I don't understand. Why are you all obsessed or insecure

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Bumparoni and cheese.
Lots of cheese.

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Arise, thread, arise.

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>>36213913
I dont understand either desu. I have been a khv for 21 years and never got that desperate either. Perhaps a low sex drive has something to do with this? I am not sure

>>36214562
>low sex drive

that's probably not it

I'm 22 and being khv rarely bothers me but I masturbate 3 times a day

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>>36213913
You'll understand when you grow up. I'm 28, and it didn't bother me until I turned 24. I have friends, but they can't provide the kind of affectionate touch a mammal needs.

Anime, videogames, masturbation, everything that sustains your current paradigm will likely fail at some point. I did enjoy the absolute bliss of being a uni student in my early 20s, going to uni and so having some social interaction, and back home to consume anime and drama, playing some vidya. I remember waking up early in the morning and sipping hot cocoa while watching super sentai before going to uni. That was a nice period of my life. I didn't understand either back then. I saw my friends dating and stuff but I didn't think much about it.

>>36214658
>but I masturbate 3 times a day

That's probably dude tho the influence of pornography or being here. I don't think people who are not dependent from the internet masturbate that much, we have continuosly material and images in our mind that cause us to be lewd and horny all the time.

>when the stockholm syndrome kicks in

>>36213913
You're only 20 years old, give it time

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>>36214959
>>36216353
>just wait for it
This doesn't explain anything though.
Why do you feel this way?

And even if you do, does it really help to talk about it so much?

>>36216481
> why do you feel sad when you're fundamentally broken and not a single girl ever has found you worthy
You can only distract yourself for so long.

> does it help to talk about it
No. We're just hoping for salvation, finally a good tip that might save us.

It does bother you. Everything in society, culture, media, and interpersonal relationships is designed to make you feel like shit for being alone. If you're immune, you're a liar. Stop trying to condescend to us you pitiful fuck.

>>36213913
>I'm not saying "Why you sad? Me not sad."
I'm pretty sure that's actually what you're saying

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>>36216481
>Why do you feel this way?
I'm not really sure why or if I could really explain it to you. for me it happened on its own, over the course of a few months. The point is, it's likely that your mindset will shift somehow.

I don't think you can "get" it yet no matter what I say. At your age it's still a problem of social status and comparing yourself to your peers. At my age it's the fact that time is against you. What you'll notice when you reach your mid 20s is that your perception of time will change. Time feels like it passes faster.
And that somehow your inner mammal cries louder and louder each year because it needs a hug and if it doesn't get it well he's not sure he really wants to stay alive.

>And even if you do, does it really help to talk about it so much?
It doesn't, but at the same time you can't really stop thinking about it, and it's not like keeping it inside changes anything either.

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>>36216518
>fundamentally broken and not a single girl ever has found you worthy
I don't know what "fundamentally broken" means.
You work right, right?

And think about it, Anon.
How many girls are that? Why does it matter what they think? Even if you liked them, just the fact that they didn't like you, isn't that enough for you to not like them anymore? Where they somebody special?

>No. We're just hoping for salvation, finally a good tip that might save us.
Salvation doesn't fall from the sky and no amount of hope can make up for the lack of effort.
Besides, it sounds like you've already given up.

>>36216559
>Everything in society, culture, media, and interpersonal relationships is designed to make you feel like shit for being alone.
But I don't.
Even after 4 years of me sitting here reading all of these threads I honestly don't understand it.

>If you're immune, you're a liar. Stop trying to condescend to us you pitiful fuck.
"If you're not with us, you're against us and you don't belong here!"
Anon...

>>36216600
Well, that's half of it! I gotta let you know why I'm asking.

Because many of us have a built in desire for the specific type of validation, closeness, and acceptance that comes from a woman/man that is "in love" with you. Basically a best friend that your th physically pleasure and hang out with almost all the time.

You don't feel that need and honestly that's great, it's just a bitter pill to the rest of us with that desire for intimacy.

There's also scumbags that just wanna "lose muh V-Card so life is better and I'll be so cool XDXDXD" but that's pretty gay

>>36216728
> I don't know what "fundamentally broken" means.
Humans as biological creatures have one purpose, procreation. If you can't even manage that, you are a poor excuse of a human. I don't want kids, but the lack of intimacy and closeness related really hurts me to my core.

> How many girls are that? Why does it matter what they think?
I once estimated I have been around about a thousand girls during my life. It matters, because none of them liked me, whereas every single normie has a gf and 1476 exes. I'm trash, I cannot even get a single girl to smile at me.

> lack of effort
Anon, when your odds are lottery-tier, and a rejection would lead to sudoku, it is not the smart thing to try.

>>36216858
>we have one purpose, to make more
Why? Why make more? Just because that's the main goal of animals doesn't mean we have to make our existance about that.

You just some dumb evolutionary psychologist first year student that thinks he's cracked the code to the meaning of life based on our most primal urges.

You're gonna act like if some retard Joe has a kid at sixteen and dies in a car crash at 17, his life was more meaningful that a scientist that cures cancer, lives to 85, gains all the riches in the world, but happened to be gay or asexual or some shit.

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>>36216694
>And that somehow your inner mammal cries louder and louder each year because it needs a hug and if it doesn't get it well he's not sure he really wants to stay alive.
I'm not sure what hug you're referring to, but I can get a hug from just about anybody.
That's not really a case of "I need a girlfriend." that sounds more like a case of "I need a friend."

>>36216694
>but at the same time you can't really stop thinking about it
If something's eating away at you that badly you should talk to somebody about it, Anon.
And I'm not talking about somebody on an image board either!

>>36216782
This is a pretty good explanation. I get it completely now, actually.

I guess there's just some things you can't get from friends and hobbies and different people have different needs?

>>36216858
>Humans as biological creatures have one purpose, procreation.
Don't give me that.
I'm human and I sure as heck have better reasons than that.
Like eating, or playing video games.

>If you can't even manage that, you are a poor excuse of a human.
Okay. That's extremely rude of you.
Do you have any idea of the number of people before you who've never had children?
The people who can't have children.
And you're calling them failures because of it?

No sir, you quit that right now.
People are more than just blobs meant for breeding.

>I once estimated...
It's like somebody decided to write a bad script for a character representing /r9k/.

>Anon, when your odds are lottery-tier, and a rejection would lead to sudoku, it is not the smart thing to try.
So you complain about something and that you're hoping for it.
Crying you don't have it.
But you don't even put the minimal amount of effort because of fear.

>>36214658
Maybe you just have some aversion to intimacy. Like being antisocial except when it comes to sexual relations

>>36217003
>So you complain about something and that you're hoping for it.
>Crying you don't have it.
>But you don't even put the minimal amount of effort because of fear.
/r9k/ in a nutshell.

But indeed, when the cost of failure is your life, I'd say some fear is justified.

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>>36213913
I don't have any urge or neediness to pursue friends or a gf. I think about it as an eventuality one day and something I'd like to do to fit in and have kids, but I don't have any huge desire for it or bitterness for not having them.

>>36213913
I want to get practice gf and pound her into submission before getting real one.

>>36217625
Me to anon but dicklet so I guess I'll just cuddle

>>36217677
>dicklet
What are the measurements?
>inb4 6 incher is small.