Does anyone else get so upset about being a virgin that it causes

Go hire an escort and disregard relationships.

>>36252153
Having sex with a hooker wouldn't make me feel any better about my virginity or my unlovablity. That's like saying the best way for a fat person to get in shape is to go buy a weightlifting trophy.

Fuck I ended up getting so frustrated and angry and hurt thinking about it that I pounded my first on the desk like 10 times

I just don't know what to do and I'm so tired of being unlovable

>>36252799
God I'm glad I'm not the only one who does that shit, happens way too fucking often

Feeds into itself too, I get mad for getting mad at that etc etc

>>36252433
>That's like saying the best way for a fat person to get in shape is to go buy a weightlifting trophy.

Honestly that shows a surprisingly high degree of insight about what about it upsets you. It's a bit more honest than a lot of people on here.

>>36253211
I don't even really care about the sex part that much, to be honest, besides the fact that being a virgin at my age is just another thing that I can use against myself and more fully attack myself for being worthless/alone/weird/etc.

I just want to feel loved for once in my fucking life. I just want someone to cuddle with me and ask me how my day was. I want someone who can't wait to get home and tell me all the amazing things they did that day and all the interesting thoughts they had.

And when I realize that I'll never have these things because there's some kind of mark on me that says I'm unlovable, I almost want to start crying on the spot.

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>>36251811
stop masturbating
rise above your sexuality
become a wizard

>>36253325
How was your day anon?

Niggers

>>36253459
Fine I guess. I only started feeling the depression and anxiety really hard an hour or so ago, which is great because it's nearly 1 AM here and I need to be up for work at 6:30 AM

>>36253211
>It's a bit more honest than a lot of people on here.
I think most virgins feel the same, we're just really bad t expressing ourselves.
If you go 3 decades without sex, it kind of becomes less important. But wanting to love someone, and someone to love you, wanting to feel like you belong, wanting to be a part of someone's life, wanting to be accepted for who you are; those things are just human. And for no one to even want to touch you, let alone truly want to connect with you, hurts you so much. As a male, society uses sex as a measure of your worth. Society has basically said you don't deserve love. And love's the only thing you ever wanted.

>>36253752
I think that you're correct. I think that is, for most people, the rub (as it were). A lot of people don't have the guts to say something so honest.

I don't agree with or defend the misogyny on this board, but I think that you've touched on something important. There's no doubt that society uses sex as a judge of a man's worth. It's not, therefore, surprising to me when sex, and by extension women, become something pathological for men that don't have it.

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>>36251811
I think you can get stressed over anything if you obsess over it enough. Posting here day and night probably doesn't help.

Do something fun. Start working out. Shop for clothes.

>And love's the only thing you ever wanted.

Jesus loves you anon.

I just want someone to love me

Everyone I've ever had in my life who I thought loved me and cared about me really just betrayed and used me and ran off

I wish I deserved to be loved