Why dont you just talk to her? she's waiting for a

>>36373398
Those guys are qts desu I'd like to be spitroasted by them

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>>36373463
>bacne
>qt

Threads like this only exist to make robots feel worse about themselves. This is your daily reminder that r9k is not a support board for people like you to gather and talk about your problems. Instead it's a place where sick fucks like OP try to make you feel worse by juxtaposing porn pictures with things you feel insecure about. I'm not saying you shouldn't come here but you should always be aware of who you are talking to and what their motives are.

Fuck you OP. I hate you with a burning passion and hope you fail at all you do and suffer as you finally die.

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>>36373517
>porn
nigga this shit actually happens in college

if youd talk to women youd watch them be attracted to you

>>36373651
That excuses trying to make depressed suicidal people feel worse because they're not allowed to participate? Fuck you. You're nothing more than a nasty emotional parasite feeding off the pain of the sick and the weak.

>>36373517
Can confirm, r9k has ruined my mental health a lot.

>>36373710
>>36373764

>because they're not allowed to participate
you ARE allowed to participate, I used to be a beta robot and just Friday I hooked up with a 28 year old girl 8 years older than me during a One Night Stand

JUST TRY

>>36373853
It doesn't matter what you are. You don't know what the person you are talking to is. Many people will leave this pit of misery to go on to live better lives. I know because I did. But contributing to their deep seated feelings of inadequacy isn't ever going to help. I'm sure you wouldn't ever go down to the mental hospital in real life and tell the people exiting the facility that they're broken and nothing they do will ever fix it. That would be needlessly cruel and not exactly true either. But how is a person in such a fragile state to know that? The same applies to threads like this. What's implied? You're too scared to talk to girls and even if you were pushed into it you'd falter, so you'll never ever get your dick wet like these two Chads in this picture. How do you think that makes someone with crippling social anxiety feel? I know how these things used to make me feel and it wasn't nice at all. It turned me into a bitter, jealous, and paranoid person who scared off every girl that got close enough for social contact.

So here's what I suggest, unless someone clearly asks you for advice or seems like they're in desperate need of guidance (like that dumbass orbiting a girl with a kid and a bf the other day) leave them the fuck alone. These people have it bad enough already without you kicking them while they're down.

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>>36374102
>whahhhhh I want to be in my misery instead of improving myself

all I see are babies whining theyre alone and when they get advice to just talk to girls they just decide NOT to

>>36374152
Do you not understand how social anxiety works? Some people are just introverted. I know I am. That doesn't mean they can't live a happy life but shaming them for it won't help them get there.

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>>36374212
you act like im a chad from birth, I used to be introverted too, and I still am

but the fact is if youre alone youre going to have to pass barriers

>>36374317
You really think that you can just rub in the fact someone can't pass a barrier until they'll magically decide one day that they actually can? That's not how it works. Especially when you have a great fear of it. I have had multiple gfs and been on many dates and I still feel this way sometimes. I never forget that there are people here who are worse off than I ever was. People with mental and physical disabilities worse than any I ever had. People who suffered horrible abuse. They probably feel the things I used to feel and still feel sometimes much more strongly. They're not going to magically decide they want to talk to a girl one day then pull off something they had no experience with in their entire life without fucking up. Posting pictures of success without showing any failures to contrast doesn't help. People need to know it's okay to fail sometimes. That rejection happens and while it might make you feel bad it's nothing to kill yourself over. None of this helps communicate that. It only shows them a level they feel they will never reach.

That guy on the left is quite ugly to be honest.

>>36373398
Something about me makes women not horny and not attracted to me.
I don't really know what it is beyond my appearance and how I sound when I talk.

>>36374591
Maybe it's the things you say when you actually talk to them. How you act. You can turn yourself from a 7/10 to a 4/10 with a few wrong words.

>>36373398
I'm not nice anymore :/

>>36374317
why the fuck are you saving these screen shots lmao

>>36374642
No. The problem is me. I don't think I'm good enough.
Ultimately because of experiences, my brain has spent the cast majority of its development supporting the idea that I'm simply no good enough for girls.

I want to say more things but I'm angry and other emotions and I don't want to cultivate this feeling anymore today

>>36374775
girls are really insecure too. probably not as much though

idk if that makes you feel any better.

>>36373398
I did. She didn't reply

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>>36374521
>>36374712
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YE0pZHXvDpw

>>36374775
I used to feel the same. I realized I had become pussy repellant. Spending lots of time on r9k didn't help until I read beta orbiter threads. I saw the ways I had been acting to girls accurately described.

