how do i make friends that care about me
i don't want a boyfriend or someone that'll love me like that, but i really want someone that wants to do things and talk to me about stuff
i always end up getting attached to people even though they don't care about me. i don't know what i'm doing wrong and i'm really lonely.
>>36130515
>i don't want a boyfriend
>i always end up getting attached to people
you sound like a retard do everyone a favor, and never make a thread again.
>>36130542
what's wrong with getting attached to people
i just end up caring a lot about people that spend time with me
relationships are scary too
doesn't anyone wanna be friends
>>36130609
Yes anon but what are your interest hobbies whatever, post contact maybe
>>36130657
i like video games and cute things and drawing and candy
what kind of contact stuff
>>36130609
>doesn't anyone wanna be friends
sure I'll be friends with you
>>36130712
>drawing
are you good at drawing?
>>36130515
Be interesting. Not yourself, you're horribly boring.
Grow as a person or come up with a facade, it's what normies do.
>>36130731
i'm not that good at drawing but i like doing it a lot
i started drawing cause i thought it'd help me make friends easier
>>36130746
i don't know how to do that
>>36130718
hello
>>36130712
steam/discord/whatever your main outlet for friendship is
>>36130784
I'm Manly#8346!!
>>36130712
Those seem to be the same as my hobbies too, what sort of cute things do you like? I make some artsy craft stuff and cook some cute desserts with decorations from icing
>>36130816
>I'm Manly#8346!!
are you manly? show us how manly you are!
>>36130838
i'm not that manly n stuff
>>36130777
Find things that are interesting and complex. Look at the stuff that the guys you'd like to befriend do.
Try to find a hobby that is in both groups, or compromise. Something less interesting? Weirder friends?
It's got to be something you really care about.
It also helps to develop at least superficial interest for inane shit that everybody knows about: soccer is a must-know in England, for instance. Maybe not enjoy it, but be aware of the news, respect it, so to say.
>>36130863
HOLD IT RIGHT THERE BUDDY
i have the same picture
>>36130883
those filenames are from hate chan right? what board?
>>36130907
no they're from gelbooru
i spend too much time there
>>36130832
I like anime and reading manga.
I kind of like cooking too. I made a malaysian dish recently! It was really delicious and it made my roommates smile.
>>36130873
I think that's why I started drawing mostly! People that draw cute things must be really nice n stuff so I wanna be friends with them.
>>36130873
>It also helps to develop at least superficial interest for inane shit that everybody knows about: soccer is a must-know in England, for instance. Maybe not enjoy it, but be aware of the news, respect it, so to say.
what's the point for this?
I don't want to be friends with people who like soccer
>>36130949
Sounds good, you have starting ground. The next part would be finding a community to share your hobbies and (very important) talk to one or two that look cool. If you achieve a bit of conversation they might open the doors to more people.
>>36130968
It's just to achieve the open-mindedness that normies have. Being unable to talk about every topic is a mark of awkwardness that even robots reject on occasion, and it's easier to bee urself if you can handle a conversation.
>>36130515
I'll be your friend. What kind of games do you play? What kind of video games? Got any hobbies?
My Discord is Fuji#0553
>>36130931
>no they're from gelbooru
how do I get into gelbooru?
>tfw want friends
>tfw doesn't want Kemono Friends
In all due seriousness, it gets lonely being the only person around your age in a community of less than 100.
>>36130609
post contact anon it's always nice to make new friends!
>>36130949
Your interests are similar to mine and I have no friends.
>>36131075
what do you mean? you need to know what tags to use and how to press enter
i'd recommend going for a general tag like touhou and looking at different tags listed on the left
it's really easy to use once you get the hang of it, i don't use anything else because pixiv's a mess to browse and i'm an uncultured swine for twitter
>>36130712
>i like video games and cute things and drawing and candy
do you also want to learn Japanese anon? those are very similar to my interests>tfw took a drawing class in college and dropped it because I was too lazy to draw
I don't think I will ever be good at drawing things ;_;
>>36131128
Not that guy, but do you know much Japanese so far? I also want to learn it.
>>36131384
>Not that guy, but do you know much Japanese so far? I also want to learn it.
Not really no :(
d-do you want to learn together?
>>36131427
That would be cool. I know Hiragana and Katakana but not much of anything else.
>>36131473
>That would be cool. I know Hiragana and Katakana but not much of anything else.
yeah I'm pretty much on the same level desu
post contact?
>>36131491
I only have Steam http://steamcommunity.com/id/j-a-k/
OP, I draw stuff so you add me too.
chomp#8799
Someone be my friend.
>>36131099
but i did n stuff!
I'm Manly#8346
Anyone here FFXIV? Gilgamesh NA specifically? I'm 4 days into the game and don't understand shit, in critical need of friends. Send help.
>>36130515
>wanting friends
I don't understand why some people are so desperate to have company. I actually feel more uncomfortable at the thought of becoming close to anyone. Maybe I'm fucked in the head.
>>36131427
>learn together
Like that would be efficient at all.
>>36133430
You are right, what's the point of classes?
Everyone should just self learn, definitely more efficient
>>36133471
Classes actually have someone who knows their shit, not another fucktard as clueless as the one that they're supposed to teach.