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>work with a legit 8/10 qt >our offices are right next

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>work with a legit 8/10 qt
>our offices are right next to each other
>she's kind of shy but nice to everyone
>always talks to me and makes an effort at conversation even with my autism
>likes to watch documentaries
>likes to cook
>likes to draw
>every time I ask her what she's doing on weekends it's spending time with her family or on projects
>slowly starting getting closer to her
>start to really, really like her
>somehow get to a conversation about our lives back college
>tells me about all the partying she did
>tells me it was just a phase and how she's glad she got it out of her system
>she seems like the type that easily succumbs to peer pressure
>definitely had a few one night stands
>probably participated in a gangbang or two
>maybe even had an abortion

I don't even know why I try
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>>35923642
Go on, anon. Trust her. She is after all just a woman. What could possibly go wrong, eh?
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>probably participated in a gangbang or two
>maybe even had an abortion

That's a pretty big jump lol.
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>>35923642
Sorry to hear that man. Don't fall into her trap.
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This why all you fucks on this board are so unhappy, you complain about being alone but when you meet a girl you actually like you obsess over what maybe happened in the past. If she's disease free and isn't a whore now why do you care?
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?

humans . humans make mistake u fuck. u are not a saint or even normal. go try approach her more and express your feeling.
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>>35923858
>isn't a whore

Well there's your problem right there
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>>35923795
Do you understand how sororities work? She's definitely been in a gangbang
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>>35923642
Time to embrace your destiny as a beta provider.
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>>35923642
Don't shit where you eat, anon. Also, go out with other women to take your mind off this chick.
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>>35924201
I'm no expert on greek life but I'm fairly certain that's not how sororities work.
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>>35924435
Expert here, sororities are the literal whore houses of college campuses
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Maybe it's for the best for OP to leave her alone so she could find a guy that actually doesn't give a toss, so they could be happy together without the other party obsessing if the girl had an abortion just because she partied like a normal teen.
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>>35923858
I think it stems from how the the issue of the girl's 'purity' is used to avoid anyone with experience. virgin bots are terrified of being judged by a more experienced sexual partner, probably in large part because porn trolls you into thinking good sex is a macho competition whereas it's more of an intensely sensual, caring exchange. When you're wrapped around somebody you like and they like you and you're inside each other, all those stats and concerns just melt away.

Go for it, OP. She sounds great.
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>>35923858
it's actually because robots are so fucking lazy and STUPID that the only girls they end up talking to are the ones they are pretty much forced to. this girl is way out of his league. he has no chance. he's a fucking pile of dirt to her. but if he talked to more women he might have a chance, especially in the process of learning to socialize.
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>>35924496
>>35924201

t. virgin who didn't actually talk to girls on campus

the DORMS were the """"""""""""""""whore""""""""""""""""' houses, aka where most people resided

or as normal people called them "houses where people had normal social lives"

sorry you didn't get to have sex in college like normal folk
>>35923858
+1
>>35923642
maybe if you wern't such a loser you'd have those experiences in college
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>>35923642
Just ask her out, anon
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Suppose I wanted to go to one of these college "parties." Where would one even begin?
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>>35925226
>that pic

She call me Mr. Boombastic
Say me fantastic touch me on the back
She says I'm Mr. Ro
Mantic, say me fantastic
Touch me on the back, she says I'm Mr. Ro
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>>35925405
get friends and become part of the ingorup
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>>35923858
Would you give kids to a girl who used to torture babies but says she's glad she got it out if her system and that she doesn't do it anymore?

Would you hire a guy who claims he took all his previous employers to court but that he doesn't do it anymore?

Would you invite to your house someone who claims that he stole from all his friends but he doesn't do it anymore?
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>>35925617
only on r9k will you get compared to torturing babies to having normal sex lives
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>>35923642
You should NEVER shit where you eat. Also OP it doesn't really sound like she likes you as anything other than a friend. How come you put her on such a pedestal?
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>>35925636
>being a whore = having a normal sex life
>ignoring other examples
Anyway, missing the point. It's not about judging them or not about whether what they did was right or wrong. It's about decision taking. Contrary to popular belief, someone's past is a pretty good prediction of someone's future. If you want a monogamous longlasting relationship, it'd be prettt stupid to date someone who obviously doesn't value this as much.