I know what your biggest problem is. It's that you care what they think. They can almost smell your shame, desperation, and insecurity. That's the trifecta of failure. If one girl doesn't like you does it truly matter? You can always find another. When you start thinking like that you can put yourself in the opposite position. You can reject someone instead of being rejected.

>>36374831
Yeah but they've been validated.

>>36374959
It'll likely always be an issue then. I am an extremely considerate person, and it's hard for me to ignore other's feelings.

I could never just approach a girl and not care. As long as I have this brain I will always be concerned that I might be making them uncomfortably.
Some aspect of it is to protect my own brain, but I can't be sure how much

>>36373398

Look at that guy on the left. How is it such ugly fucks can fuck hot girls?

>inb4 you're just jealous lmao

>>36375039
Being considerate means backing off if she's clearly not interested. Not caring means you don't let that sequence of events hurt you and make you scared to try again with another girl. Backing off prevents you from doing something pathetic like ending up orbiting some girl that doesn't want you. She'll likely forget what happened after a few days but if you dwell on it you could let that one negative experience hold you back for life.

People like us have been gifted something that no other generation had. Internet dating. You can approach hundreds of girls and hit on them with little consequence. It's a numbers game. If you keep trying eventually you'll hit on something. Even if it doesn't result in a relationship you get something important out of it. Experience. I have had both negative and positive ones and it all helped me get to where I am today.

>>36375194
I know I need photos though but I'm not photogenic.
If I had an OkCupid or a Tinder m-maybe I would get laid.
I feel like I meet girls who think I'm cute but I don't know

>black
>18
>inbetween ottermode and ripped but KHHV
>5'6"

no point in approaching women anymore. it's clear i was never meant to make it

>>36375259
I don't think I'm all that photogenic either. I just do the best I can. Trying to dress up nicer and stuff like that is alright. But just try to get a few pictures where you don't look like a hideous monster. Maybe you're not the best judge of that yourself but I don't know how to help with that. Definitely don't try asking r9k for help with that.

>>36375287
Maybe you should try to become a rich and famous comedian.

>>36373463
left is fuck ugly

>>36375400
>have to be a millionaire and have god-like charisma for a girl to want to touch me

honestly at that point why even try

>>36375438
You've already got two up on Kevin Hart so you might as well start writing your routine about not being able to get laid because you're short

>>36373398

Do you believe in what you post? If you do, please talk to me.

No she fucking isn't. Wake the fuck up from that delusion. No one is waiting for some shut in introverted spaghetti monster to crawl out of their basement to claim his virgin qt gf.

>>36375563
Jesus Christ, you're fucking retarded.

>>36373398
except i have. i talked to her today in fact.

i didn't know how to approach her at first and thought she didn't want to see me again but after finally talking to her more i realized she's just realy shy and doesn't like talking much

>>36375584
No. You are you all are with your unrealistic expectations towards the world and woman in particular.

I tried messaging some girls that I know would probably get a reply and nothing I felt like a weird fucking creep so deleted it

>>36375584
You sound like you believe what you say. Help me.

>>36375544
>>36375563
take care of your appearance, be mindful of how you act, and talk to girls you want to talk to

girls have as much desire as men

>inb4 I have spaghetti
less talking is better, get her to talk about herself and guess what? you have less chances to spill spaghetti and she gets to ramble about herself

>>36375612
I can't believe people like you exist.

Robots, is there some medical term which would describe complete unawareness of sarcasm?

>>36375672
You shouldn't. That's no worse than not getting (You)s in a 4chan thread.

>>36375709
Oh I know it's sarcasm. I also know that some people here will take that seriously.

>>36375708

But you talk from a point of view where any girl is a potential partner. What do I do if I fall in love once every 2-3 years with only one girl? Statistically, my chances are extremely poor, even with grooming and without autism.

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>>36375708
>get her to talk about herself and guess what? you have less chances to spill spaghetti and she gets to ramble about herself
i tried this, she doesn't go into much detail on things and kind of just mumbles her response
granted im not much better desu. i think it's why we dont talk more every conversation we have is so stilted and awkward and neither of us seem to know what to say

>>36375673
What do you need help with?

This shit is now original

>>36375708
Yeah getting her to talk about herself is a great idea. I suggest bringing up some stories from your life too. I usually talk about dumb shit I did when I was a kid, stories about bad dates I've been on, stuff like that. The more you can get them to say about themselves the better. Act like you give a shit even if you truly don't! That's the absolute best skill you can learn as a straight man.

>>36375823

I asked for help and I'm that >>36375762 guy. Sorry for spamming you mate.

>>36375821
You might need someone else then unless somehow you can make a relationship out of that. I'm an introverted person and I don't do good with girls who are as introverted as I am. I need to be able to get some kind of response from them so I know if what I'm doing is working out or not.

