like the 3rd episode, but i watched re zero recently
>>36433821
I know what you mean, females are tricky as shit and always looking for the dick or the next person that can give them more than they have. I don't want to suggest sleeping around but take some time to clear your mind and let your feelings air out. I know it's hard to let go of things, but if she left you may as well delete everything. Some people figure "they'll live, they were just one person anyway" but in reality things are deeper than that.
>>36434139
well i knew that it would happen but it was weird because i'm pretty sure that she didn't found anyone else, i think that she's alone :/
she used to say that i'm the only male that she talks with other than her brother, and also that she is fine with not having anyone to talk, so I think she is just shitposting without having any contact with anyone else outside her family.
>>36434065
Got you mixed up, my bad.I didn't like k-on either. Re zero was okay at best.
>>36434186
you didn't got me mixed up
>>36434179
She really is, a lot of the time girls will lie about having dudes in their life because often it'll make the guy of her interest feel uneasy or want to skip talking to her before they get caught up in bullshit
Sometimes you gotta keep note of the smallest of signals because it may save you valuable time and emotion. I'm pretty sure dating and finding true happiness is a meme at this point, I kind of want to try fucking around with multiple females but at the same time I want to give shit another go
>>36434225
So I was half right.
>>36432640
tfw i made a nice friend who was verykind to me but then after a few weels he said some cryptic things that confused and scared me
when i asked what he meant he removed me
>>36434496
And then you made your profile private.
>nice to everyone I talk to online, well mannered with everyone
>they all treat me like I've done something wrong to them
>>36434186
also, re zero was fine other than episode 18, and other shits that the MC did, i'm still angery at subaru reee
>>36434238
dude she had no friends or anyone, not even women friends lol, she was neet at the time
>>36434516
i actually made it private before that because of someone being mean to me, but i don't regret doing it since i was anxious and scared
is it bad to do that ?
>>36434496
Ohyes that's classic thomas tomato who pretends to be your friend and sends you keyloggers or other bad stuff
>>36434496
Did this person had a stolen account and really liked half life ? I know who it might be
Also that's why you never add somebody from r9k
>>36435759I will never not be sad that every single 'girl' I meet on Steam is really just a guy with identity issues. I mean origianardo
>>36435852
wait huh? it wasn't like that, and he never sent/linked any files past a youtube link once to a song thing
also when he removed me he removed i think 5-7 other people from his list too..
now you're making me paranoid
>>36435910
no he never played any games really and his account seemed fine, see my reply here to the other anon he purged his friendlist when he removed me
>>36435920
are you the one who removed me ? if so i guess i have bad character judgement (as always)
>>36432640
>playing Rocket league
>find nice guy, add him on steam and we play for like an hour or two
>we do well, wrecking everybody and ranking up
>I have to go sleep, say goodbye
>next morning I don't find him on my friends list
>hmm that's weird
>go to his steam profile and try to add him back again
>he blocked me for no reason
:(
>>36435997
>are you the one who removed me ? if so i guess i have bad character judgement (as always)
No, I'm just spewing out my general disappointment. It's really hard to find an actual female you connect with online without them turning out to be a dude.
I have a steamfriend, and he's a really good guy, to my knowledge. He even started to like female feet.
But a month ago or so, he told me he'll go offline for several weeks. I saw him online several times, but respected his privacy. A week earlier, we made contact again, and he said he'll go offline again.
I asked him if he wants to stop talking with me, because I am clingy and a bother who whines all the time, but he said it's not about that and everything's OK.
Maybe he thinks he's unworthy to me? Or maybe I'm not needed anymore, since he sometimes plays games on steam cooperatively with someone else?
I don't know what to think.
>>36436019
oh, i see. i was confused since i thought you were talking about me and i never declared my gender outright to this guy before adding him
>>36436022
>He even started to like female feet.
In what way is that statement relevant
>>36436050
I mean, it could apply to you, I don't know you. If it does, don't do that.It hurts.
>>36436070
i don't do that, i have an e-bf anyhow and was solely looking a while back for friends to play games with, since i always play on my own (if not with the bf);
>>36436066
Mutual fetishes unite people.
>>36433743
What happened to the whole "you ain't see me anymore, I'm going to prison for being gay" thing?
man modern steam users are fucked up
look learn to communicate better.
don't argue just do it.
>>36432640
when you're so self conscious you feel rejected even by internet people
anime posters man
>>36436253
Im in a mental ward and allowed to use my phone