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Found out my gf has been cheating on me with her ex bf. I"m

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Found out my gf has been cheating on me with her ex bf. I"m feeling so many fucking feelings right now and so confused, there's like a violent storm of feelings and thoughts in my head. Please help, I don't know how to deal with this
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You know what? Fuck her. Shame her infront of her parents, tell her ex-bf, tell her friends, rent a plane that says "fuck you janine for cheating on me"

Do that, shave your head, delete social media, move away: new beginnings help.
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>>36276723
Try to forget her as she forgot you. If you have a girlfriend then you surely have friends? Yeah? Surround yourself with that positive reinforcement and throw in vidya, exercise, anime or other needs of escapism until you start to think lightly about it.

It will take time of course but once you learn to slowly forget about it, then it won't be as bad.

Good luck.
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>>36276723
Don't do anything rash, just move on and pursue other women. Worst I'd do is text her saying you're afraid you might have aids, and you probably infected her
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>>36276723
You don't need that shit. She doesn't appreciate you and you deserve to be appreciated. Fuuuuuck her for being so basic and weak.
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They best thing you can do is never talk to her again. Don't call, dont text, dont betray any lingering emotions you have for her. If you take her back, she will never respect you and more importantly, you will never respect yourself. This is the best advice anyone can give you though you may not see it now. Don't let her know you're hurt, just move on with your life.
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>>36276941
>>36276872
that sounds good but how do I deal with these feelings? It's like a vortex of insecurities, anger, sadness, and frustration. I am a literal cuck, he's also like 6 inches taller than me so I feel so worthless. I never did anything wrong to her and always went out of my way for her.
>>36276801
I'm not strong enough to go through all that, I can't even think straight right now


>>36276820
I don't have friends really, everyone drifted away after we all got gfs. I can't do anything right now until I sift through this mess in my head.
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>but how do I deal with these feelings? It's like a vortex of insecurities, anger, sadness, and frustration
>I can't do anything right now until I sift through this mess in my head.
I know this feel OP, trust me. Sleep it off. Sleep is a good "restart" button for the brain. Once you wake up, take advantage of that clear mind to do something; ANYTHING, like watching stuff or playing games even if the feelings come back throughout the day. Repeat this until the feelings start to go numb. Again; It will take time. If you have anyone you're close to in your family then hangout with them a little bit.

Try to always remind yourself that she isn't worth it. Try to berate the thought of her until you eventually realize that she isn't perfect as is not worth your mental health to stress about.
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>>36277212
*AND is not worth your mental health to stress about.
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Ghost her.
Completely remove her from your life.
Find new hobbies to occupy your time.

In time your pain will heal.
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>>36277055
>how do I deal with these feelings?

My man what you need is some video games and sleep!
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>>36277055
>>36277212
I forgot to (You), you
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>>36277055
>I never did anything wrong to her and always went out of my way for her.

Join the club! Men are disposable and interchangeable. Nothing you do will make you more valuable or deserving of loyalty than the next guy.

So, wanna talk about video games or food? Comfy /mgtow/ thread?
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shit happens.
I'm not going to lie to you , you are going to feel like shit for some days or weeks.

Make sure to be sorrounded by friends or family. Also dont hate her, is only going to make it worse.

When you feel a little bit better you might try to excercise and meditate.
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>>36276723
What did you think she would do OP? You brought this on yourself by dating a literal whore. Did you think she would change for you? Kick that bitch to the curb and don't give your heart to some dumb free spirit ass bitch
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>>36277449
Best advice I can give to OP, if he really hates her, is to treat himself and just be happy.

psychologytoday.com/blog/between-the-lines/201105/study-finds-smiling-men-are-less-attractive-women

Women HATE that shit. Once OP is in a great mood again, she'll try to re-initiate contact with him so she could bring him back down and drain him of all his resources again. All he has to do is...ignore those texts and keep on doing him.
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what is this normie9k? where is all the REE's im shitting myself here. am... am i the last of the species?
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>>36277212
>>36277349
>>36277319
I can't get my mind off one thing, and I need you guys to give it to me straight. The exbf is taller and better looking, and arguably has a more exciting life than me. He's not even that great, I'm just kinda sub average. I'm a manlet, normal office worker and my hobbies are vidya.

In this modern day and age where everyone is connected, why would ANYONE want to stay faithful to me? I'm pretty much inferior genetic stock. I thought this girl was the one (dating pool for short people is pretty small), and if even SHE would cuck me then that's it. All my future relationships are pretty much guaranteed to be cucked. My dick is below average, I'm a pathetic beta, am I just born to be cucked? There's no love for me in this modern society is there?
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>>36276723
Kek, get rekt normo.
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>>36277055
Dude, you're not a cuck. You're not married to that woman and you don't owe her anything. Just be glad this happened now and not after things got more serious. Can you imagine going through this with a shared morgage and two kids?

These feelings will subside. This is not your fault. Only shitty people cheat. She's at fault here, not you. Keep your head held high and move on.
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>>36277527
Like i understand your frustration you have to see it this way.

People are stupid and make mistakes. Even you and me. Your gf is probably an inmature and insecure person , so dont think this shit will dictate the rest of your life.