People lie to others and themselves all the time. Paying attention to their actions instead of their words is a much better way to predict their behaviour in the future.
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>>35925636
having 30+ partners is not normal, and even if it was, it wouldn't make it okay. having hookworm is normal in Africa, doesn't make it a good thing
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>>35925811
having a hookworm is detirmental to your helth
>>35925785
>>35925811
also most normal and social guys/girls have 30+ partners by the time they graduate

seriously you guys are super sheltered
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>>35925636
You completely missed the point there. Let me spell it out for you.

What makes you believe she won't revert back to being a whore again if she once was? The CDC says that the more past sexual partners a woman has had the more likely her marriages are to fail. I know you're just trying to act like a normie to troll, but you have to actually put forward decent arguments.
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>>35925859
>also most normal and social guys/girls have 30+ partners by the time they graduate
Statistically false. The average number of sexual partners someone has over their whole lives is about 5-7.
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>>35925785
>>35925811
>>35925879

to put this into perspective if we count 2 partners per year since highschool junior year we end up with 12 partners by graduation of college.

people get horny and have sex, it doesnt mean they cheat

you guys really are far gone, I don't know why I can back here
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>>35925902
>most normal social people
also people lie and you have a lot of beta guys and ugly girls who don't get past 3

people who have a good stable LTR dont get high

however if you're single in college and not ugly you will rack up 10+
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>>35925904
>people get horny and have sex, it doesnt mean they cheat
Statistics say it does. Guess you're the one who's sheltered. Or at least naive.
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>>35925859
>also most normal and social guys/girls have 30+ partners by the time they graduate

Fucking used-up pieces of shit.

>inb4 "bitter virgin"

I've had casual sex and now reject any offers. I'll stay alone for the rest of my life since I am not a hypocrite.
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>>35923642
>working in an office
fuck off from here filthy normalfag.
I swear to god man, I will fucking electrocute you with the help of mother nature if you don't leave me alone with your normalfag shit.
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>>35923758
Fuck you. You're putting Op in a shitty situation. You did the right thing in avoiding her Op.
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>>35923858
Once a whore, always a whore you naive faggot retard.
Now fuck off already and stop with your low-energy bait.
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>>35925925
>people who have had more options in the past know its better to be single than be with someone you don't actually love
BREAKING NEWS AT 11

if you've ever dated a virgin past highschool you'd understand why that chart is a load of shit and why you actually want the girl to have some experience

>>35925928
>Fucking used-up pieces of shit.
t. bitter late blooming with a late lost virginity male
>I've had casual sex and now reject any offers.
why, its normal
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>>35925965
>can't detect sarcasm

C'mon dude...
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>>35925859
Imagine what having 30+ partners does to your idea of the value of sex. It's the most physically intimate thing two people can do together, and they've shared that with random people they probably had no emotional connection with. That has a big impact on future relationships and just what sex means to people.

Look at your average woman these days, who has so little regard for her own self respect that they walk around wearing practically nothing to get desperate attention because that's how they've validated themselves.

They've lost purpose and turn to hedonism to fill that.
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>anons trying to convince a bluepilled chad whiteknight

Why are you wasting your time ? They come here to laugh and you give them (you)s. Let them have a taste, and when they get chocolate colored babies, let them come back here so that we can call them failed normies and cucks
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>>35923642
Op run, she going to use her devil pussy magic to draw you in. After this, you're going to get something fucked up, and she's going to ruin your life.
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>>35925989
>assuming it was sarcasm

C'mon dude...
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>>35925982
>bitter virgin
oh look, another toastie roastie who is butthurt that people here at least call her out on her degeneracy.
You can go out of here and pretend you're not a filthy whore with no worth but you will always be reminded here, roastie. Now have a nice day with Tyrone and Chad.
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>>35925904
>>35925859
>pulling statistics out of your ass
Average is 6 different sexual partnes.

Also, still missing the point. It's not about judging them. It's just being pragmatic. If I want a stable relationship, I'm looking after girls who show the stability characteristic. If I value longlasting monogamous relationships, it's stupid to date girl who had instead shorterm/hookups and threesomes.

