>never text anybody first not to seem desperate
>nobody texts me first because they don't give a flying fuck about me
hey i share that feel bud
>text people first
>get no response
Well fuck me i guess
>>36126266
>hey I'll text you later anon, we'll go get something to eat
6 mo later i'm still waiting
Remember the saying, "If you can't say anything nice about anyone, don't say anything at all."
What does it mean when no one has anything to say to you?
Hint: Suicide.
>>36126266
Or middle ground
>text them, but never have more than 2 texts hanging
>everyone else thinking the same thing
Iktf, OP.
That's the eternal catch-22 about being a foreveralone. I haven't texted anyone in fucking years because of this shit, also my texting game sucks.
>call new friend
>talk for a bit
>they say "hey i gotta go, call me later."
>call them again
>goes straight to voicemail from that point on
Someone has to humble themselves
Don't make the same mistake I have, OP.
I started this when I was 8. I just stopped IM'ing people first to see if they wanted to speak with me.
None of them did.
And then I lost all my friends because I didn't know how to start it back up again.
>>36126266
>Thought I was normie tier
>great circle of 25ish "friends"
>one day decide "hmm I wonder how long it would take if I never texted any of these guys before I get texts asking where I'm at and if I wanma hang out"
>That was 3 years ago
>I never got a text
yep
>>36126498
this is how i lost all "friends" in my dorm during college
>have same deal
>except it happened three times
I don't even want friends anymore, they all suck