>look at girl's profile on okc >spend 15-20 minutes

>>36358743
Iktfb, I have no idea how to connect with most people in general. It doesn't help that I also have pretty niche interests. I still try but I've accepted that okc may just not be what works for me.

>>36358743
there there skelly old boy, things aren't so bad as they seem

>>36358817
I've been attempting meeting girls at bars or events like cons and lans.

I'm thinking meeting a girl through a friend is the best success rate for me
but cons have a lot of opportunity to even just to practice meeting people.
My main problem is that my anxiety is pretty bad around a large group of strangers.
I definitely feel better around a handful of new people. Which gives me the comfort to interact with girls.

*shrugs*

>>36358980
I've thought about meeting people at cons but there are always so many people it sets off my anxiety. And I mean real anxiety, not facebook special snowflake anxiety. Plus, I don't know how i'd even go about approaching someone at a con anyway. Be the 50th guy that day who says "hey, nice cosplay"?

Meeting people through friends is probably the best way, shame my friends are all as big a sperg as I am. I guess its just something i'll have to do on my own.

Cosplay as something so grils approach you.