Yes , you got cucked , but like i said before that shit happens, you cant win All the time.
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Beat the shit out of him with white rage and call her a washed up whore you only kept to polish your dick, its the only way anon.
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dude
I would just cut contact no explanations
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>>36277527
That's just a hard redpill you've swallowed from your current situation. I thought this too but there is ALWAYS someone else out there and you will never know when you'll run into them

Time, OP, Time. Just sleep it off and wait it out and follow my post. I agree with this anon >>36277601 It was your gf's fault for being an immature typical choosy "roasty". Don't overthink it.
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>this entire thread

Normies get out! God damn it
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Cut her off. Don't look for 'answers' she has none, and wouldn't even give them if she had. She made decisions, now you make them.

Don't be surprised when your friends get poisoned in case they were hers too.
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>>36277691
so it's true ahhahaha you don't have to sugar coat it man, im a middle aged man now. fuck everything then, fuck this gay world
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>>36277847
Let me rephrase; It's not true, but it will eventually become a reality if you don't do anything about it and let this consume your life. That's what I mean to say. So get up and stop it, reeeeeeeeeee!!
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For the record:

"A cuckold is the husband of an adulterous wife. In evolutionary biology, the term is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own."

You are neither married to this woman nor are you unwittingly raising another man's offspring. So you are not a cuckold.
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Not your fault, other people will act like you did something to deserve it. Had nothing to do with you aside from her trying to manipulate you. In a few years you'll be glad you split from her.
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>>36277904
You are over thinking way to much , its like you want to be known as a cuck.
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>>36277527

Don't take short memeing here seriously. You're crippling yourself by buying into bullshit eugenics thinking.

You're you. Be the best you you can be. All lands can be conquered.
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>>36276723
fuck you OP.

People here are have real problems. You're just a normie fuckwit
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>>36277974
The only person over-thinking anything is OP.
I know the feel; It feels like the end of the world and you feel hopeless but it isn't.

The least he could do is listen to the people who have come to his aid instead of shoving them away. I'm only telling him the truth here, do not repress it. That's how you dig yourself deeper
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>>36278038
this, at least he got a taste of what a gf was like. fuck him
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>>36278055
I fucked up.
That reply was to OP .
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>>36276723
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Beat your gf into a fleshy pulp that vaguely resembles a human. Then thank the ex for proving to you that women are whores, then sodomize his ass and make him your bitch.
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>>36276723
Fuck off normalfag. You deserve death. If you had the looks and social ability to get a 3d whore as your gf you don't belong here. Take the meme feels to reddit or /b/.
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>>36276723

"Whatever anyone does or says, I must be a good man. It is as if an emerald, or gold or purple, were always saying: 'Whatever anyone does or says, I must be an emerald and keep my own colour'"

-Marcus Aurelius, Meditations (Book seven, passage fifteen)
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>>36278127
But anon, you too have the looks to get a 3d whore as your gf.

Don't be such a hypocrite
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>>36277509
Yes you are

now kill yourself
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>>36278169

I've got mine, but I'm still here. We're all gonna make it.
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>>36276723
how long were you together? what were your conversations like...
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First, cut all ties (block her number, block her on any normie social networking). The last thing you want to do is contact her in any way.
Then, get drunk and/or high. If you have someone you can talk to, give 'em a call and meet up.
(The next few days are going to suck hard anyway, so you might as well take the time now to get fucked up and pass out)
The next few days, maybe even months, are going to suck. You're going to go through a lot of emotions and there's no way to stifle them, so realize you may need help to process it all. Maybe therapy, maybe friends, maybe family can help.
Just remember two things:
- You'll get over it for the most part, but a piece of you (and this will eventually be a tiny piece) will always feel pain. We all do, so you're not weak or alone.
- You truly are better without her. You don't need that kind of shit in your life.
It's going to suck and I feel for you, but life will do that.
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>>36276723
cuck

ffggza
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>>36276723
Have revenge sex with her
Pretend to put on condom
Just before you cum wiser "I know you're fucking Chad"
Cum
Dump her
She gets pregnant
Question if the baby is yours because she's been cheating
Congrats Anon you will pass on your DNA, and make Chad pay for it
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>>36277444
Not OP but been addicted to Dungeon Fighter Online. Reminds me playing beat em ups as a kid with my twin brother in the arcade at the del amo mall.... good times.
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>>36276723
I've been in your place once brother. I know how hard it is, trust me. The first month I felt absolutely fucking terrible, laying in bed all day imagining having to lvie without her and with what she did. It gets easier over time, she's not fucking special, there's billions of women on this planet. She's a piece of shit and you don't need that and you'll realize that in a few months. Stay strong my brother.
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>>36277509
Yes the normie uprising has begun.
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>>36277788
>>36277319
>>36276941
Do this OP. Been 7 months since I was cheated on but I no longer think about her unless someone brings her up.
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>>36277509
My fellow robot I am here. It looks like we are the last of our kind. We must REEEEEE once more as our time has now ended.

RIP robots. We shall meet again some day. Fuck all of you normies. All of you. YOU RUINED MY FUCKING BOARD
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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fuckiNG REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
GTFO NORMAL FAGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

seriously what happened to this board go back to facebook you autists

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