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How the fuck does one become busy? I really wish to leave 4chan

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How the fuck does one become busy?

I really wish to leave 4chan forever but I have so much downtime and no willpower that I end up browsing 4chan for hours at a time

The meme "you're here forever" is pretty fucking true if only because our lives are so empty and this is the only place our opinions will be noticed
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>>36238631
normies naturally find tasks to fill their time because they enjoy being busy. They dread boredom and don't feel stress or anxiety nearly as intensely as we do.

You can fill your schedule if you want, just treat your calendar like a tetris game, and look for something to fill every block. You'll have to force yourself to do it though, and you, unlike the normies, will probably find that it makes your life hell.
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>>36239601
>normies naturally find tasks to fill their time because they enjoy being busy.
Normies have a social circle which provides opportunities to not sit on their pc all day. Because they've been around people even the ones who were more socially inept developed some basic skills needed to live around people.
If you hid in your room because "muh social" anxiety there's no surprise you got nothing to do. You will never be able busy if you don't have others to be busy with.

>They dread boredom
All people do, you just got used to it

>and don't feel stress or anxiety nearly as intensely as we do.
If you're anxiety is that bad seek help, instead of using it as an excuse to lock yourself out ib4 "therapy is a meme" "meds are a meme"
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>>36238631
>The meme "you're here forever" is pretty fucking true if only because our lives are so empty and this is the only place our opinions will be noticed
Get this, the world doesn't care. This is the reason why people make friends, to have people in their life who listen, who want to spend time with. So that you can be with people like you, and do thing you like even if it is playing vidya all night long.

I don't know how old are you and what do you do in your life, but in order to meet people and have someone to be busy with you need to either be in education or at work.
So the first step to be busy is to start moving forward in life.
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Sometimes i browse 4chan so much that i actually get really tired in al kinds of ways and i end up wanting to do the things that i avoided in the first place maybe that will help you
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>>36239875
I already go to class and I have a part-time job on the weekends

I don't have the attention span to study for more than a few minutes at a time
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>>36240018
>I don't have the attention span to study for more than a few minutes at a time
Sound like a form AD to me, seeing anyone about it ?
If you already work and go to class you need to find people to hang out with. What's the class ? High school ? College ? Any societies you could join ? Yes being a new comer is going to be awkward, but no one said finding a social life as an adult is going to be easy.
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