>>36375762
Are you falling in love or are you infatuated? You can't truly love a person you don't even know on an intimate level. You need to learn how to tell the difference between these two things and not torture yourself by thinking you love someone you don't even know that well. The person who they show to the world is different from the one you would know if you were her boyfriend. That's why we have things like courtship and dating. You need to get to know someone on that level before you make a commitment to them.

If you ever want to break the dreaded curse of the oneitis you need to realize that not every pretty girl who seems nice is right for you. It goes much deeper than outward appearance.

>>36376004
Are you saying I'm a bad stalker? You humiliate me. Well, even crossing out the old oneitiseses still won't solve the huge intervals between my choices.

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>>36375884
when we do talk we get along and we share some interest but we always hit a wall and we don't hang out often since we have different classes
maybe i shouldn't be going out with a sophomore in high school... (shes 15 i am 18 and in school, i got held back a year.)

>>36376211
Point isn't to humiliate you or call you a stalker. Every person with any desire for a romantic relationship feels these feelings at some point in their lives. You just need to understand what's real. Love isn't supposed to be one sided anon. It's not something you experience from afar. It's something that should be reciprocated otherwise to paraphrase Wonder Showzen it's nothing but a neurochemical con job. There's nothing wrong with falling in lust just don't convince yourself that's what love is supposed to be.

>>36376218
Depends on what state you live in. Research local laws before you get yourself in trouble. It's not super inappropriate because you're both high schoolers. Some states have provisions for people under a certain age who are so many years apart. Find out exactly what the law is. As appealing as 15 year old pussy might seem it's not worth being on a registry for the rest of your life. It might just be a matter of waiting until she's 16 though.

>>36376456
Only lust? Why do you view everything through your own eyes again? How do you claim to be a helper when you don't even know what you're helping me with?

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>>36376456
i know plenty of women dating guys older than me, i highly doubt im gonna get in trouble for it

>>36375762
talk to more girls and stop masturbating
>>36375821
A. she's not into you
B. she's quiet and doesnt mind being in silence
C. get better through experience at getting girls to talk about themselves

>>36376525
I'm not a mind reader anon. I am just telling you that the best you can get with that mindset is a 3d waifu.

I only fall in love once every 2-3 years too because that's approximately how long my relationships with girls last. Those girls love me back though. I dated them and got to know them. I found out through that process that they aren't crazy clingers or dreadfully boring.

I don't know your story 100%. It's not like I can TeamViewer into your brain and fix the settings. I am not trying to be judgmental either, just blunt. Have you ever had a real gf? Do you know what it feels like to love them and have them love you back? If not maybe you need to reevaluate your definition of love and seek out a situation in which you can experience it in a reciprocal fashion.

>>36376629
If her parents find out about what you're doing and flip out on you then you possibly could. I have met people with experiences like this. Better safe than sorry. If the law says it's cool then absolutely go ahead and smash.

>>36376695

Oh, you don't know what goes on in my head? You can't even be sure that what you're saying is right?

Then this thread is completely pointless. I congratulate you on fueling your ego once again.

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>>36375194
>It's a numbers game

God normies are so detached from reality. Why do you come here and repeat the same fucking phrases over and over?

>>36376768
If anecdotes about personal experiences and advice from people who want you to be successful aren't enough for you then yes. I can't make you do what I say or even comprehend it. I could give a damn about my ego, I'm just killing time.

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>>36376653
>she's not into you
possibly, but she's like this to most people even when other people are around

>she's quiet and doesn't mind being in silence
i would hope its just this desu senpai

>get better through experience at getting girls to talk about themselves
how do i start?

i just don't know how to get her out of her shell

>>36376790
It really is anon. If you talk to 20 girls each day you have a chance at finding a few you like. I talked to hundreds before I found my fiancee. A few that I talked to are still what ifs in the back of my mind. This rich girl I kinda liked was so into me that she offered to fly to my country after I moved back here to spend time with me. I had to decline because I was already engaged. It dawned on me that I was some girl's oneitis. That's crazy since I know how it feels to be in that position.

>>36376790
because the funny thing is that it's a numbers game, the quicker you realize this the better off you'll be
>>36376876
try talking to other girls to get experience

otherwise just continue to show interest in her life and follow through with events in her life

>>36376876
Maybe she will be more comfortable if you talk about things online? But she is just a 15 year old girl too. Maybe her life is pretty fucking boring and she doesn't have much to say about it. Maybe you need to make some new experiences to talk about together.

>>36374152
I audibly keked at that

>>36373517
Never take anything on 4chan seriously. I just come here for laughs as should everyone else