Basic shit.
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>>35925982
So then, you admit we're correct in assuming women who have had more sexual partners are more likely to cheat.

So then, you admit we're correct in saying OP should not get involved with that woman.

So then, you wasted your time being the devil's advocate just to get a little attention on a peruvian hacky sack board.

Feel retarded yet? You should.
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>>35925904
>I don't know why I can back here
I don't know why either, your opinion is worthless shit. You should leave.

bye
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>>35925226
>go to college
>commute from home to save money
>focus on my studies and finding work
>make sure to stay healthy and fit

I'm going to still end up having to choose between used goods or being alone aren't I? I bet 95% if the girls in dorms party and have sex. My only other option is getting a young girl from fucking Asia or something.
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>>35923858
Exactly this. They obsess over shit they can't change.

That's why I don't care what she's done in the past, if she's trying to do better now and trying to forget what happened, I'm in! I hate being alone all the time, it's depressing. Today is my day off, it's raining, and I will probably spend the whole day at home on 4chan and playing vidya while drinking a whole 24 pack of Bud Light for myself.

>tfw no legit 8/10 qt to spend the rest of the day with
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>>35925982
>why you actually want the girl to have some experience.
Kek, there used to be a time were this would be considered to be absolutely disgusting like hell but nowadays it's considered normal.
Cultural Marxism really did a number on you normie fucks, didn't it. Then you wonder why IT'S HAPPENING and that all you had to do was stop being a degenerate piece of shit and stop acting like a nigger.
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>>35925982
Just because it's normal doesn't mean it isn't disgusting.

The majority of girls my age (21) have all been burnt & are only looking for casual sex...that isn't my thing.
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>>35926131
Stop validating used up whores you stupid piece of crap, don't you fucking get what you're doing when you acknowledge them, let alone get together with them?
Do you still not understand why so many women are fucking worthless whores these days? Jesus Christ man, fucking cross yourself.
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>>35926039
It was sarcasm. I want to be patient with your autism but when you keep pushing it it gets real fucking annoying.
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i come to r9k sometimes to feel well-adjusted
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>>35926047
im actually a redpilled blackbot who knows what actually goes on in real life from my own eyes
>>35926014
and if you're in a relationship you want a girl who isn't a prude and is comfortable with relationship shit

also relationship sex is totally different than casual sex, and women can tell because

E M O T I O N S

vs

H O R N I N E S S
>>35926050
>>35926060
t. someone who hasn't taken a statistics course
for people who claim to be intelligent you guys really are dumb

especially because you cannot understand the fact the sample N is diluted with many Variables M that you wouldn't want to be with anyway, however if you took a sample of K of normal (aka not trash) middle class women who are attractive you'd be very surprised on the statistics
>>35926121
>>35926134
>>focus on my studies and finding work
good goyim work on that social contract youll take with your boss! you are your job! Dont have fun and indulge in actual human pleasures!
>>35926145
the majority of people at 21 want casual stuff period, and most of the girls who are single looking for relationships have something wrong with them as the good single girls who want relationships have been in LTRs since like 18
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>>35926121
>I'm going to still end up having to choose between used goods or being alone aren't I?
Oh yes, most definitely.

Only divine intervention will bring you your pure virgin waifu from out of the blue.
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>>35926181
>>35926121
it's only used goods if you consider wait in the corner for your food to be delivered to you instead of eating food at your own pace before you get to your main dish
>>35926181
>Only divine intervention will bring you your pure virgin waifu from out of the blue.
she'll be crazy I guarantee it.
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>>35926145
I'm also 21 and I've been interested in chicks at my school only to check out their Twitter or whatever and find out they're dumb whores.
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>>35926131
Only time when I would reconsider would be if she feels really fucking guilty about her past, willing to never talk about it and never tell anybody from now on

Acceptation bullshit like "glad i got it out of my system" is a huge no
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If I like her, she likes me and we have some compatibility, even if she was an actual prostitute I'd give her a chance. Even if it ends badly I'd rather have pain come from happiness ending than from out of control judgmental jealousy and a raging inferiority complex. That being said I'm 23 and never had a gf and my only attempt to get one was a disaster that still hurts to remember 2 and a half years later.

