How many of you have never actually tried to get a gf? When did

I tried but i think it's for me. The realization men are probably are paying for their crimes against women in some way i guess this it

>>36181563
not for me*

also i'm high 24/7 most of the time for 3 years now

>>36181439
Me. I'm pretty disgusted by the idea of sex. It's just meat and fluids and then your brain is being controlled by chemicals that is very alien and doesn't belong.

>>36181439
29 year old kissless virgin here.

I've never tried. What does that mean anyway? Trying. How does one do it?

It stopped bothering me when my bad feels from not having a half decent job surpassed my bad feels from tfw no gf.

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>>36181439
>How many of you have never actually tried to get a gf? When did it stop bothering you?

I've never tried to get a gf
I've tried to get a bf though
didn't work though

I mean I did ask a girl out in the 5th grade, but I don't really think that counts. So I guess I haven't really tried to get a GF. I still feel lonely though as I have no friends

>>36181601
this
23 vidya addict
slowly waking up from the dream, just yet noticing i fucked all my job prospects

>>36181619
Missing the point as well as cheekily announcing your gender/sexuality. Get out

Actually it's been bothering me a lot lately but it's my own fault because I won't make the effort.

>>36181817
Same, I don't know how much longer can I carry on like this.

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I realised if you're 'trying' then you've already got no chance.

If a girl has never made a move on you, if girls don't smile when you make eye contact, if your oneitis doesn't get shy around you while her friends giggle knowingly, if you don't get their immediate unrestricted attention by just going up and saying hi to them, then why the fuck you trying?

>>36182134
this is the ultimate red pill and the reason I never "tried" and probably never will

>>36181439
It bothered me when I was a student because it was a status thing. Since then it doesn't bother me. Intimacy isn't for everyone.

I don't know how to try

>inb4 online
HAHAHAHAHA no.
Whilst chances would increase from zero as they currently stand to extremely small but non-zero, the possibility of people I know seeing me online totally mitigates that.

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I never tried, because I'm too afraid of being rejected, the fact that few times a girl tried to talk with me I spilled my spaghettis didn't help.

>>36181599
>human sex
>alien
kek

Around the same time I realized that no woman can be trusted, period. Even attractive celebrities who have everything going for them have their lives periodically ruined by a woman. If it happens to him it for damn sure would happen to me. There's no loyalty. There's no honor. What's the point?

17
Women are just for sexual relationships and pleasure of oneself

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>>36182579
Degenerate, that mentality is causing women to be whores in the first place

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>>36181439
I can never imagine a time when it stopped bothering me, it never bothered me in the first place. I dont get the obsession, some fat fucking whore comes in, takes up your time money and space, and what for, i don't need friends either for the same reason desu, being on your own is the best scenario, you do what you want when you want and you own all of your own money and its never wasted on other twats. I'd rather them not get anywhere fucking near me lmao. Sex is such a small thing, i don't know why most people are so obsessed with it, have a wank and move on lul

my crippling anxiety keeps me from trying. No idea what to say or do

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>>36181439
I never have had one but at three points in my life I was close to it because those girls approached me first and showed interest. The first one I really liked and kissed and hung out with for four weeks but I was only 13 and too inexperienced/spergy to do anything except giving her a kiss in the morning and one after school so she dropped me after 4 weeks of that nonsense.

The second one was my best friend(female) and I loved her like a sister but after years of friendship she from one day to another pushed me into trying to date only to then make out at a party with another guy right in front of me when she was drunk. She ended up dating this guy and cold heartedly dropped our friendship of four years for him.

The third one I knew online for years as we used to be in the same WoW guild for almost 3 years and after I left the game to go to America for a year as a student she kept in touch with me over Skype and we started an e-lationship which had me yearning for the day I returned home to meet her (she lived 5 hours away from me). However, when I returned home she avoided my calls and never made a move to meet me in person so I got fed up and dropped her in good terms. We remained online friends and I learned three weeks later that she now was dating some chad from her town and lost her v-card to him which really upset me more than I'd like to admit.

After these three defeats I gave up on the vagina meme and have stopped hoping for a gf. I have found comfort in solitude and can not really say that I feel bad or alone because every time I see a pretty roasty I get that sting that reminds me how I felt every time after these defeats and I recon that it simply ain't worth the trouble. It's been years since then and now I am at university and look passable enough to have the occational chick check me out when I dress nicely but I genuinely have lost all interest and expect nothing.

>>36182935
Literally none of what you said means anything until you mention your age, anon. The implications are very fucking different if you say that when you're 18 or when you're 35.

>>36183221
I know that feel meng

They wouldn't even value me as a boyfriend, why should I value them? Nothing good comes out of it

Stopped bothering at 20ish. 25 now and still dont care.
Reason might be me being on the spectrum for autism / close to aspergers.

Also the thought of sex is very alien to me too. I cant stand someone else touching me which means sex is out of the question

What hasnt changed is being depressed. I only get joy out of vidya and driving around with my motorcycle, which is ok i guess. Just live life.

>>36183277
My parents say that most relationships turn dull and sour after some time but those occational pure moments inbetween more than make up for it and make the whole thing worth it.

