robots what the fuck is wrong with me >get gf >actually

Try smoking weed beforehand.

I have the same thing because there's to much shit going on in my head.

How did you get a gf OP?

Also, one thing I've learned about myself. Just because a girl is objectively an 8/10 doesn't mean you're into her or attracted to her. Tbh I've noticed that I'm usually attracted to really skinny girls but I only get hard and horny for fat girls.

>>36152853
Happened to me when I started having sex, OP. She was also an 8/10 but boner loss eventually went away on its on and now I always have rock hard boners. still can't cum during sex

>>36152853
Maybe you're just not sexually attracted to her, that's the simplest explanation. The sex parts of your brain just aren't into her. Even though the conscious part of you recognizes her hotness, it doesn't matter.

Literally take some ecstasy.. Should help with whatever nerves you have or whatever that's keeping you from staying hard.

>>36152889
weed really jacks up my anxiety and i just spend 3 hours alone wanting to kill myself

>>36152915
dude i dont know i was on acid one night and got drunk with my friend and started talking with this girl off tinder. ya i dunno like my dick gets hard but as soon as anything starts happening i go limp

>>36152923
fuck dude she started joking about it yesterday as if it was no big deal and i nearly jumped in front of a car i think i might go ask my doc for viagra but dont they only give that to old dudes

>>36152999
Just keep at until your dick works or she leaves you lol. If you still get morning wood and get boners before sex it's most likely mental shit

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>>36152959
i tried cocaine but it made it worse :( isnt ecstasy like the same type of upper

>>36152927
no dont say that :(

Try pulling your foreskin gently. This might help you get an erection because it'll stimulate the stretch receptors of your ridged band and thereby signal that it's time to get the blood flow going down there.

this is god's punishment for attempting to have non-procreative sex.

Try NoFap and then plant your seed deep into her womb for the creation of children.

First times? Happened to me too
Probably just performance anxiety.
Could you manage strong erections before when masturbating?

>>36153088
i can get a boner fine and hold it for 30 mins+

>>36153172
ya my boner works fine when im touching it

am i fucking gay u guys like sometimes i jerk to tranny porn but 99% of the time its guy-girl shit i thought i was straight

>>36153258

Yeah, but if you're dealing with actually wanting to get the boner, when you're going to have sex, it's a little different than just getting one and going with it.

>>36152889
Weed it's terrible for your libido wtf are you talking about

>>36153504

Helps a ton for me.

I've got ADD and weed helps keep my dick hard as steel when i get a little distracted.

Anyone else super insecure about their dick that they feel they'll never properly satisfy their gf and the anxiety makes your dick limp?

>tfw pencil dick

op what you have to do it set the mood. your anxiety of not getting it up is actually causing you to not get it up. focus on the girl, extend the foreplay, and desu just tell her. trust me man, telling her really does take a burden off of your shoulders. im guessing she didnt get with you for your looks so you gotta at least communicate with her. she obv wants you and desu, unless shes a straight up bitch she will be responsive at the LEAST. you can work from there. this is genuine advice too OP

>>36154023
my shit is 3.5" long boss i feel your pain

>>36152959
>>36152959
Don't tell him that.

I was having a foursome where I couldn't get it up because of ecstasy.

>inb4 reeee chad

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>>36154127
Fuck, I feel really insecure at 5inchs, the worst part is its somehow socially acceptable to make fun of small dicks, but god forbid you "fatshame" or "slutshame" . Stupid fucking women

>>36152853
Casual sex is a really bad meme
So is sex before marriage and 7/10 and above women. Try actually becoming attached to a person not a picture.

Well until your normalized around having sex the thought or act of it can be so stressful it's hard to maintain an erection.. Pretty much how everyone is losing their virginity

you are used to the solitary aspect of masturbation. used to your own touch and pace and all the things you know about yourself already.
the feeling of intercourse/oral/a hand job not of your own will take some getting used to particularly if you're a twenty-something virgin.

it's fairly obvious but try not to focus on getting hard or reaching orgasm. you can focus on the different sensations and come to appreciate them, as well as the emotions and feelings of whoever your partner is.

>>36152853
Yeah thats a problem...anxiety probably. Go to Dr and tell about it, most likelly a viagra prescription will be in order.

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thanks robots u guys really made me feel better about this tonight i think its gunna be ok

>>36154939
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You don't need medication lol.

Anxiety ED is the most common thing in the world.

Until sex becomes a normal every day thing, when it loses its magic, it's going to happen

Even Chad Thundercock had the same problem losing his virginity. It's just what happens.

When people tell you to explain it to her, they're right in a way. Don't just say something like you have an anxiety flaccid dick, just say you're kinda nervous.

Do what turns you on. Get hard making out? Get naked, make out, put the condom on, make out, try putting it in, make out when that fails, try again, it will happen, just don't worry too much

>>36153258
>porn
Found your problem. Cut it out especially if it's habitual use.

>>36152889
I thought I was addicted to masturbation, then I quit smoking weed for two fucking days and I can't even get it up.

>>36152959
Because all the weed is laced with amps anyway