Let's be real, the only reason a lot of people here set impossible standards is so they can avoid a crippling fear of actual intimacy with another human being which is, ironically, also coupled with a strong need for it. It's a self sabotaging mentality I also have, but at least I acknowledge it and try to work on it instead of hoping for a magical perfect pure virgin gf to randomly materialize in my room.
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>>35926204
>she'll be crazy I guarantee it
the crazies are whores
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>>35925904
People also get excited and kill other people, it doesn't mean they are serial killers.

Or wait, does it? What are you a fucking animal?
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>>35926181
There HAS to be an alternative, I'm not joking this makes me actually want to die. I don't even care about the money, I'd rather be poor with a girl I care about.
>>35926204
I don't want to fuck around, all I want is one girl I can spend my life with.
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>>35926242
the crazies are both the statistical outliers of whores AND virgins.

why does a 22 year old attractive female end up a virgin? why would she suddenly want to lose it to a loser from 4chan?
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>>35926179
>if you took a sample of K of normal (aka not trash) middle class women who are attractive you'd be very surprised on the statistics
Christ, are you actually insinuating that middle class attractive women don't cheat? They are the main ones to take men to court and steal half their assets (along with upper class women, in fact).

You are pulling more and more bullshit out of your ass and it's getting laughable.

Answer this: Which is it, do middle class attractive women "know its better to be single than be with someone [they] don't actually love" (be whores) or do they not not cheat despite their number of sexual partners. Because you have said both and it can't be both. You know full well the answer is that whores who have many sexual partners ARE more likely to cheat on their spouse. You are denying it for attention and nothing else.

What a sad sack of shit you are.
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>>35926155
Get out of your basement and see the world through your eyes, not through a computer's screen, fucking loser. You'll never get laid with that kind of mentality, go back to watching your stupid Chinese cartoons fucking dweeb, life is not a movie where in the end of the road you'll meet a princess that will save your stupid ass from killing himself because of a long miserable life.

You can't change the past, deal with it, faggotass bitch
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>>35926230
>That being said I'm 23 and never had a gf and my only attempt to get one was a disaster that still hurts to remember 2 and a half years later.
Just want to bring a little self-awareness to your life that you seem to be lacking.

[Spoiler]You are a desperate loser. Stop. Get some help.
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>>35925904
>I don't know why I can back here
Oh no please don't leave as again you filthy nig... I mean friend.
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>>35926179
>yeah well these statistics don't apply to X population... Uhm... Because i say so!
>instead of extrapolating the closest population's result just trust my very subjective biased nonexpert opinion
>we dont have statistics for my specific population that i defined with autistic criteria, therefore not valid!
Fuck off
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>>35926263
>the crazies are both the statistical outliers of whores AND virgins
I'm sure you have citations and years of research into the matter to back this up.

>why does a 22 year old attractive female end up a virgin?
Shy but not easily manipulated or pressured, so that they don't get wiled by men who only want their bodies. Exactly as I say it.

>why would she suddenly want to lose it to a loser from 4chan?
It depends on the loser. Some of the people here are also pieces of shit who don't deserve someone like these hypothetical women.
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I think I need to stop coming here. All these people saying it's impossible to find an innocent girl is making my fucking blood pressure go up. It's at 200/130 right now.
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>>35926253
>I don't even care about the money
Women care about your money and your social standing. If you don't, chances are you will not find someone willing to be with you.

>I'm not joking this makes me actually want to die
And again, I've felt the exact same way. Only faith in the Universe's plan for me keeps me going and gives me hope, if you know what I mean.
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>>35926274
Yes, it seems much more reasonable to go back to hating every woman for having had sex with someone who is not me because that means they are vile and evil and want to swindle me into sucking other men's semen out of their vaginas.
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>>35926270
Raging normalfags' posts are always amusing
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>>35926270
>Get out of your basement and see the world through your eyes
I'm outside every day cycling like a mad man, so don't give me that shit-tier meme. You know what I see?
A lot of slutty acting TEENAGE girls who are talking like 40 year old veteran whores.

