I'm worried that I am bad at dating people. I usually don't

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kinda ya

girls like me when i am comfortable but being in a relationship makes me too anxious to be comfortable

its like the fruit is right there but i cant take it

Oh yeah I'm a super tall white handsome Chad so I can just pick up a girl any time I want I just walk up to her and say "Hey you look cute wanna hang out?" and they giggle and smile. It's so fucking easy bro.

That's why I hang out all day on /r9k/ being depressed.

>/chad9k/

I kind of feel the same. I'm comfortable yet always worried they will get bored of me because I'm not keeping it entertaining. Its like I feel that my company isn't enough, yet they wouldn't have dated me if they didn't like my company. It's so contrarian.

>>36058880
Yes actually I have the same problem. With most girls I can't even get a second date but if I do, it usually fucks up later.

I think the main problem is that I'm fucking boring really. Especially when it comes to talking on kikebook. I just can't. I run out of subjects to discuss and due to the fact that I have a lot of shit to do over the day I hardly even message the girls anyway.

>>36058880

I've made a personal rule not to send further messages to girls once they don't reply to my first replies to their original message. Not letting intrusive thoughts stemming from insecurity and self-pity are great ways to not feel so needy in relationships.

If you're apathetic in your nature it can easy enough not to get attached so easily.

>>36059192
This is a good rule actually. I do this as well as not messaging the girls after the date. If she doesn't message me then it's 90% chance she won't even bother responding to me if I message her first.

>>36058979
Haha, while girls like me when I'm confident, I think that being comfortable is actively bad for me. Perhaps we should swap places xD

>>36059017
>everyone on /r9k/ being a khv
Come on man, you know that's just not true.

>>36059081
Indeed. I occasionally take a look at myself and then ask why anyone would ever date me when there is so much imperfect with me, but then I remember that that's not how attraction works and that I shouldn't feel insecure.

>>36060318
kinda curious, how does attraction work?

I have no idea how to balance spending time with them and being alone. One girl says I'm too clingy and the other gets mad if I don't text her for one day. Shits confusing. If you're a girl (female) and you're reading this, learn to make up your minds

>>36060920
I think the usual is just to check up on them at least once a day

if they dont respond, dont reply till they do