ITT: eRP and online partners After spending a lot of time interacting

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>it's become clear that most of them can't dom at all.

Too true, they start strong but I can slowly see them slowly start doing everything I say and asking for permission for everything.

>>36168165
that's funny though, taking a dom guy and turning him into a good little subby... some of them can be sweet as long as they listen to me, I admit.

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>>36168264
Its not bad but I've been unintentionally doing that with all my partners and some friends for years. I want a true dom guy who isn't so easily manipulated.

>>36168321
That's probably a small percent, sadly. I've had a few tougher doms but they usually ended up breaking whatever rules we've set, taking it too far.

Got any interesting dom stories anon?

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>>36168382
Nothing in particular, if they did start to get weird I just stopped it then and there. Though that was very rare, I usually just tell em to stop and most do since by that point they do whatever I want. I guess I'm a bad sub

>>36168636
One thing I like when I try occasional domming, I can basically ignore them at any point without feeling bad about it. Men know it can happen when they conversation isn't satisfying enough.

>>36168087
I just want to please people. I guess I'm not really a dom, just a top.

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>>36168688
Yea, that's a huge plus. I haven't started as dom in years though. I feel bad just leaving somebody hanging unless it was extremely boring and obvious it's not working.

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>>36168165
Have you ever considered you're just too charismatic of a sub? Sometimes all they want is a blithely submissive ERPer who stutters and can't form an opinion.

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TFW you ERP with people and every time you sub the RP lasts for a good while but whenever you start to Dom it dies in a few messages.

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>>36168931
Yea, I don't do the stutter no brain stuff or often at least. Too played out, I usually go for an excitable but inquisitive style.

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I still describe myself as a sub but chatting with partners just seems so much better when I have control. Maybe I should do it more often.

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>>36169051
I find the nervous stuttering sub to be cute every once in the while, but sometimes a tsundere sub is good as well
>"Just fuck me already, idiot!"

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>posting your kik in a normie place
>getting around 150 messages

feels weirdly nice even if I respond to just a few... men are simple but watching them get excited is nice.

>>36169057
Or stick with gentlemen (like me) who respect and care for you.

>>36168321
>tfw you're the rough kind of dom your gf really likes and got a feel for her boundaries
Feels pretty good.

>>36168087
Where do you go and find these bdsm communities? I tried fetlife but it's awful.

>>36169248
for online partners there's a bunch of (ew) subreddits with many users. Fetlife is trying to be like a social site but I just message people for real life hookups

>>36169185
Do you have any experience with domming, anon? Curious to hear stories and such

>>36168087
>>36168165
>>36168321

> females
> thinking they can be the dom ones

wew lads


Stop talking to pathetic fags who can't make you squirm after their every whim

>>36169291
Are there actually women there though? I always thought it was going to be a sausage fest.

>>36169326
it's obviously mostly guys, and every post I make gets a lot of sausage attention, but girls are there as well. If you're articulate, you should be able to find something sooner or later.

>>36169324
from my experience, women in eRP tend to be more verbose and thoughtful instead of just looking for a quick nut. Nothing wrong with either, of course. But it seems fitting to let that kind of person dom.

>>36168087
fake photoshoped pantyhose disgust me

>>36169404

Most guys suck at domming especially online since they lack intelligence and cohesion in the overall narrative, hence my first post


> inb4 some ''dom'' gets to ''suck my dick'' in 2 minutes...

>>36169404
>it's obviously mostly guys, and every post I make gets a lot of sausage attention, but girls are there as well. If you're articulate, you should be able to find something sooner or later.
To be blunt, it sounds like another waste of my time if it's that crowded with dudes. Like /soc/ getting you crowded out in a tide of dicks.

>>36169554
haven't been there a lot but seems right... I don't know if there's a place dominated by thirsty girls, though.

>>36169291
Fuck it might as well ask. As a nervous sub trying to get into this what's the best way to start out. Are male subs in demand?

>>36169675
Depends if you're talking about ERP or online hookups or if you're a faggot

>>36169604
I doubt there is such a thing, as soon as a place appears it'd get stormed by thirsty dudes.

>>36169725
>>36169675
Makes me wonder the ratio of male/female doms

>>36169675
if you mean IRL, it can depend on your area - where I live there's quite a few lovely ladies offering to take in a sub. On the Internet it's also quite popular, but don't worry too much. Just be creative and try to maintain your personality, instead of just following orders blindly.

>>36169725
I prefer women and I guess ERP for now is what I'm looking for.

>>36169788
I think men are more likely to appear as dom, but as I said that often ends up dissapointing. Most girls I've seen are subs, but some still manage to make it interesting, taking it to the extreme.

>submissive pieces of shit
>thinking they're entitled to good erp partners

You're all trash.

>>36169880
Are you one of those people who think being a sub = lazy? It really varies a lot, and one of the reason men made me bitter is they always counted on me to just entertain them.

>>36169903

You will never be a real sub if you are not picking doms that can really kick the degrading up a notch in the way it feels for you

>>36169853
Yeah, I'd thought more guys would be dom, but this place made me question if male subs are a lot more common. If you're >>36169291 btw I'm curious if you're male or female and if it's actually difficult to get someone on fetlife
Just wanna know if gender there impacts your luck, I never got anything out of it

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I wonder how many people here posted something looking for an actual ERP partner.
Of course I w-wouldn't do anything like that!

>>36169952
Shit, I wouldn't mind finding a person like that. Just assuming they understand what makes me melt and use it well.