>You can't change the past, deal with it. faggotass bitch
We're reaching whiteknight levels that shouldn't even be possible.
>You'll never get laid with that kind of mentality, go back to watching your stupid Chinese cartoons fucking dweeb,
Nice assumption but I don't watch Anime nor do I read Mangas.
You're a pathetic cuck Tyrone, seriously just go necklace yourself already.
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>>35925982
I hate to reinforce the shitty ideology found on this board by contributing my post but here goes. I'm going to premise this straight away by saying I've gotten laid a fair amount in the last three years of my life and have had a small (sub 4) number of partners, a few of which were long term relationships. I mostly come here to troll but every now and then I feel down and get a cathartic feeling from being here. I'd say this is one of those cathartic times.

Love is not just some learned behavior that can be sustained through consistent reinforcement. There appears to be a distinctive set of hormones associated with romantic love. The most discussed of these is Oxytocin. Most of the stuff I know about it is just theoretical and (read: As far as I know) its impact on marriages or the social realm at large hasn't been explored in depth.

Apparently, the going idea is that the more partners a woman bonds with, the less effective Oxytocin and its friends are at encouraging long term bonds with new partners. Why this happens is not exactly known and in reading about it I've noticed there is no consensus about the mechanism of action. A woman's bonding ability might be like a canvas, meaning that any given partner who creates a very strong bond with her will make her less capable of bonding with future partners. Or it may be something as simple as more partners reducing the effectiveness of Oxytocin and other hormones in inducing a lasting bond.

Whatever the case, I like to believe the former idea because it is intuitive, having heard of women who would choose to remain widows after the deaths of their husbands. But maybe the truth is closer to the middle.
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>>35926356
it's a side effect of the black pill

don't worry, you'll eventually build up a tolerance
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>>35926393
I'll make good money, but I know it won't make me happy. I'll do whatever gets me the kind of girl I want. But I don't care about the money if I have nobody to use it with. What good is a vacation to go alone? My friends will inevitably get gfs and spend all their time with them.
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>>35926409
>hating every woman for having had sex with someone who is not me
>hating
Hatred is for betas. At least when aimed at specific people. The correct attitude is more akin to rue and disappointment.
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>>35926443
I'd rather be ignorant if I means having some hope and not spend all night shivering with frustration.
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>>35926246
t. bitter virgin

they'd be a serial sexor
>>35926253
you're too inexperienced to understand the fact a girl doesnt fall into your lap you have to sample until you find one you actually want to be with

thats why the dudes that get taken advantage of are the dudes who dont fuck around
>>35926293
>>35926268
seriously just take a simple statistics course

please, statistics 1 isn't even hard, and it would benefit you greatly

especially since apparently you think women who fuck around are somehow dumb and worthless so you've probably not even stepped foot on campus
>we dont have statistics for my specific population that i defined with autistic criteria, therefore not valid!
so you regularly pursue women from the ghetto sexually? should they be in your statistics?

what about the mormons?
what about the girls with no college degree?

seriously what did you stupid asses major in?
communications?
>>35926345
you are too naive, anyway there's no studies done on it because nobody with a graduate degree would waste time on it
>I'm sure you have citations and years of research into the matter to back this up.
seriously imagine writing a whole scholarly paper on this shit
>Shy but not easily manipulated or pressured, so that they don't get wiled by men who only want their bodies. Exactly as I say it.
many men who have sex with women don't just want their bodies, stop projecting your insecurities and hate of men who are successful with women onto them. If you are a late virgin you are doing something wrong or and you are sexually and probably socially repressed as well as having low experience which wont make a fun fulfilling relationship

you guys really are retarded
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>>35926487
all you have to do is go out and get laid, why do you have turn to escapism
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>>35926488
What does "sample" mean? I refuse to have sex with multiple girls but I'll do whatever else.
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>>35926488
You have 0 proof and are simply guessing your preferred population acts like you want them to for the sake of your argument. You're sad. I can't wait till some whore robs you.
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>>35926503
I don't fucking want to get laid, it makes me so fucking angry every time people tell me this. I want a serious fucking relationship and to get married.
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>>35926442
why would you want a girl to be in love with you only because of her hormones?