To me it sounds like utter bullshit. Even if it is true why would I put up with a lot of shot only for some brief moments of joy? It sounds like the life of a junky inbetween highs. Truly hell.

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>>36182134
I've had girls show me those signs (smiling, giving me their undivided attention, going out of her way to talk to me) and I've still been turned down every time I've asked a girl out.

>>36181599
>Me. I'm pretty disgusted by the idea of sex. It's just meat and fluids and then your brain is being controlled by chemicals that is very alien and doesn't belong.

what the fuck? fuck off you autist

>>36181967
>>36181817
Me too, never tried but it never stopped bothering me

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kek

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dqYZS8Z5cZQ

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>>36181439

gf requirements:

- she must be virgin, because I don't need a wasted vagoo

- she must not have mental illnesses, because I'm not able (and neither willing) to deal with them

- she must be loyal, because love is not a childish play

- she must not be addicted to shit (including but not limited to porn, smoking, self-harm, Jehowa's Witnesses)

- if she has some body problem, I don't care as long as she's conscious and willing to fight it (because being ill and unwilling to heal is just another mental illness)

- I don't care if she's ugly, shy, or fat, or even scared of having sex, as long as she doesn't use it as an excuse to make herself distant to me.

>turns out that I've yet to meet a single girl compliant to all of these specifications.

I've never tried to get a gf and it's always bothering me

>>36183364
>My parents say that most relationships turn dull and sour after some time but those occational pure moments inbetween more than make up for it and make the whole thing worth it.

They're right because:

- "turn dull" is simply the "infatuation" fading out
- love persists, infatuation expire quite quickly
- occasional pure moments make you sure that love is there even if you don't have anymore those childish loveydovey teen moments

>>36181439
way back in grade school I thought the drama associated with 'puppy love' was unnecessary and simply not worth my time
My view in later years was further cemented with a combination of apathy and a self-serving attitude; to this day my attitude has persisted

Yes, never tried.

I've always been a little shy, so for the longest time I was under the delusion that some girl, any girl at some point, would express interest. Maybe not approach me but make clear that she was interested, and I'd act on it.

Then I turned 25 and after college, realized that it would literally never happen, no girl was ever going to be the one to take the initiatve. Not with me at least.

By the time I realized that though, it was too late. 25 and no experience with relationships at all, I eventually accepted that it just wasn't going to happen. Will be 27 soon, more and more just accepting the nothingness. It used to hurt, now it's just a dull feeling.

I have never even tried to get a friend

bump auafuaifiaf

bumperino auafuaifiaferino

>>36183958
>I was under the delusion that some girl, any girl at some point, would express interest.

It's not delusional (because sooner or later some girl will actually have some interest in you, even if you're an autistic fat sperglord).

It's only wrong in that "express" verb. Having some interest does not automagically mean expressing it.

>>36181439
I've asked out 3 girls and been shot down brutally every time. The only thing I have learnt from this is not to talk to any girl who knows anyone you know. It is amazing how quickly your failure spreads to everyone you knew and you become "that guy who got turned down by X lol"

>>36183209
I'm just wondering, did you have a father while growing up?

I've never tried. I asked a girl out once in middle school and her rejection was so humiliating and callous that I've never tried again.

I know I can't do it. It bothers me, but there's nothing I can do about it. I don't have a personality that anyone will ever find attractive or interesting. I'm a very boring, weak person.

>>36181599
You're either asexual or a frustrated virgin desperately trying to convince yourself you choose virginity.

>>36181439
I've tried a few times but with brutal rejection and the spreading of rumors after I asked a girl out I decided that it's not worth it. Now I live the junky life because I don't want to be constantly miserable.

>>36185818
it's not about personality, who are you kidding?

>>36181439
You guys are going to hate me but despite never actually chasing girls in my entire life, there was a stretch of time where I couldn't stay out of relationships. Serious relationships, cheating, casual sex with female friends, the whole deal. I'm also 1/10, skeleton, short and have a facial deformity.

The whole gf thing never concerned me and it still doesn't even though I have not had a gf nor sex at all in 7 years. Seems like a dumb thing to be upset about.

Only attempts I made were half-assed or under the influence of something. Fucking autism, I don't have a chance, I can't hold a conversation for the life of me. If only my dick could talk

>>36181439

Around the time I was 15-16
I stopped wanting to get a girlfriend, stopped wanting to get friends
I don't have a diagnosis but I believe it to be the schizoid personality disorder.
I just want to be alone, I don't want irl contact, you can call me out on "self diagnosis" or "arm psychologist", but regardless, I prefer to be alone.

I also believe people who can't be alone are fucked up, if they can't stay alone with only their thoughts, who is inferior in this case? I'm content to be alone, I'm happy with only my thoughts, they NEED others, I need nobody but myself

>>36181439
Becasue the wizard powers seem appealing to many

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>>36181439
>Implying everyone on this board doesn't have a gf?

Bit wierd to assume that anon? Why would you do that?

Never tried, never bothered me!

