>perfectly know that there's no reason to be shy or anxious when doing something
>still feel that way
Why is that? What does one have to realize before one can fully stop being shy and anxious about social situations and life in general?
>>36094323
Because you damn well know deep down that there is a reason for it.
Maybe loose self preservation instinct?
One might need to be completely nihilistic.
>>36094368
just stoking paranoia or being unnecessarily cryptic?
please elaborate
>>36094490
Your mind is essentially trying to save you because it realizes you're not ready to step out of your comfort zone. Anxiety/shyness is a defense mechanism practiced passively by the brain when It predicts an unfortunate outcome.
Its your brain releasing chemicals. Itd be strange to ignore them completely.
Maybe the fear is cus you needa feel slightly on ur toes when talkin to females and not get completely put under their spell, lest the alpha male chimp swingin thru the trees catches you from behind unawares and tears your cock and balls clean off.
when will someone invent anti-anxiety meds that won't fuck your brain over
>>36094593
It's not talking to women related. It's general anxiety and shyness about life.
>>36094817
Hit the bong
>>36094323
Yeah I used to feel like I could just use pure willpower to get over some of my problems but it doesn't work so well. Even if I can force myself of my comfort zone, I can't will away my nervousness, sweat, tenseness, etc.