that was highschool shit when people would stay together ONLY because they dont want to be alone
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>>35926557
find what you actually like and what you'd be compatible with AKA GO MEET WOMEN AND HAVE INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM

there's a reason everyone doesn't marry their first GF
>>35926553
t. communications major who never steps foot outside
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>>35926455
we're 21 so it's really already kind of too late for us to find someone our own age

you'll have to find someone younger than you are, I imagine
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>>35926488
>you are too naive
and you're retarded, taking things too literally

anyway, I'm done talking to you, you subhuman IQ'd mold

>>35926553
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>>35925928
Obvious liar is obvious.
I doubt you've ever even kissed a girl.

>>35926159
>i come to r9k sometimes to feel well-adjusted

Same here. No matter how depressing my life gets, I can come in here and put things in perspective and remember that I actually have it really good.
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>>35926575
I DON'T WANT INTIMATE RELATIONSHIPS WITH THEM. I'd rather fucking die alone than have to fuck women I'm not going to stay with.
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>>35926557
in case you haven't been here long enough to have learned, such posters are called "normalshits" and nothing they say should ever been listened to or taken seriously. they have 0 self-awareness and 0 empathy. they are only good for being virtual voodoo dolls
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>>35926659
either that or trolls LARP'ing as normalfags
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>>35926648
>>35926618

because you know who you'd be compatible with the moment you meet them?

you think these dues tell these girls that they just want to fuck them?

jesus this place really fell down the shitter im glad my life improved since I left for college, or else id end up like you guys
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>>35926575
My major is almost certainly more rigorous than yours and I go to a top 20 uni. Stay retarded.
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>>35926575
Way to completely miss the point by skim reading. Oxytocin and some other key hormones encourage long term bonding. Weaken their effectiveness and you weaken the ability to even begin a long term bond, let alone maintain one. While Oxytocin is not the sole reason people fall in love it's naive to think it doesn't play an important role in relationships. It's very possible women who are exceedingly promiscuous are chemically dampening their ability to have happy long term relationships in the future.
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>>35926659
I have but this topic in particular drives me fucking nuts.
>>35926702
I've been doing just fine in college too, doesn't make you special.
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>>35926659
>in case you haven't been here long enough to have learned, such posters are called "normalshits" and nothing they say should ever been listened to or taken seriously. they have 0 self-awareness and 0 empathy. they are only good for being virtual voodoo dolls

Absolutely correct! If you're upset about being a virgin, the last thing you should do is take advice from people who aren't. Listening to raging butthurt permavirgins is clearly the way to go.
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>>35926677
It really seems most are LARPing as normalfags. Normalfags don't put this much effort into mental gymnastics.
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>>35926740

Im almost graduating with a double major in Math and Economics with enough credits for a minor in statistics
:^)
desu econ and statistics are cakewalk majors, math is what I spend most my time studying for
>>35926766
way to miss the point of the fact its offputting for women to be clingy for little reason past their hormones.

I prefer for a girl to like me for the fact we get along and have many of the same interests and past times
>>35926773
then why rail on women for not being sexually repressed?
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>>35926816
>Normalfags don't put this much effort into mental gymnastics.

This I agree with. Robots are so practiced with mental gymnastics that they don't need to put any effort into it; it's just instinctual.
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>>35926870
>sexually repressed
I can't believe this is actually a thing you people say, what a fucking joke.

Oh I don't have a penis in my vag, how awful. I couldn't care less, I'm disgusted by the fact that people prioritize immediate pleasure over sharing something special with someone you love.
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>>35926947
>oh no I can't have both
you are sexually repressed because at the age of 21 you've been having sexual urges for ~6 years and thus need to have ways to get rid of them OR you repress them
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>>35926870
I do EE. Those majors are good, but considering the amount of lying you've done throughout this thread I wouldn't be surprised if this is another one.
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>>35926870
Yeah, that's your preference, not a universal command. /r9k/ doesn't think like you. These guys vary a lot but seem to want all sorts of love and I wouldn't be surprised if they want to get married either.

