>finally ready to move out and start my own life and get away from my toxic family
>suddenly father is dying
>mother is guilting me into staying and supporting them because she won't be able to afford living
>>35925207
If you can't gird your loins against a guilt trip
you are going to be emotionally enslaved by your awful mother until she dies.
And by then you'll be nothing
>>35925223
but I don't want her to suffer
I just also want to go far far away from them
>>35925328
She'll manage on her own.
Or she'll die.
If you choose to suffer so she doesn't, will that make you happier?
Fuck your toxic family they deserve everything bad.
>>35925499
they don't deserve to live in a car though
my one sister is a low functioning autistic, I always wonder what will happen to her in times of crisis and it seems like crisis is approaching
>>35925508
Yeah, if you don't get away your entire life will be ruined.
So stick around and help your toxic terrible family at the cost of your own happiness.
>>35925207
Fucking leave already.
It seems like the right thing to do now, but what will you have by the end of this? Do you think your mother really gives a shit, or that this will earn you anything?
A lot of people on this thread are wise enough to know this is a bad idea, so does your gut. And, you still need to debate this with yourself, and 4chan, despite the fact most people would give almost everything to help family. It's a sign. Get the fuck away.