I try every now and then, failed every time so far because I'm not chad enough for the roasties at my university to be that interested in a second date. It's never bothered me though, you have to remember that there's no bad end when it comes to women. You either get one and get to fuck some maybe, or you don't and eventually acquire wizard powers.

>>36185885
Well, I'm ugly and poor, so it is about personality for me. And I don't have it.

>>36186220
>I'm ugly
that's enough, nothing else matters anymore

Here's the thing. Most guys who are reasonably attractive get opportunities. Girls show interest in them and then they ask them out and get gfs.

Guys like us never get opportunities. We just obsess over some girl who doesn't even know we exist and then we ask her out out of the blue and she'll be like, "Nope".

Lots of guys here are confused how to go about asking girls out but really it should be obvious, IF they first show interest in you. But they never do.

Never tried. Bothers me everyday.

I'm legit asexual. I don't feel sexual attraction to people. Sex is meat slapping together, doesn't sound very appealing to me.

>>36181439
ive tried 9 times. all rejected me.

never tried, I already know what the answer would be

I would be a waste of time for any girl, there's pretty much nothing good about me

In hindsight it's fucking baffling to me how much pussy I would've gotten as a teenager when girls still mistake being a loud annoying class clown as assertiveness and looks/money didn't play a factor.

I still don't have the money or looks and the cynical outlook on life and increased self awareness of my short comings, mainly being a fucking social sperg after years of NEETdom have made me really apathetic about finding a gf.

>>36181439
I'm in community college right now as duel enrollment so the only people around me are in their 30s or 40s. Seeing as I haven't set foot in my high school in 2 years it's likely to be a long time before I come close enough to a girl my age

>>36181439
22 yrs

never tried, but it only bothers me in one case because I've only ever met one girl worth trying for

I don't worry about it often though; a relationship seems like too much effort

>>36186129
The better question is why would you be on r9k if you had a girlfriend?

When I was a kid, I was much more vibrant and enthusiastic and full of life. But I was also fat and annoying and ugly and had a weird sense of humor and stuff. This led to me getting bullied and ostracized pretty hard.

Over time I lost weight and cleaned myself up, but this also led to pretty much scrubbing my personality of any sort of character. I really am a nothing these days. I'm a pathetic bundle of anxieties with absolutely nothing going on in my life. I'm scared of everything, I don't have any hobbies or even anything I like, I'm so constantly worried about the way I carry myself and the way others perceive me that I can't relax. It's not possible. And the worst part is, it's not even like I became attractive. I just became "not fat and extremely ugly". I'm capped out at a 4/10 on a good day, and my personality is so non-existent that there's no reason for anyone to bother with me.

My shit is fucked up. I can't find happiness in others and I can't find any kind of self-fulfillment on my own. My life is pretty much over, I can never see it getting better.

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I never tried, I'm 24, 'Australian', in university and have never tried or will try
Can't say it ever bothered me; what did is/was why I sucked ass at everything and didn't even have a social life to compensate/carry

I struggle to find Australian women attractive and I'm fairly sure my very non-Australian face and tired attitude are why I'm treated quite differently by people here
Encountered <10 women that I found attractive and would want to approach

I never tried. Tried dating, but still haven't kissed a girl. Stopped bothering me when I started clearing six figures a year. Not worth risking my earnings, even if it means dying childless.

>>36181439
Around when I turned 22. IDK i think my hormones just settled down and i stopped crying over tfw no gf.

>>36186592
One of my primary worries is that if I do meet a girl I will sacrifice everything including a steady job and great opportunities just for her.

I've never tried to get a gf. I'm 24 now and it still bothers me. I've been taking the Elliot route and hoping one falls into my lap if I pursue enough self improvement memes.

It isn't working ;_;

>>36181439
Used to try, but can only find sex or short flings. Now I just befriend women and hook up from time to time.

>>36182568
It really feels that way. Like we were originally intelligent and creative images of God but then in the last minute someone decided to program a sex drive on top of the already existing brain.

>>36183383
Where the fuck do you think you are? OP asked if anyone has never tried to get a gf and I responded. Are you mad that I exposed your normie activity for what it is or what is your deal?

>>36186514
This isn't a board for guys with no gf, as much as the memes make it out to be

>>36186565
Are you not originally from here or something? I can tell you as an Australian woman that my experience has been similar to yours. This is one of the most normie countries.

>>36186565
>my very non-Australian face
is this some roundabout way of saying you're asian or something

>>36187542
>n-n-no I belong here, everyone else is just memeing!!

totally virgin here
i never tried to find a girlfried cause i'm afraid of bitchs dont like me (they probably will).
it still bothers a little bit, i'm in my way to accept my FA life.

>>36187572
>read 'Australian'

Somewhat slav, extremely well defined face that you never see in Australia

i have never tried with women, not once, yet i still dont like them cause i see how they behave and they are all dumb whores

>>36187604
I do belong here and i know it. Not everyone who comes here stays. It's only a small percentage that know the belong, regardless of gf or if they have sucked a cock or are autismo

>>36181439
I tried once when I was 16. I got rejected and since then I've given up. I'm 20 now.

>>36181439
Never tried it because /afraid of intimacy & cringe/

I realized this at 16-17.