Hi, robots. I need your advice, and if you are a medfag/shrinkfag, your expertise is more than needed.
>I got really close to that girl I was interested in
>She was cute, smart and all
>I suspected that she might have had a low self esteem and personnal problems but
>I didn't expect so many of them
>Everyone thinks she's in love with me
>I'm the only one that can make her smile
>She's spending tons of time with me
>Autistically signaling that I wasn't friendzonned
>Then she confessed a lot of things to me, and her friends added some to the pile
---So---
>Prone to lie on stupid things
>Had a rough family life
>Got touched when she was younger
>Is cutting
>Thinks she's shit
>Thinks she has a personnality disorder but doesn't really know since she hasn't seen a doctor
>She won't trust anybody except me (and her friend, but only a bit) (at least that's what she says)
>She has no medication
I love her, robots. I need to help her. I'm lost, I wish I could do something. Please, feel free to give me your advice and ask me questions
Idk if this is fake or not but anyways
Dood if you're the only person who can make her happy and you love her too it's obvious that you should tell her how you feel
She needs to independently find an identity separate from her family who treated her poorly for starters. You should do a variety of activities with her, you can work out, go to the zoo, cook, anything random that is interesting. These experiences will help her to craft a singular identity, that is, separate from her upbringing.
>>36114583
Dude.
>>36114425
Go low key on a relationship until she gets her shit sorted out. Codependency is not a solid foundation for a relationship of any kind. Just hang out, don't fucking "tell her how you feel" or any of that kind of nonsense.
OP, you need to immediately break up. Borderline girls destroy your life AND you cannot help them. Get out of it before it's too late. Everyone that went through the same shit knows how you feel and knows it doesn't feel right. If you stay, your life will be ruined. I guarantee you that to 100%. Please believe me. PLEASE FOR YOUR SAKE JUST BREAK UP, ITS LIKE THAT FOR EVERYONE, THERE ARE NO SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE RELATIONSHIPS, THEY ALL TURN TO SHIT AND THERE IS NO CURE NOR A WAY OUT TO "SAVE" THESE PEOPLE. THERE ARE MILLOIONS OF PEOPLE THAT HAD RELATIONSHIPS WITH BORDERLINE GIRLS AND NONE WORK. GIVE UP. GET OUT. GIVE UP. GET OUT. GIVE UP. GET OUT. GIVE UP. GET OUT. GIVE UP. GET OUT.
>>36114906
Yeah but they'll get you get in the guts even when they don't really feel like it.
>>36114906
I'm not with her yet.
>>36114583
why would it be fake ?
>>36114906
>>36115543
(still OP here) btw I'm borderline aswell. I mean, not as much as her, but I still have depression and a crippling handwashing OCD (even though I made tons of progress on that one)
>>36115590
Keep pushing me
Keep pushing me
Keep pushing my love...Come on baby
Come on baby
live happily ever after
>>36114425
http://vocaroo.com/i/s1XAEgHftGyU
:)
Go stick your dick in her, that cunt has borderline personality disorder. You won't last more than a few months since she'll end up losing interest in you and try to shape you to be her bitch, might as well fuck her while she's still in the cuddly stage and then switch countries, she'll be a real clingy stalker after the breakup
>>36114425
>getting close enough to a girl to speak to her
GET OUT FAGGOT GODDAMNIT I HOPE THAT YOUR WHORE KILLS HERSELF AND THAT YOU KILL YOURSELF AFTERWARDS