You can't marry the town whore and expect her to know how love works, is the point of bringing up Oxytocin. That's my interpretation of why the CDC reported the marriage statistics that they did.
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>>35926972
It's called self control, something most people don't seem to have.
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Yeah you have to get a girl before she goes to college, but the ones that don't go to college in my experience start working in retail, or are waitresses and turn into even bigger sluts. Basically what I am saying is today if you don't meet a girl in high school you're always going to be getting "used goods". There is literally no way around this unless you date a really really really ugly weirdo girl. Any that is even moderately attractive has been fucked already.
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Its not like her retarded partying past is any worse than your social-isolationist past.
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>>35926979
Here are s0me of my notes of group theory

>tfw first time the photo flipped wrong
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>>35926998
the problem is these guys judge people for having normal sex lives at young age, which people have been doing since the beginning of human time
>>35927012
get off your high horse, the fact you are on 4chan arguing pointless shit instead of doing something productive makes your argument hypocritical
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Don't get cucked and ask her out
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>>35927159
It's not the same thing, but you're right, it's pointless. I'll block this site and do whatever I think will work. If nothing else I'll at least fool myself into thinking I have a chance.
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>>35927159
that anon wasn't making an argument
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I love how these robots act like their being virgins is because of some kind of virtue that they embody rather than because no girl wants them. If three hot girls wanted to have a foursome with one of these guys, their 'casual sex is degenerate' philosophies would be out the window in a heartbeat. The only reason that they think casual sex is bad is because they can't get any, and they're utterly butt-destroyed over the fact that other guys can.

>> Inb4 some lying virgin claims that he gets propositioned all the time but turns it down because 'muh redpill enlightenment'.
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>>35927159
I agree sex is just a natural thing people do yet I don't see these guys changing their minds because a few anonymous posters decide to proselytize healthier values like you seem to be attempting to do.

Though I respect the effort I generally think serious/fanatical posters on this board who aren't trolling are polluted by the byproducts of no fault divorce, less than stellar family courts and parents using their children rather than simply taking care of them and nurturing them. They are a symptom of a much bigger phenomenon in society, a cancer growing itself on the roots of the social tree.

In other words, I wouldn't even bother trying to help anyone here, I would just try to help robot-like guys I might encounter in my real life. For every one person you might help here chances are you just convinced three others that normies are ruining the board, reinforcing their beliefs.
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>>35927114
>post proof
>everyone will ignore it
>>35927215
>It's not the same thing
it isn't nominally but if you look at the fact you are wasting time doing an activity with no productive value except spending time socially instead of exercising self control to do other acts
>>35927221
on r9k everything is an argument
>>35927398
Agreed

r9k is just so toxic, which is why I stopped coming here years ago, I just feel bad because I was in roughly the same boat most of highschool and if I didnt get my shit together in college and senior year of HS I could be the same kid here arguing against other posters about muh virgin waifu

t. a loser who grew up playing GSG like EUII or HOI2 with only internet forum friends
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>>35925859
>also most normal and social guys/girls have 30+ partners by the time they graduate
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>>35927470
You posted proof of your major, but the other argument is practically settled. You only have your observations about "middle class attractive girls" being somehow promiscuous but still faithful in relationships, but I strongly suspect they follow the general trend. There isn't anything else to be said until someone can isolate that group.
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>>35927607
I really doubt someone who is pursing a statistics, sociology, or psychology masters/ph.d or professor in a research position will publish a scholarly study on this that isnt buried in the sheer numbers of papers published in a year

Otherwise I doubt no goverment agency will
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>>35927778
I also doubt it.
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>>35925982

I have an interest in psychology, history, etc and I also believe that this board has a somewhat toxic and echoey-chambery vibe to it with regards to some shit but the entire "roasties gonna roast" proposition cannot be ENTIRELY dismissed - a small sanity check will indicate that when human beings exist in an enviroment where something is avaiable in abundance that once had to be rationed then they are prone to overconsume it to their detriment. Everybody recognizes the extroidinarily SIMPLE argument that people are fatties because sugar, salt and fat are YUMMY because we could never get our dirty little ape hands on them often enough for the last million years, as opposed to the last one hundred.

