I have a Tinder date after work tomorrow at a local bar. Since

>>36203316
no clue I'd say you're fucked man

FUCKING KEEP TALKING
FUCKING KEEP TALKING
FUCKING KEEP TALKING

I'm a waiter and can tell when dates are going badly. Silence, looking at phones, girl takes a bathroom break.

Keep calm and composed, ideally also cheery, and fill dead air.

>>36203392
I think I am too, but I'm going to give it a shot. Worst case scenario is that it goes bad, I delete/block her on Tinder and SMS and never see her again.

>>36203399
I'm actually good with talking one-on-one, so I don't think that will be a problem.

My worries is if it ever escalates into something more. I've never even kissed a girl before. How do I know when or if I'm supposed to make a move?

>>36203557
Sit close to her so you can go for a kiss and make deep eye contact. If she reciprocates, you're game. You can lean in slowly, go for it right away, pull her in or even ask her. If she's making deep eye contact you already won.

If she's not try kissing her neck or something. I've managed to kiss girls that were not going to kiss me by kissing their neck first, but it doesn't always work.

>>36203399
Dubs of truth.

Just be yourself, no sense hiding your true self for a first date and then having them dislike you after finding out that you're a different person.

>>36203610
Do you mean actually trying to do this in a bar around other people?

I don't think I can do that with my anxiety levels.

>>36203668
It's always better to take her to a more secluded place for a kiss but dude if she's wasting her time on you she most definitely wants you to at least kiss her. You can do it wherever, just don't wait till she gets bored and things get awkward.

>>36203663
Yeah, I'm just planning on asking her about herself, telling her some stuff about me and throwing som dry humor Reddit tier jokes in there. If she likes it, she likes it. If not, oh well.

We have a few things in common, so at least I have an idea of things to bring up if things go awkward silent..