>>36169955
I'm a transgirl which I guess complicates this a bit. Usually I don't hit people up by myself and I still get some messages... if you're a guy it's probably harder, I can't tell.

>tfw too self-conscious to ERP

It felt kike I was embarrassing myself the few times I've done it. I always have to ruin the mood with humour to remind myself and the other person that I'm not taking it cringe-tier seriously.

>>36170095
Same to an extent. Every time I think about I tell myself what the fuck am I doing. I feel like I'm embarrassing myself then become disgusted with the situation.

>>36170084

I'm >>36169952

I don't do trans or you'd be howling at night (and I'm still talking ERP)

>>36170095
yeah it's obviously cheesy, but as long as it can be fun as well, I don't mind! Some people are really into it though.

>>36170155
lol that's fine with me, find yourself a nice slut anon

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>>36169988
H-haha yeah who would go to an /r9k/ thread to look for a boy to erp with that'd just be weird

>>36170461
You wouldn't want a nice boy to ERP with?

>>36170511
I'm >>36170084 and I could be looking for nice subby boys if you're interested.

>>36170461
send pictures and I'll top you

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>>36169180
>men are simple
Men are hard wired to want to fuck every non ugly woman, so they put a bit of effort into hitting on every single one they encounter. How much effort do you think it took for each individual man to send you an "ayy bby how u doing"?
Stop being so smug roastie, the only thing you'll ever be to anyone is a platform for potential sexual satisfaction, so there's really no need to see yourself as some kind of nextlevel puppet master

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I wonder how many people here posted something looking for an actual ERP partner.

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>>36170642
I'm looking for an actual erp partner...

>>36170559
Sure I'd love to be your subby boy!

>>36170149
>>36170159
I've recently begun streaming games to an audience of three or four people on average, and I find I'm not able to create a sense of immersion. It feels awkward to read out the dialogue in any voice but my own. My commentary is nothing but peanut-gallery observations and jokes.

>>36170743
submellie on Kik, you can hit me up.

>>36170566
I guess my tone can sound too condescending, I don't have a problem with simple responses, just men who think they're great doms when in fact they're not. Sexual satisfaction is my goal as well, so hey.

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>>36170739
I'm >>36169988
I wouldn't mind ERPing with you :o

>>36170739
I'm sorry for your plight. But do you think I don't have anything better to do than indulging your needs?

>>36170829
I'm willing to work on being a dom, but it works both ways, you got to give decent feedback

>>36170931
hey, no problem with that. Some guys seem completely convinced they're doing everything right, some are willing to learn. Also I don't mind being a roastie to random men

Will erotic roleplaying rob me of my innocence?

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>>36170917
maybe! What stuff are you into?

>>36170963
Fair cop I suppose.

>>36170993
Yes, definitely. You shouldn't do it or you'll be ruined for marriage.

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>>36171016
I'm into dudes; I can be dom or sub, experienced in both. I'd also like a friend I can talk to as well as lewd with

>tfw too shy and insecure to erp
I want to try but anytime I think about doing it I get nervous and afraid of messing things up for the other person.

>>36171228
Just find someone who is understanding, I know what saying: I used to always worry too much.

>>36168087
Kill (you"re) sel(ves)f immediately

It's called roleplaying for a reason, you can act like someone that you aren't, and that's half the fun. Don't Mary Sue yourself in and just have fun, none of it's real so don't get attached

GET ON DA FLOOR AND SUCK THIS DICK, BITCH!

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>>36171208
hmm, I'm a sub but I'm only really into feminine guys maybe twinks, and especially if they're weebs!

>>36168087
*smirks*

>>36171431
I'm a feminine guy (shaved my legs today god help my soul) who likes watching anime :)

>>36168087
>When gay niggas try to act like females and e-rp with other guys

How does one find people to erp with?

>>36172464
I usually wind up ERPing in MMO's which is pretty hit or miss too

I've had some amazing encounters and some pretty lame ones. I like that it's strictly character to character but at the same time there can only be so much you can hope to find in a situation like that, expectations cant really be through the roof

I'm female but prefer to play male and ERP from the male perspective since somehow that's a little more exciting for me. Don't really care if its straight or gay or about the others character gender but what I do hate is that I definitely noticed a lot of guys who ERP as female don't actually know how a womans body works.
I can always tell when they're a virgin or just really really bad at sex when they're just trying to rush and get fucked shallow and quick

I guess that's one of my only complaints. Which isn't really fair to have, I don't blame them and it's not like they'll ever know I'm not actually a guy anyway and that I'm judging their poor skills over it but still

>>36172861
>a lot of guys who ERP as female don't actually know how a womans body works.
ok now I'm interested, do you have stories of this?
I paid attention in sex ed lol so seeing gross ignorance about sex is funny

>>36172943
Mainly it's things like wanting their cervix hit (ow??), fingering themselves with long nails or still wanting me to finger with claws (jesus fucking christ ow), fingering over rubbing which most women who masturbate tend to gently push down on and rub their clit in circles not just shove a full fist in their vagina and ahegao over it-little things like that are usually huge indicators when a guy isn't experienced at all or just not very good

I usually try to steer them in the right direction by staying in control though and I actually had a guy say that our ERP sessions were improving his sexlife with his wife to the point where she told him he should ERP more often since he was trying some of the things we "did" together. Probably thought I'm actually really good or something. Nope, just not male.

>>36173223
Oh lol I get the cervix thing, makes me wince hard. And nails? How don't they see that's a problem? It's obvious.

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