Why is it also such a seriously unbelievable thing for you that women now exist in a state of toxic availability of so-called "chad cock" and that this may cause them to fail to function in some basic human way? is it REALLY so unbelievable that, with the arrival of the pill etc, and the entirely laudable goal of equality, and the socio-economic, cultural and politcal circumstances that makes it possible women, uniquely, have come to have too much of something just as men once had too much opportunity to scrap, women now have too much opportunity to fuck than is mentally GOOD for them?

I might add that I'm practically chad to many people on here...my gf WAS a virgin, from a catholic school, who never EVER took a selfie (why I picked her) and she is literally a cuddleaholic and was very open to ME sexually, but apparently cannot even imagine fucking anyone else (although accepts I still imagine fucking other girls).
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>>35928563

Sorry, replying to myself here because I'm a massive faggot:

I want to make it clear that I am not ruling all women to be entirely roasties due to the quite literally historically UNIQUE situation we occupy, anymore than all men must, by definiton, be violent shits. But to point out that MEN crowd the jails, because wheever else you do, you can't breed the violence completely out of males in even the brief span of civilization (which generally abhorred it unless directed outwards immediately) is not at all controversial.

Many men, such as myself, do abhor violence, and there are many women who ARE NOT sluts even though they could get away with it, like a smart guy could get away with a murder - this is where r9k goes wrong. There genuinely are a lot of loyal women. They may occasionally WANT to jump on another dick, like you want to ram some nu-males head throgh a wall as he umms his way through an ethical coffee order in starbucks, but they DON'T.

But on the other hand, it's sad as fuck to see any man trying to do the "HA HA!! I HAVE ONE COUNTER EXAMPLE SO THEREFORE WOMEN INITIATING 70% OF DIVORCES DOES NOT MATTER" is really fucking pathetic but, more importantly, argumentatively disengenous.
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>>35924945
Not really, I just don't want used goods. Imagine having a kid, and them learning that multiple men have cummed in all their mother's orfices. I truly feel sorry for Stacy's future kids.

>>35926131
You are part of the problem. Women can fuck around as much as they want, and they know they'll still marry someone as desperate for any inkling of love (lmao @ you if you really think she'll really love you) like yourself. They learn from an early age that their actions have little consequences, because they can depend on the existence of men like yourself.

Have some fucking self-respect. Get a decent Woman, or don't get one at all. The latter is preferable to being a betabux.
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>>35926487
This so much
Origigifuf
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>>35926780
The Anon >>35926659 replied to wasn't upset about being a Virgin, he was upset about not finding a Virgin he can marry.

Why can't you understand that some people aren't interested in sex for sex's sake?
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>>35923642
Girls who slept around understand that sex isnt as great as people make it out to be and it's not worth ruining a loving relationship for.

Girls who slept around have experience all their fantasies and desires and will never have that desire and curiosity lurking in the back of their mind tempting them to do something scummy and slutty during a relationship.

Girls who slept around make better long term partners.
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>>35929486
it's exactly as I said. if it's a troll, then ofc they'll pretend to be retarded. if it's real, then it's just further demonstration of their incapacity to understand minds and motivations significantly different from their own
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>>35929083
>you are part of the problem
well nigger, I'm single and have never had a girlfriend before. I would kill to feel for the first time in my 25 years of life what it is like to kiss a woman in her lips and have her close for more time than a huge lasts and let alone putting my hard penis inside a wet vagina.

A starving man will eat dog food, so it's whatever, I really don't have the option to choose, whatever comes it's what I take, I won't die as a virgin because of some stupid "standards" bullshit. I'm ugly, I'm fat, whatever woman that gets turned on by my autism is the first one I'm gonna fuck.

You get it now fuckboii?
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>>35929699
Why do they hide their killcount then?
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>>35929949
If all you want is the physical experience of having sex with a Woman, then you can fuck prostitues.

But if you want love, you won't find it from used goods that panic once Chad stops going after them, and marry you for your money. Even worse, they might divorce you, take half your money, and indulge in their old ways with normies. Look up numerous studies that show divorce rates increasing as number of sexual partners increase.

Anyway, do as you wish, but you should understand the risks of marrying a non-Virgin, and shouldn't kid yourself about how she feels about you, if you do marry her.
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